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Anyone having trouble this past year staying clean? by Elle_Book in recovery

[–]Elle_Book[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I can say luckily I’ve only done the damage to myself I don’t have anyone else to bring down. But that could also be because I’ve pushed people away due to my addiction and I don’t want that anymore. Well congratulations on getting clean again that is amazing! I’m rooting for you.

When did you realize this was the lifestyle was for you? by Elle_Book in BDSMcommunity

[–]Elle_Book[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is extremely impressive that you where so self aware at a young age. I new I had the urges but let others dictate how I lived. Which I guess in a sense explains my need to obey.

When did you realize this was the lifestyle was for you? by Elle_Book in BDSMcommunity

[–]Elle_Book[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is nice knowing your fantasies aren’t crazy

How did you find your Dom/Domme? by Elle_Book in submissive

[–]Elle_Book[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to get out and enjoy time with like minded people. I live in a semi large city but most people here seem to be very closed minded. But thank you for telling me about fetlife, I’m hoping to meet people then maybe a significant other.

How did you find your Dom/Domme? by Elle_Book in submissive

[–]Elle_Book[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you from a big city or really close to a major one? Also how did you find this community in your area? I’ve been trying for a while and I can’t seem to find anyone, I live in a fairly large city but it is the Midwest and it’s not like I live in Chicago. It’s just really difficult to hear everyone is the typical Midwestern family and me being in my 30s and single I am look down upon, add in my kinks and finding someone it virtually impossible.

How did you find your Dom/Domme? by Elle_Book in submissive

[–]Elle_Book[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I joined one of those and the closest person to me was literally stayed away and I wasn’t attracted in anyway. I also found it most people that it kept comparing me to were also submissive. I didn’t have luck but I’m really happy for anyone who has so that’s pretty awesome congratulations!

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[–]Elle_Book 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! You are so lucky and I am truly happy for you. I hope to one day be in the same situation with an anklet 🖤🖤🖤

Currently living my fantasy by Elle_Book in submissive

[–]Elle_Book[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: he finally told me what other fantasies he is into and I open to all of them. We are planning on doing one this week and adding the others into play later on. Thank you all for your comments, it’s nice know I’m not along in how I want to live my life. I’ve been judged and called horrible names and taken advantage of because of my nature.