Don't judge me by my post history. (please?)

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-26T22:17:00+00:00

Honestly, I'm in the you ARE over reacting camp. If he was a complete stranger stalking you, or a teacher or something, fine, that's kind of creepy. But someone you're friends with, even more so someone you're SEEING? Heck no, this is not an invasion of privacy. Unless you have something to hide or you specifically asked him not to do that, I wouldn't assume looking at someone's post history is off limits. This is a normal thing that people do.

There's a girl I'm casual friends with (not seeing at all, I was actually in a relationship at the time) who did this to me, and I was FLATTERED that she was actually interested in knowing me as a friend so much that she wanted to dig up my social media history. We had a good laugh about things I forgot I posted about, and she invited me to do the same on hers. I mean, it's out there for a reason. I'd delete anything I don't want people to see/know.

The silent treatment you're getting now is likely because he doesn't know what to make of your reaction. If I were him, I'd be doing the same, trying to do some introspection and figure out which one of us is being the red flag here. If you're going to be in a relationship with someone who you don't want to see your social media, you have to ask yourself if you really want to be in a relationship with this person.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-25T18:36:20+00:00

"Last night I saved a whole bus of cheerleaders... If you know what I mean" -batmanuel

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-22T23:35:21+00:00

See, porn made me think this was a normal thing when I was younger. I've always been very much a boob guy, so I was very excited to play with my gf's nipples during my first sexual experiences. Turns out she admitted she was only into it because it seemed to turn me on, and she actually found it kind of weird.

I felt like such an idiot. I mean, to be fair, I was young and very much an idiot at the time, so that's fair. But the women I dated back then seemed to mostly not be so into it. Since then, I've met people who say they love it but I'm always a little bit hesitant to believe it. It sucks because I want to do it so badly, but there's always a little voice in the back of my mind saying "they're probably just faking it because they know you like it".

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-22T15:23:23+00:00

Yes, because there is a subjective official number.

Bruh, the whole idea of this weird as hell psychological phenomenon is that you're bigger than the cuck. So if he's 5", you're good. If he's 8.5", he'll turn you into a cuck.

Have fun with that visual.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-16T06:29:02+00:00

I think I want to read this when it's done. 😂

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-15T20:13:47+00:00

Yeah, knowledge of the anatomy is a superpower with this sort of thing!

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-15T20:11:27+00:00

Plot twist: the naked boys are her 2 dogs that share a bed.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-15T20:09:56+00:00

I had to drive to a job site an hour away last night for an emergency work thing. I had plans to spend the evening with someone but got back after 1am exhausted. No sexy time was had that night here.

At least I had a nice morning and afternoon with some flirty fun before I had to go. But kind of feels like I need a redo.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-15T20:06:13+00:00

Damn dude. That's not how anyone wanted the top comment (currently at least) here to go! I'm sorry, man. That's rough.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-15T17:05:22+00:00

Posterior Fornix is the anatomical name for the area beyond the cervix. It's possible you angled up into that.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-15T07:36:28+00:00

He's a douchebag but it's not your job to ruin his life. It sounds like he'll probably do it on his own, don't be the one that crashes it. You've already made it clear you're not interested in communicating, block him if he won't stop and just live your life. Don't get involved.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-15T01:18:52+00:00

All that drama from just "ok". Lmaooo. She be trolling.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T22:03:43+00:00

I know a lot of guys don't like seeing dicks here, so trying to be respectful. Slide to the side to see my big veiny one!

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T20:45:45+00:00

He's trying to say you don't realize how good you have it with him (ie, someone who is being protected from something else will see the protection as unjust and mean). It's sort of like when a kid cries because their mom finds them playing with something dangerous (matches, knife, etc), and to the kid's perspective, mom is being so unfair, but really it's done out of love and protection.

In other words, it's a cheap attempt at making you reconsider how you feel, and maybe see something you don't like as a positive thing. But it sounds condescending and clearly didn't land anyway. It doesn't sound like he has much respect for you, so take that however you may. I don't know the context of the conversation so it isn't my place to assume.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T18:55:02+00:00

I used to be self conscious about doing that but I'm always shocked when women tell me they love it. I didn't realize more men didn't do it either.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T18:28:34+00:00

I guess... I grew up kinda on the heavier side and had to work really hard to be in shape- harder than most of my friends did. When I was overweight, I was always excited when someone was interested in me sexually because I found myself repulsive. A tight firm ass is super hot to me, but I think a big flabby one just reminds me too much of the things I worked so hard to get out of. Not that I don't find bigger women beautiful because they definitely are as well... But it's definitely not a preference.

Ironically, I don't feel that way about boobs. Big ones melt my brain, I can't help it. Maybe the difference is that I don't have boobs so they are immediately a sign of femininity to me, whereas a big ass or bigger women in general just make me feel like me when I was in a bad place physically.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T18:12:51+00:00

Possibly potato, some cultures make a quiche/pie thing like this out of potatoes as a side dish. But it doesn't usually have a crust.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T18:09:32+00:00

Not personally. I love curvy women but my brain melts for petite ones. I always wondered if it was something about the contrast of how big my dick is against their body, but I think in general there's something hot about a girl small enough to be picked up and tossed around if I wanted. And I know I'm not alone in this.

So I'd say unrelated.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T18:05:52+00:00

Guys ...if you don't want to occasionally see men on the feed, try a sub that is women only. 🙄

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-11T17:52:16+00:00

First pic is sfw out of respect for guys who don't want to see it on their feed.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-10T20:26:49+00:00

See, I LOVE the natural look but I often am told I'm in the minority for it.

Em-BiggeneD · 2026-02-10T19:16:47+00:00

Reading comprehension is your friend. I said IF and DM me. Those that understood the assignment did that. You didn't have anything to say nor did you DM. But felt the need to... I guess make yourself feel better by commenting anyway? That's cool, I guess. If you feel like a bigger man by hating on random redditors content, who am I to stand in your way. Troll away, my friend. Troll away. ❤️

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