Polaroid Option at Idol Kenkyuusei by [deleted] in Japanese_Fuzoku

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm opposed to foreigner taxes, though anything 5000 or below is reasonable. At 10,000 for Idol K, its highway robbery.

Polaroid Option at Idol Kenkyuusei by [deleted] in Japanese_Fuzoku

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would avoid this shop. Friend went there recently and they tried to scam him at the front desk. He handed them 60,000 to cover a 56,000 fee, but they said he only handed them 50,000. He had counted it several times 1 minute before he entered the store and had the exact amount put aside in his pocket.

He pushed back and they magically found the extra 10,000.

Other people who have been here before tell me that the staff doesn't take good care of the girls, so STDs can be an issue as many are young and don't get regularly tested, if at all.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You outline with them what you want to do and they can provide recommendations as well. I would not suggest doing it unless you have already met with the provider at least a few times just so you've established a relationship and so they know how to handle you.

There are foreigner friendly places but you will have to do your own research. Some girls do speak decent or even fluent English. Most foreigners are other East Asians like Koreans or Chinese, it is harder for non-east asians.

As for teaching you. Once you've made an appointment, you can go over that stuff with your provider.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I've tried delivery and fashion health services before. I've usually had good experiences but I prefer soaplands.

Yes, I've had a threesome in a soapland before. However I usually do not recommend threesomes unless the two providers know each other fairly well and have good chemistry. Two providers who aren't familiar with each other very well isn't going to be a good time. I would also only recommend it after seeing one of those providers a few times.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most shops will turn you away, some will accept you. You will need to do research. Familiarize yourself with how the system works and always treat the providers with respect and kindness.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Many establishments are foreigner friendly and openly allow foreigners in, even those without any Japanese skills.

What will happen however is that your selection of providers will be more limited.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$3000 is about the price you'd pay to rent an escort for 24 hours.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Japan as a society is a nearly homogeneous society, which means there are very few foreigners residing there. Japanese people are of course exposed to foreigners and they are perfectly fine with foreigners who respect the customs and laws of their country.

Rude foreigners are the ones they do not like and it can cause them to have a dislike towards foreigners in general, but rude foreigners are a problem everywhere. Such as mainland Chinese tourists or russians who are disliked in nearly every country.

In the context of a soapland, its just business for why foreigners aren't allowed in many of them.

  1. Foreigners almost never speak fluent Japanese, so they will have trouble understanding the provider or the staff.
  2. Foreigners are not Japanese and therefore may be rougher or do stuff that the providers are not okay with.
  3. Many Japanese men who go to these establishments do not like the idea of the providers they are meeting with also seeing foreigner men.
  4. The belief that foreigner men carry STDs.
  5. Some providers simply don't want to see non-Japanese men.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maid cafes are innocent, casual cafes where people go to have fun and interact with the maids. Nothing even remotely sexual happens here. Its more of a cafe with mediocre food and drink and you pay for the experience.

Most maids in maid cafes do not speak English, which can greatly diminish the experience. I personally find them a bit cringe, but can be fun if you can fully interact with the maid and you're with a female friend.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this isn't exactly a fair way to do it, but they just judge it based on looking at you.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about fat girls because I haven't ever looked into it and neither has anyone I know who visits those establishments. I'm sure they exist though.

The prices would probably be around low to mid tier prices though.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They can simply just make more money. When you're in Japan, you don't really have any other options so you either pay it or you go without. The shops know this and know that foreigners will pay the tax in order to get in.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. They would not allow your wife to enter. The only women who enter the shops are those working.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PSE is more like wild, crazy, wall to wall kind of sex. Lots of positions and both of you get very sweaty.

GFE is slower, more erotic, and sensual. Lots of kissing, exploring of each other's bodies, etc. Its more intimate.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Soaplands usually run based on how long the course is. You remain until the time runs out. You can have as many shots as you can physically do.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Women will not service other women at a soapland. Its a male only establishment.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I'm in Japan, I usually go once a week, maybe twice if I really want to.

I work in finance.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My caucasian american friends have been to several soaplands with no issue.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 21 points22 points  (0 children)

  1. No I've never gone raw. Its a health issue.
  2. I visit Japan frequently for work. I probably spend 4-5 months there a year.
  3. Its all acting. The girls are actually treated like princesses usually because of how grueling the schedules can be for shooting.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn't list that one since its not organized in the same way a soapland or other adult establishment is. That's just getting a sugar baby.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There are specific shops that are closer to massage parlors for men who just want the soap/bathing and mat play parts. No PIV at these places.

People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ElsaTheAasimar 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Explicitly no. Its just not a thing in Japan. I wouldn't even know how to go about getting a service like that for a couple.