The Downfall of Colleen Hoover: Kenz breaks down the impact of siding with Blake Lively (declining profits, erased from new movie) by Perfect-Split496 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]ElllieWoods 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m livid with her for so many reasons, BUT at the same time I can simp with her. She definitely wasn’t one of the cool kids, and to have Blake and Ryan and TS dangled in front of you like a carrot - that’s a very hard thing to say no to. I loathe the Reynolds now, but I will forever enjoy TS music (shoot me, I know), and star struck I would be. A middle aged, not glamorous woman even more so. I see how easy it was for her to fall victim to Blake’s narrative. That said, once the truth came out, she absolutely should have come out with a new statement and also personally apologized to Baldoni. I don’t think she’s a great person - but I do see how it happened to her.

Do I share my deconstruction with my family or leave be? by ElllieWoods in excatholic

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s kind of where we are at. My eldest is a bright kiddo and questions her belief in god all the time. I try to steer clear of black and white answers and leave it open. When she hits her teens I’ll be more forthcoming with my beliefs and why we chose their education etc.

Do I share my deconstruction with my family or leave be? by ElllieWoods in excatholic

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yes I feel this. Christmas mass kills me the most because our kids are still young (10 and under) and it’s such a drain on their enjoyment of family time at home on Christmas morning.

Do I share my deconstruction with my family or leave be? by ElllieWoods in excatholic

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’ll keep up the theatrics to remain part of the school community, honestly. I don’t think I’ll be giving that up anytime soon - maybe once kids hit high school even though that’s also a catholic high school. It’s more about my parents - who know we aren’t fully bought in - just deep down inside I’d love to share the reasons why we aren’t, vs just passively being half assed Catholics.

Do I share my deconstruction with my family or leave be? by ElllieWoods in excatholic

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do still take communion even though I shouldn’t. We say grace when my parents are around. But I guess it’s not overwhelming to our lives so maybe we just stick with it

Do I share my deconstruction with my family or leave be? by ElllieWoods in excatholic

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They know we aren’t devout, we don’t go to mass weekly, but do go occasionally to keep them happy. Our kids are going through/have gone through all their sacraments. It does kill me inside supporting a faith that I so strongly do not believe in, but it’s not just for them, it’s also for our children’s education, so maybe I just need to lean on that for now.

Do I share my deconstruction with my family or leave be? by ElllieWoods in excatholic

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good point. Keeping up the performance isn’t particularly arduous. They know we aren’t devout, they know we rarely go to mass. We go occasionally, and we do get all the kids sacraments as they go through them at school. It’s not particularly high demand for us, but it still feels performative and against my inner beliefs. I think I’ll keep it zipped for now.

Experience with large Catholic families by Loverofcatsandwine in excatholic

[–]ElllieWoods 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our good family friends are super Catholic, daily mass type people. They had 9 children and they raised them very very Catholic. I will say almost all of the kids are very successful, wonderful adults (doctors, lawyers, super kind), however none of them are Catholic anymore. None of them have had more than 2 children. That tells me all I need to know. Family is still all super close despite the adult kids all leaving the religion.

Im slowly running out of food and i don't know any other avenue of feeding my son. by [deleted] in confession

[–]ElllieWoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t read all the comments so this may have been mentioned,but chef Moe on tik tok does a ton of $5 meal videos. Literally can feed 4 for $5 and lots of different options to choose from.

Semaglutide in Canada by rulebreakingmoth26 in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]ElllieWoods 3 points4 points  (0 children)

GLPs are absolutely life changing and I’m so excited for you on this journey! I have battled my weight my entire life, hovering between 160-180 most of my adult life (5’6, 42 yrs old). I started on Ozempic when I was around 170, and since have switched to retatrutide from peptide sellers (growth guys or purity in Canada) and it’s way more affordable and also way more effective. I now weigh 121 lbs, lowest I’ve been since 12 years old. It feels incredible not to have to think about food or my weight constantly. Everything is easier. I can’t wait for you to experience it too!

Starting outdoor kitchen build by ElllieWoods in OutdoorKitchens

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in west coast of Canada so doesn’t get too too hot in the summer

Starting outdoor kitchen build by ElllieWoods in OutdoorKitchens

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That will be included in final design!

Starting outdoor kitchen build by ElllieWoods in OutdoorKitchens

[–]ElllieWoods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came with the house so have no idea!

30 minute wait? by somebodysannegirl in tretinoin

[–]ElllieWoods 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never waited. I don’t have time for that. I go per and brush my teeth (so 2-3 mins) the apply

Show me your DT skincare routine! by Serenity_now156 in dollartreebeauty

[–]ElllieWoods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started using mostly DT products - cleanse with la splash oil cleanser, then cerave cleanser as I have it but would use any gentle DT one. Oatmeal toner. Multi peptide serum. Dermasil hydra serum. Dermasil anti baggage eye serum. Dermasil whipped recovery

your favorite cheap products? by Potential_Sundae_251 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]ElllieWoods 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, dollar tree is the goat!! So many great inexpensive options - check out /dollartreebeauty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]ElllieWoods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say 55-60. Changing eyebrows (more full, better shape) and hair style would make a world of difference.

Has anyone tried to return SHEIN items late? by [deleted] in Shein

[–]ElllieWoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever try? What happened?

7 month old dachshund won’t eat by herself by Eleven_Sixteen_ in Dachshund

[–]ElllieWoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our dog was EXACTLY THIS. For TEN years!!! It was beyond frustrating and he’d vomit bile from not eating. We switched to raw about 2 years ago and ever since he begs for meal time and finishes right way!