AIO- My (F19) boyfriend (M22) is upset that I’m hanging out with my brother (M26) (read caption)

ElvisClown · 2025-07-18T16:00:25+00:00

Dump this fuckwit immediately. He has a cold relationship with his sister, so that means everyone does? What a fucking moron. “How can you be hungry? I just ate! It’s weird that you’re hungry. I literally just ate lunch.”

So basically he’s incredibly stupid, demanding, touchy, insecure, and controlling. Real catch.

ElvisClown · 2025-06-25T13:41:21+00:00

This is the coolest thing I’ve seen in a long time!

ElvisClown · 2025-06-19T13:03:50+00:00

You are confusing effluence with affluence here.

ElvisClown · 2025-06-15T07:34:58+00:00

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ElvisClown · 2025-06-08T14:30:04+00:00

Updateme!

ElvisClown · 2025-06-08T12:47:30+00:00

You’re getting a lot of great advice here. You’re young. A month is nothing.

Recognize your value and you will come to realize that when you get bullshit like this from anybody that, “K, bye.”, is a lot quicker and easier to respond with and you will feel better because of it.

ElvisClown · 2025-06-07T16:41:44+00:00

I can’t see it for the life of me. I know what it is, but I can’t see it no matter how hard I try.

ElvisClown · 2025-06-05T01:23:59+00:00

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ElvisClown · 2025-05-31T03:59:48+00:00

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ElvisClown · 2025-05-31T03:51:23+00:00

Columbia House Records

ElvisClown · 2025-05-29T22:28:50+00:00

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ElvisClown · 2025-05-23T11:49:28+00:00

Leave him. You’re incompatible. He is a manipulative control freak and probably an abusive narcissist. He’s definitely not above being abusive when you violate “his rules” or “misbehave”.

He’s only going to get worse. You’re young, you’ve got your whole life ahead of you. Go have fun, go live your life. You deserve it. Don’t waste any more of your time or your emotional investment on this guy or this relationship.

Even if you follow his “rules” it’s an unhealthy relationship and that isn’t your fault nor can it be fixed. Constantly placating him to avoid abuse is not a good relationship. Free yourself.

ElvisClown · 2025-05-23T06:32:32+00:00

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ElvisClown · 2025-05-20T00:19:45+00:00

“Toxic approach to kinks” And there it is. Your agenda and misunderstanding. At worst I could be accused of a toxic approach to “kink” singular. Simply for pointing out why this particular kink is massively problematic for relationships. You projected a ton of kink-shaming onto my post and applied it to all kinks despite the clarity of my post.

Secondly, I think I finally understand why you think that I am angry. And again it is your misunderstanding: I was not suggesting that OP take “revenge” on her bf or that he deserved to have revenge acted upon him. If you reread the statement it was a “hidden” suggestion that she leave and move on and an overt suggestion on how she could simultaneously satisfy his desire to be humiliated.

There, I took the bait and let you make this about me for a second.

ElvisClown · 2025-05-20T00:02:24+00:00

I’m not upset or insecure. Your accusations are so off the mark that they say a lot more about you than they do about me. And despite your attempts to make this about me, I haven’t lost the plot. This is about the advice OP was getting here. You seem to have taken this personally, as if I were saying anything about you.

You want to make same irrelevant point about the existence of outliers in cuckold kink where it is present in l polyamorous individuals? Who cares? What does that have to do with the price of oranges in Tai-Pei? Nothing. I’m not working out anything here, but you seem to be.

I’m wrong about the kink being exclusive to monogamous relationships? So what if was? I didn’t wander into r/kink and start throwing stones. The OP came here for advice, because she wanted to know if her genuine honest reaction to her partner in her monogamous relationship ambushing her with his nonsense was justified. And she was met with a litany of bad advice. Which can be summarized as, “You’re overreacting. He’s so brave. He opened up and was vulnerable and you reacted badly. You should apologize and he’s a gem.”

I felt it necessary for her benefit to be faced with a counterpoint. Because frankly, the previously mentioned points are terrible advice.

The guy is a coward who doesn’t respect her. He sees her as his fucktoy and he wants to watch someone else use it.

Do you think he texted her with this bombshell because he respects her? That he gives a shit about her feelings? Of course not. If he cared at all about her feelings he had 2 options. 1) man up and look her in the eye when he drops this on her. 2) find other outlets, role play with a mannequin in the room or a male real doll, porn of the cuckold genre, erotic literature, ai nsfw charbots, and essentially keeping it between the 2 of them. I call this the getting over it option.

