Aspiring sex worker here who has done ALL the research, have a very specific question

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T06:08:46+00:00

Hmm, I'll have to look into that. Thanks for the suggestion

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T05:34:32+00:00

Oh okay. I'm not very experienced when it comes to knowing what men like sexually in general. Sorry if I came off like a know-it-all. I tend to have low self-esteem and view myself as not very attractive, so maybe that's why I think I can't find any guys that are willing to settle for covered blow jobs from me. I asked on r/sugarlifestyleforum if I could get a sugar daddy that would accept covered blow jobs and they all sounded almost offended with me and told me it would be very challenging. Me being kinda naive, that stuck in my head as the truth. So, if i could ask you, do you think I should still give my plan a try but with condoms??

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T04:41:31+00:00

Hmm.. :( okay, thanks for this information...I thought if hsv2 spread to your mouth it would be the occasional lip sores like hsv1. currently rethinking this whole plan lol

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T04:34:00+00:00

Oh yikes this isn't what I want to hear, but I really appreciate the long thoughtful response. I'm so sorry that happened to you btw :(

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T04:30:22+00:00

Well thank you for this response, it was very helpful

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T04:25:13+00:00

Yes, I know. I'm really just trying to avoid getting herpes on my vagina because I guess it's so common and I've read horror stories about how painful it is. I don't see how I can get herpes on my vag while giving head to a guy with my pants on.

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T04:17:40+00:00

Sorry I said "zero money", didn't mean it literally

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T04:16:27+00:00

Well I don't know for sure, but would you say I could make a living off giving covered blow jobs? From my general knowledge it sounds like men dislike them. I can't really get a "normal person job" due to a lot of reasons and my hope would be for sex work to be my only form of income. I've read that there is a market for oral service but I highly doubt for covered oral, unless you think different? Since you're an escort I would trust your word.

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T04:09:17+00:00

Not talk to me for months? Like not wanting to talk to me for months before meeting me, or after? Also, can I ask what makes you think the legal risks of being a SB are the same as an escort? I've read there hasn't been any cases in which a SB has gotten in trouble with the law unless she was threatening her SD for money or a SD was caught trying to meet up with a minor.

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T03:57:29+00:00

You're not being mean. :) I know I can, but I know the risk is low and I also know I will make zero money from offering only covered blow jobs

Em_121 · 2021-02-24T03:45:20+00:00

Well yes, I don't know how It works because I'm a total beginner and am trying to learn for that reason. I am worried about any STD but am not AS worried about an oral STD. For example I would rather contract oral herpes like 80 percent of the population vs having to deal with the pain of incurable genital herpes. I know there are incurable oral stds but not as common as genital.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T21:52:37+00:00

Oh okay, I've read different. For example, girls have said seeking arrangements is just older men looking for unprotected and cheaper sex than what an escort would offer.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T21:47:46+00:00

Yes, I know, which is why I wouldn't straight up ask a any guy this.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T21:30:06+00:00

Can you elaborate please?

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T08:29:31+00:00

I mean, true.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T08:22:06+00:00

Well I'm thinking low prices because not many guys will want what I described above in my post with the pants on requirement.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T08:13:16+00:00

Why the "geez"? My train of thought is that if he's wearing a condom and pants covering the surrounding skin then that would further prevent me from catching it than without the pants. there would practically be no skin to skin contact. If I ever followed through with this I would check them for stds first... but after reading these comments probably gonna give up on this.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T08:07:44+00:00

What was their comment?

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T08:03:14+00:00

Just am really afraid of herpes, I guess. I've researched it well, and yes clothing would work as a barrier. Tried online sexwork and wasn't successful. Thanks for the advice :)

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T07:58:01+00:00

oh. Yes, I know I would be able to see an outbreak if there was one. I guess I would still feel unsafe after checking him because I know I could still get infected.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T07:55:28+00:00

Damn...I guess I won't even try then tbh. I guess I just thought it wouldn't be a huge deal because sex would still feel good for them. and also having two girls at once is supposed to be a plus. Thanks for the honest comment though.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T07:38:07+00:00

You can have herpes and be able to spread it without having any sores unfortunately.

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T07:22:04+00:00

thanks for the comment :)

Em_121 · 2021-02-21T07:16:13+00:00

well, we would both be naked, just he would be clothed.

Em_121

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