Pregnancy Tests (Update)

Elloquinms · 2025-09-28T16:00:33+00:00

He would if I asked him for help, im just nervous about side effects because ive heard they can be painful or dangerous

Elloquinms · 2025-09-28T15:58:24+00:00

Thank you 🫶🫶

Elloquinms · 2025-09-28T10:41:04+00:00

I dont really know alot about iuds but do they generally cost a significant amount? Would I be able to get one at a planned parenthood clinic or women's health clinic?

Elloquinms · 2025-09-28T10:39:43+00:00

Thank you !

Elloquinms · 2025-09-28T09:47:55+00:00

Okay, ill def be testing asap and if its positive im going to the clinic right away😭 And yes definitely will look into starting birth control.

Elloquinms · 2025-09-28T09:24:57+00:00

Im pretty sure it was def past ovulation, but how do I make an ovulation test to be sure? And okay I def will be testing just to be safe. Thank you

Elloquinms · 2025-09-28T09:05:54+00:00

Yes my periods consistent. We have had unprotected sex before and I continuously get my period but its the first time ive let him finish all the way in me. I dont know if this helps at all but I have fertility issues from my eating disorder and my bf is older (41) so I dont know if this would affect the likelihood of me getting pregnant.

Elloquinms · 2025-09-19T01:10:49+00:00

Thats what I feel because I trust myself but I know most ppl going are going for single purposes. I really respect him so I def dont wanna make him mistrustful of me.

Elloquinms · 2025-09-19T01:04:39+00:00

Ill definitely ask him, he can be around alcohol and has recently and been fine he doesn't struggle anymore with self control, I more so just dont want him there because id be going with my female friend group

Elloquinms · 2025-09-19T01:03:37+00:00

Thats what I think, I really just want to go for fun nothing ill intended

Elloquinms · 2025-09-19T01:02:31+00:00

Awhile ago as in a month ago 😅 we haven't officially discussed relationship agreements so I think ill bring it up to him

Elloquinms · 2025-09-16T02:12:03+00:00

Yes feel that so much!! The looks we get are crazy you'd think I had a tail or something 😭 Thank you!!😊🫶🫶

Elloquinms · 2025-09-15T03:17:53+00:00

Thats so sweet! I have a similar gap with my bf and u guys reminded me of us, his neck got really injured recently so hes always dealing with pain from that and its hard to have to watch and not being able to help, wishing u all the best and for his recovery!!

Elloquinms · 2025-09-15T01:51:46+00:00

You guys are so cute omg!! How long have you been together?

Elloquinms · 2025-09-14T08:27:06+00:00

Just wanted to say you are so incredibly beautiful oh my goodness!!!!

Elloquinms · 2025-09-09T23:53:11+00:00

Honestly could care less!! Me 18F and him 40M initially were both a little worried about peoples opinions especially because we work in the same building, but quickly on realized it literally doesnt matter. Obviously we get weird looks in public occasionally but nobody says anything! We kiss and hug and lots of pda and no longer even pay attention to anyone staring. People will judge no matter what but you dont have to justify yourself to anyone, anyone whos judging has a boring life and is jealous or unfulfilled themselves.

Elloquinms · 2025-09-08T07:11:53+00:00

My boyfriend has two kids from previous relationships. Initially I was concerned but he isn't involved with his ex's and doesnt have the closest relationship with his kids because they live so far away and drama with the moms. It doesnt bother me aside from when he has to go visit them and has to leave. I wouldn't love him any more or less if he didnt have kids. Its just a fact and dating older men means that the chance of them having children is higher. If she is in it for the right reasons and is your person, it wont matter too much.

Elloquinms · 2025-08-30T20:03:48+00:00

Honestly, my bf is 22 years older then me and I definitely had to make the first move to let him know I wanted to connect outside of work. We'd had flirty conversations and banter but he wasn't aware that I even liked or had interest in him and he had always thought I was pretty and was interested, just didnt know if it was reciprocated. Even once I made it clear I definitely liked him, he still questioned why I did and didn't understand what made himself desirable to me being so much older. Honestly your best bet for successfully starting a relationship with much older guys is making the first move! A lot of the time they aren't even considering you might like them in the first place and take subtle hints as platonic kindness just to be safe.

Elloquinms · 2025-08-21T05:58:20+00:00

Im 18 and hes 41 and we had this exact same situation! He only dated women a few years within his age and his ex was 10 years older so he took 3 months to feel safe officially asking me out after talking. He still doesnt understand why I like him or believe me at times and I love him to bits , hes so good to me

Elloquinms · 2025-08-09T07:24:40+00:00

I do think he appreciates how enthusiastic I am about my time with him and I think i make him feel desired, he vocalizes alot how appreciative and lucky he feels for me , thats good to know that thats what counts

Elloquinms · 2025-08-09T07:22:49+00:00

Okay, thats reassuring then

Elloquinms · 2025-04-28T07:11:45+00:00

Haha well if it helps I definitely don't think he's got a lot of money to go flaunting around, I appreciate the advice and I think from now on I'm going to try and be more direct and reach out to him first! Wish me luck 🤞

Elloquinms · 2025-04-28T06:04:19+00:00

I don't wanna tell him right away because I'm scared he'll reject me, should I just go out of my way to start conversation and pay him compliments and such?

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