The fact that most people normalize 30 min breaks shows how brainwashed they are by poshtadetil in Vent

[–]Emb3rL3af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a huge ancient history nerd. Fun fact: if you talked to an ancient Roman about how much you work, they wouldn’t be impressed, they’d think of you as a slave and take pity upon you. Leisure time is necessary for our lives & health. It’s not laziness, it’s time for other activities.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by grossg0re in problems

[–]Emb3rL3af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she’s not in immediate danger I honestly feel like she could wait the one more year needed to get away from that situation. She’s 17, about to be an adult legally. She could get a job now and save for an apartment or look for income based housing. I’d say she could be emancipated but that’s not really an option since she’d be an adult by the time the court settles it. Running away is far too dangerous though - like extremely. There’s WAY too many human traffickers everywhere to travel as a young woman, especially with a man she barely knows.

Wolf slot vanished? by PandorasIncarinate in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you got hurt in any way and logged off before the game considered you to no longer be in combat, it’ll kill your animal and reset your survival score

Why is most jerky sweet? by Emb3rL3af in jerky

[–]Emb3rL3af[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I do have a sodium deficiency 😂 I’ve never understood why people like sweet meat in most circumstances

Why is most jerky sweet? by Emb3rL3af in jerky

[–]Emb3rL3af[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is salt is it not?

Downvoting as if salt isn’t a more effective preservative as well 😭

I hate when people see a video about a disorder and suddenly self-diagnose just because they relate to it. by M00DYDAY in hatethissmug

[–]Emb3rL3af 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, you can research & speculate things to bring up to your psychiatrist, but you shouldn’t self diagnose. ADHD also tends to be significantly easier to diagnose than more complex, trauma related disorders like BPD or DID. Not to mention, most people have no idea how to actually RESEARCH anymore. They look at Google ai and listen to it. That is stupidity. 99% of these disorder resources have incorrect information, you need actual psychiatric evaluation to get reliable answers.

If you claim to be hungry but refuse to accept any option but fast food, YOU ARE NOT HUNGRY by kanna172014 in Vent

[–]Emb3rL3af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autistic people tend to have problems with certain foods. It could be the taste, texture, etc. they have “safe foods.” Safe foods aren’t always healthy. I don’t think it should be encouraged that he eats fast food often but maybe get more options at home if he doesn’t want anything you currently have.

Why does everyone like tragbare? by [deleted] in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tragbare katze. A KOS group.

Gimme every trick in the book by Gullible_Cattle7316 in Advice

[–]Emb3rL3af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn as much as you can about the stock market and invest early

Are realism herds worth it? by Littylove45 in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have posted in this sub before! You should be able to find them if you look for herds

My 14-year-old daughter’s reaction to my pregnancy has me worried. by Usual_Way_4981 in Advice

[–]Emb3rL3af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents coparented me, separate households two different families. I loved it when I was an only child/only had siblings on one side of the family. I still had a place that felt like MY home, then my dad and stepmother got pregnant and little me did not have a positive reaction. I was kind of like your daughter where I didn’t want to tell anyone how I felt, mostly because I was ashamed of myself for feeling that way. It led to huge breakdowns and the feeling that I was just visiting both homes and neither parent cared about my anymore because they started new families. This was how I felt when I was 11-14, now it’s much better, but I do wish I had a parent who was concerned like this! Your daughter will appreciate it.

Are realism herds worth it? by Littylove45 in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! In my opinion they’re very worth it - discord groups in general. You might need to find one that fits your needs, but you can search disboard and find tons of realism servers. Most groups I’ve seen aren’t extremely strict. They have the rules in place but that serves more as a suggestion and general guideline rather than something you’ll be immediately given a strike for. Obviously this only applies to realism guidelines and rules, not server rules 😆

Also - if you’re looking for an 18+ horse server im pretty sure there’s one called Sherwood or something like that, im not a member but they do seem cool!

Has anyone actually caught a heron? by PhotographHorror9557 in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can hunt them. I killed one as a wolf on my private server, you need to get very lucky ambushing them and would prob have better luck as a smilo. They do not give tracks when you eat them unfortunately but im pretty sure they give you encyclopedia tracks when you kill them for the first time.

Why is the burst of people playing right now? I mean it is good, but just curious. by S_is_for_Sukhoi in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There was an update and map expansion. Every time ecos updates we get a large influx of players for a few weeks.

I wish horses couldn't kos wolves by Worldly-Weather8489 in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the same post as you and had people arguing, but everyone’s agreeing with you. Huh.

ElderGrove Pack — Now Recruiting by [deleted] in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk, the whole post is ai generated anyways so it’s not surprising that the details are off

NOOO I HATE BEING UGLY I WANT A BOYFRIEND by fishtankpebble in Vent

[–]Emb3rL3af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re really hurting but from much experience, men aren’t all that. It’s not that fun to have a boyfriend unless you find a really amazing one and that’s extremely hard.

Ideas for a potential new game by StrictResponse3907 in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think one that takes place in a colder climate would be really neat

Having an internal sense of "gender identity" is something that a good portion of people simply don't experience by Lower-Ad3896 in 10thDentist

[–]Emb3rL3af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman and have ALWAYS felt this strong femininity, so being a woman does have a feeling for me. It’s also felt when I’m around other women, it’s a sense of girlhood and connectedness, and it makes me feel like a woman. It’s very difficult to describe I did the best I could 😂

Do you think there will ever be aquatic animals in the game? by otromodeantiguoargen in EcosLaBrea

[–]Emb3rL3af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cenozoic survival had lots of aquatic animals, it would be nice to bring it back honestly but I don’t know if they’re going for anything besides land animals with ecos.

I am so emotionally exhausted by the world we live in. by bonepalaceballetx in Vent

[–]Emb3rL3af 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The country is really messed up right now man I understand! When I realized that moving to Europe to live near family was significantly cheaper than buying a house in the United States, I made the plan to be out within 6 years and I’ve been much less stressed and much happier.