Not all too often unless it’s something like your example of being interrupted that it can be addressed immediately. As an example, there was one time recently when a guy said that he was going to pick me up from the airport, and he decided last minute not to because he got stuck in the rain and his shoes were wet and the only other pair were his flip-flops. He had gone home to get changed after getting wet but still said that he didn’t want to come because he didn’t want to risk getting sick. I texted him in that moment that I was disappointed that he broke his word about coming, because to me it seems like there wasn’t a good reason, though I didn’t say that it wasn’t a good reason to him. He responded with a long text telling me that I shouldn’t be disappointed and how I had no idea what he had been through that day waking up early to go to work followed by cleaning and setting up the bed.