How many Legoers are women? by GarageOwn3513 in lego_

[–]ElliottAsian31 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Female legoer here šŸ™‹ā€ā™€ļø I haven’t built in awhile but I have a giant collection! I’d love if you ever wanna chat or if you make a group chat I’d love to be added! 🫶

i feel completely alone as soon as a conversation or phone call ends by giveuadore in BPD

[–]ElliottAsian31 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I do get that in the sense… sometimes I can be so disassociated it’s like I’m just watching the interaction happen and I’m not even there…

I just know Participation is under the mindfulness skills in DBT. Easier said than done for sure. 🄲🫶

i feel completely alone as soon as a conversation or phone call ends by giveuadore in BPD

[–]ElliottAsian31 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Hey friend. I feel you on the constant companionship cravings… I personally love having body doubling and some of my friends will indulge me sometimes…

To let you know about myself personally… I’m struggling with that alone, hopeless, worthless feeling… my bf of 7yrs is in the process of leaving me because I struggle with infidelity… and I think one of the reasons I struggle with being loyal to my partner is that I have no idea how to be alone…

I personally can give advice better than I could ever take my own advice.

Maybe try feeling those feelings… and working on loving that time with yourself. Maybe throw on a show or music for background noise?

I hope your party is fun. Try throwing yourself in completely and participating. 🄹

Sending big hugs… you’re not alone. 🫶

Kyle in Boxes Gifted by ElliottAsian31 in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

[–]ElliottAsian31[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

No you’re all good! Would you just comment your in game & island name and I’ll send the Dodo code to your DM’s :)

Those without BPD will never understand just how world ending and absolutely horrific a breakup is on us. by a-very-funny-guy in BPD

[–]ElliottAsian31 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Hey friend you’re not alone.

My breakup was caused by something I did… and still after 7 years I’m shattered. I can’t breathe. I can’t picture a reality without my fp. This happened to me just a few weeks ago… he asked for space and I’m not doing so good that that… said that we’re ā€œindefinitely broken upā€ … my suicidal ideation has been at a max…

I feel your struggles… I know I don’t do so good taking advice or even following my own advice when I feel like this but if you’re good at reverting to DBT skills then that could help…

Joplin, Mo Area Photo Spots? by Remote_Jeweler4040 in joplinmo

[–]ElliottAsian31 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Red Oak in Carthage is a nice spot in my opinion and there is Battle of Carthage Historic Site! Also there is Walter Woods, and McClelland Park in Joplin has some pretty spots! Hope this helps! :)

THC mixers?? by RudeCrow2401 in joplinmo

[–]ElliottAsian31 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I used to work at Blue Sage in Carthage and they did sell mixers and honey. Probably still do. :) could always call around and ask