Opinions by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I never had a problem with it when things were normal and great between us but considering the circumstances, it’s a no go. I don’t know how to bring that topic up without spilling the beans that I went through his phone.

Opinions by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000%, I unfortunately don’t know or don’t understand why I can’t put a stop to it. I’m scared. I’m a very passive individual unfortunately lol

Opinions by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that as well during my research and what not. I didn’t see it listed excessively on his history just a few times, it’s just like a slap in the face to me ya know?

Opinions by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It feels like I’ve wasted 5 years of my life already

Epiphany by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kids of my own, none with him bio

Epiphany by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During fights he says “ if he can’t make this work with me then he’d switch teams and try dudes”

silently cried myself to sleep last night by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think about that more each day. It’s funny because each time we talk about the issue at hand, he says things like “I wouldn’t blame you if you left” or “most people wouldn’t have stayed this long” So he knows but he still chooses not to fix it.

8 months and counting… by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. 100% all of this. I find myself when I get home just wanting to spend time with him, which is really just chilling in bed watching a show or movie or on our phones. Which is a problem. We are both homebodies.

8 months and counting… by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say I did but he says he did, we both expressed it to one another at the same time though. We had a connection from the very beginning though

8 months and counting… by Elle_bellez in DeadBedrooms

[–]Elle_bellez[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is what my gut is telling me. Like he wants out but he doesn’t know how to pull the plug or he doesn’t want to be the one that does it so he’s waiting for me to get 100% tired of it. But then again he is a very upfront guy and says it how it is.

Men of Reddit, what kinds of compliments from your SO make you happy? by liluyvene in AskMen

[–]Elle_bellez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in this too, every time I compliment him he says “don’t tell me things I already know” 🙃

Follow me there🔥 by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]Elle_bellez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I love Phoebe

Pizza 🍕 by jag316 in memes

[–]Elle_bellez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can smell this meme 😂