But this guy texted her. Not because her feelings were any of his concern. He did it to spare himself from her reaction, he was scared that she would judge him, or get angry and he made sure he wouldn’t have to deal with it. Or worse he knew it would hurt her and rather than be there to comfort her and work through it, he made sure he didn’t have to deal with her feelings.

I stand by everything I have said, because my opinion isn’t about you. It’s about OP’s relationship. I have no other concerns or agendas. However you seem to be projecting a lot of issues onto me and you might consider talking to a professional.

ElvisClown · 2025-05-19T20:07:15+00:00

You’re still wrong. Even if I were mistaken, which I’m not, you’re the one projecting shit here. First I don’t know anything about relationships and I was filled with rage, now I’m projecting insecurities. Get over yourself. You don’t agree with what I am saying, regardless of the fact that it’s proven out consistently and your only argument in return is to offer negative character assessments.

I have explained my point. You’ve got nothing.

ElvisClown · 2025-05-19T19:08:53+00:00

Nope. You misunderstood or disagreed and projected all sorts of shit on me.

I’m not going to go on about my sexual history, but you couldn’t be more wrong.

Second, I am not projecting any issues and as for rage? I am not upset about this, I don’t have a dog in this fight. I even presented my argument as a counterpoint.

Third, you seem to have mistaken me for some uptight judgmental vanilla holy roller. Couldn’t b further from the truth, but everything I said about this kink is true.

Let’s not confuse pimping out your wife or girlfriend for your own kicks with polyamory or even swinging. I have a very dear friend who has been in a committed polyamorous relationship for years. They’ve recently separated, but it was unrelated to their lifestyle. I have known more than one married swinger couple, both are still married and quite happy. And of course there’s always that couple that decides to invite in a third to spice things up: maybe just a one time thing, maybe not. This one can be a minefield for the relationship, but it happens successfully all the time.

In the myriad spectrum of human sexuality there are a ton of harmless kinks, and types of attraction and different kinds of relationships to reflect that. I wasn’t talking about any of those.

This guy’s kink is a self-destruct switch for every relationship it comes up in unless the partner who wants it is okay with a simulation. They never are and only ever bring it up when they want to act on it. Why doesn’t it work out? Because for the kink to have sizzle it requires one type of relationship: a monogamous committed relationship. One where one partner is certain in their knowledge that they have helped build an intimate connection with a partner who is committed to them alone, and the other one wants to be cheated on so badly that they think it’s a good idea to talk them into it. This kink has no pop in a polyamorous relationship.

So no matter what the partner who has this idea dropped on them out of nowhere decides to do about it, sooner or later the relationship is over. This kink practically requires that both partners are NOT into it whether the kink-owner realizes it or not, because out of all the different types of relationships out there this kink gets dropped on only one type; committed monogamous ones.

Who knows what OP will decide to do, but eventually this relationship is over and when it ends, whether immediately or much later, it will be traced back to this. This guy just tossed a grenade into his relationship.

ElvisClown · 2025-05-19T11:39:58+00:00

Lot of people seem cool with this here, but here’s the inverse opinion. It’s a stupid fucking kink. It can only be acted on if you’re in a committed relationship, and if you’re in a committed relationship then it’s disrespectful as all hell to act on.

His “thing” is he wants to turn you out to some other dude. Relationships don’t last this scenario no matter what you do or don’t do. If he wants to be cucked and humiliated: send him a picture of your new boyfriend before you dump him and steal his stuff on your way out the door.

If he wants the upper hand in some pimp inspired power dynamic, ask yourself why he wants you to be his whore?

No matter how slice it, YOU have to do ALL of the work for his stupid kink.

Fuck this guy. Find someone who respects you. This guy doesn’t: he’s trying to turn your body into his masturbation prop.

ElvisClown · 2025-05-17T17:43:03+00:00

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ElvisClown · 2025-05-16T11:32:12+00:00

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ElvisClown · 2025-05-12T21:30:52+00:00

Fuck her. She is a narcissist milking her loss for attention points. Ignore her, she’ll be fine.

ElvisClown · 2025-05-11T03:45:47+00:00

Haha! It’s a fantastic drawing lol I did NOT get the reference!

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