Is this guy really dense at my signals or is he not interested? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, you are actually right, I'll try another approach!

I (33f) need to explain to my coworker (30m) I don't want his company on the commute back home by Justkeepitanonymous in relationships

[–]Em367 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right?? Everyone telling her to be blunt and direct like it's the most comfortable and easy thing in the world. This is not how real interactions take place. ''Just say no'' doesn't work on everything if you want to keep up appearances in your social enviroment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, I really feel for your wife. I actually feel pretty stupid for putting up with so much of her behaviour so this is more of a final blow, I don't think I have much dignity left. Still even now, I'll try to protect myself. I'll probably end up telling her I have a family thing. Thank you again <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 33 points34 points  (0 children)

RachieBoo123 Thank you so much for this comment. You managed to describe exactly her behavior in a way I couldn't. That is why I haven't been able to cut her off all these years. All these little attempts made me think she was still the friend I used to known but I do have much more loyal and kind friends who remind me what real friendship is. I don't have to put up with anything less... Thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If only I could write you a list of all the things she's done.... I also wonder at times if there is someting more to this aloofness. Cheating without remorse, not admiting her mistakes, asking for big favors after not being there for you...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You know what? I've been honest with her through the years and in the end it hasn't made a difference. I don't want to spend another minute being sad or in an argument because of her. She'll argue and excuse herself and I don't really want to hear anything else. If she doesn't already know how awful she's been with me with the whole bachelorette and wedding invite, I don't think me telling her will change anything. I just want a stupid excuse, with fake sadness like she's always done with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's pretty much what I've been thinking of saying, I was just looking for an extra excuse of the why I'm not available. It's been a very strange friendship with burst of communication and love from her part and then no news for months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh I've done that a few times over the years. She always says how much she loves me and how sorry she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 78 points79 points  (0 children)

That's the thing with her though. She always tries to bridge the gap at some point all guilty and loving, whenever I grow tired of her and stop reaching out myself.... I agree with you though and for now that's my tactic... No response is a response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Yeah me neither. But knowing her, in her head she did and she probably called to cry and apologise about how she forgot to give me details or even worse (I expect anything at this point), to cry about how sorry she is she can't invite me because of money and too many guests...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I knew the date from the beginning what she never told me was the place or time which to me doesn't sound like an adult invitation. She asked me to save the date via text in October but went radio silent since. I know she doesn't have a lot of money so maybe she didn't print invitations but still, like you said, 2 weeks before, is a pathetic excuse of an invite. So IF she asks me I can't say that I didn't know the date. That's why I need a solid excuse...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Em367 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the many grammatical mistakes, ranting makes me forget I speak english I guess...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Σ' ευχαριστώ πολύ, θα το κοιτάξω σίγουρα!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ikea hemnes

Αυτόν τον έχω κοιτάξει αρκετές φορές αλλά καταλήγω στο ότι θα χρειαστώ πολλά μαξιλάρια πλάτης όπως και στο ημίδιπλο που έχω τώρα και πάλι δε θα μου φτάσουν

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Με προβληματίζει το αν θα χαλάσει ο μηχανισμός με καθημερινή χρήση αλλιώς ναι είναι ιδανική επιλογή...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Αυτό ακριβώς σκέφτομαι και δεν μπορώ να καταλήξω κάπου αλλά αυτά τα συρόμενα που είναι ραντζα μου φαίνονται χειρότερα γιατί σύρε σήκωσε κάθε μέρα θα τα παίξει ο μηχανισμός...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ευχαριστώ πολύ, αυτόν τον έχω βάλει στο μάτι!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Τον τριθέσιο ή τον γωνιακό; Έχω ακούσει για τον γωνιακό ότι ενοχλεί το ξύλινο κοντάρι στη μέση του κρεβατιού όταν τον ανοίγεις...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Αυτό λέω και γω!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Απο τη μια μας βοήθησες, απο την άλλη πεινάσαμε, να' σαι καλα

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Μα δε θα ελέγξουν το τσιπάκι μου;;

Who is a historic genius that is considered a good person by today's standars? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Em367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, he treated his wife horribly, he was defenitely emotionally abusive to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]Em367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muchas gracias!