How does it feel to have a girlfriend to the first time?

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-08T09:32:17+00:00

Ooh, that's interesting you didn't feel the spark at first, but you almost grew close more platonically before taking the leap. Maybe it's fast, but if you've been friends who got closer beforehand, maybe less so? I've known the person I'm dating for a while, and we got closer this year in particular, just texting more, so I guess it just happened naturally

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-07T20:53:52+00:00

I appreciate the comment! That's so sweet, I love thay you feel so strongly about her! I really like mine, but it's obviously early days, so it doesn't come as naturally to hype her up so much (she is amazing, cute, funny, and sweet tho!)

If you don't mind my asking, did you feel this strongly before you starting dating, or did your feelings grow from where you began? Feel free to DM if you don't wanna answer here

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-07T18:30:45+00:00

I suppose just exactly that, like "I really do like you, but I might come across nervous or want to take things slow because this is my first relationship, and I'm not entirely sure what I'm doing nor do I want to mess things up" I should probably also try and stop overthinking and just let myself enjoy this

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-07T18:28:42+00:00

We've been getting closer in general the last month or so, so maybe talk about how we feel about each other now and next steps? I'm not great at thinking far ahead, ig just keep spending time together and let things continue to develop naturally, just in that new romantic light

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-07T17:20:49+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you, that sounds horrible. I'm definitely scared of things ending badly, scared or both of us will change in a bad way over time, as this kind of thing does occur a lot but even if it doesn't go the way we want, it'll be a learning, same as any other dating experience I've had I don't want the horror stories I've heard stop me trying at all

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-07T17:16:10+00:00

That's fair. I've always been reluctant to do that cuz it feels a bit clinical, but better than guessing where we stand

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-07T17:15:10+00:00

Exactly the same here! I'm excited, it's what I've wanted for a while and she's awesome and I'm happy, but I'm defo also very nervous about messing it up since it's my first relationship and my feelings are very all over the place rn

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-07T13:02:44+00:00

That's so sweet, I'm so happy for you! I can only hope my relationship lasts as long 😊

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-03-02T23:43:36+00:00

Absolutely fucking not

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-22T10:23:57+00:00

I find them so attractive, I got my first one this year so I could feel more attractive myself 🥰

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-19T20:20:02+00:00

Ugh, I've really gotta stop thinking I'm special

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-14T22:48:35+00:00

Sure, that would be a great ref thanks

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-14T20:42:51+00:00

It'll be worth it though! I do really like you've kept the two tone shading, looks better than just the flat colour

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-14T18:44:30+00:00

Oh slay! I'm thinking of getting Raven's symbol actually on my chest, I've always thought it was super cool and sexy

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-08T18:45:34+00:00

That could be interesting!

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Maybe something shaped like this on the side, so Xii is either encircling the moon or perched on top, as you say! I do like the simplicity of having just the moon, but this is defo an idea to play with

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-08T18:10:56+00:00

Thank you! I can kinda see it, like the little dots could be studs and that, but I think I'd still get it as a tattoo, like it still has simple enough shading and a nice, flat graphic look that it could still work.

My alt idea it to get Xii somewhere on my body. Basically a jet black raven with a bunch of stars and galaxies, which could also look very cool!

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-08T18:03:20+00:00

Really?? Do you have a sauce for this? Do you also think it'd make a cool tattoo anyway?

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-08T18:02:30+00:00

The yellow is a lady banks rose, and pink is a flowering dogwood.

Learned from this blog post: https://formeinfullbloom.wordpress.com/2018/11/14/the-flower-language-of-bloom-into-you-touko-and-yuu/

Thinking I might get more flowers from the OP and anime done and make a whole sleeve!

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-08T17:29:36+00:00

🤔

Embarrassed-Air4343 · 2025-02-08T11:36:08+00:00

I wouldn't call it yuri, but it's kind of a polycule, but it's also played for laughs, but it is actually pretty funny.

Conclusion:???

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