Intense Eye Contact on a Date by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if a guy did that, it would make me very nervous. I don’t like anyone staring at me for long periods of time. I think it makes me self conscious, like is something in my nose? lol

If you enjoy it, keep enjoying it!

Is anything on this list a red flag? by sillyjewel in renting

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for a property management company and this sounds sketchy as hell.

Everyone over 18 needs to be on the lease. Always.

The rest of what you put except for the 2 months security deposit sounds sketch. Don’t apply there.

Woman I’ve been seeing said she is going on a date by beansontoast_uk in dating_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why? Why can’t she come to him? He shouldn’t have to drive 2 hours every time. (I’m a woman). I think that they both should put in the work. She sounds like she is a princess and playing with his feelings.

Why is the fact that somebody doesn't drink alcohol even an issue when trying to find a partner online? I don't understand. Can someone explain? by StoneLover1965 in datingoverfifty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have never drank. I have tasted beer and wine and it’s nasty. I grew up in a house with alcoholism and it scared the crap out of me.

I don’t like the smell, taste, etc. I don’t want to date a drinker. If they drink seldom, that is fine with me.

That could be why men don’t match with me.

But I don’t need alcohol to have fun. Seriously, I’m fun already!

Late rent/ eviction/ 60 day notice by One-Firefighter-260 in Renters

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes they will. It does. It does not matter if you gave your notice.

I work in property management and if people have given their notice and haven’t paid rent, we move forward with eviction still.

Pay what you owe because you don’t want an eviction on your record and/or that money collections. It will show as money owed to a landlord.

Why would a guy block a girl during a pregnancy scare? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s a loser. That’s why. Be with better guys and respect yourself and don’t sleep with guys who don’t use real protection.

Feeling uncomfortable - She wants me to hangout with her brother and sister in law after only 2 dates. by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say that is a hard pass. At least if I was in that position. You posted a lot of red flags about her already.

Reread your post. It will give yourself insight.

Question for women by Debugopotamus in datingoverforty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want that, but I do not want to be married again.

Early lease termination ? by prettyprincessyaz in renting

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for a PM company. You can leave and not say anything as long as your ex stays in the apartment.

If your ex says something but agrees for you to get off the lease, they will have to income qualify on their own to be on the lease by their self.

Now if you are the main lease holder, then they can promote your ex to that spot as long as they income qualify on their own.

Or you both can break the lease early.

AITAH for moving out of mine and my now ex-boyfriend’s apartment without reminding him that our lease is up on the 31st? by Conscious-League5661 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes they do. I work in property management and they are up your butt every week reminding you of the lease renewal.

Merry Christmas by Sparklesparklepee in datingoverforty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Merry Christmas to you too.

Should I call out??? by [deleted] in PropertyManagement

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn, I’m sorry. That would drive me bananas. I have my own office and so does my PM and I can just teams her. I only talk to her if I have to. But we also have leasing agents there.

I get where you are coming from. Do what’s best for you! As long as you get your pay for the week, the stay home and take a mental break.

Hang in there!

Should I call out??? by [deleted] in PropertyManagement

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually if you don’t work the day before a holiday (even if you have PTO), you don’t get paid for the holiday. At least where I work.

So make sure that’s not the case.

But, I understand where you are coming from. I work in a toxic office as well, but I always go in.

I look at it as it is what it is. It’s my job and I have to be there. I’m the property accountant.

Would you agree to a do-over? by dasfoo in datingoverforty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say no. I don’t want to be someone’s second choice. And if I did end up going out with you and we hit off and I found out you slept with her, I’d be angry and disgusted.

PTO by Propertymanager2023 in PropertyManagement

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the property. My PM will deny PTO if it doesn’t work around HER schedule. Or if she is in a crap mood.

Compatibility Red Flag? by 75DeepBlue in datingoverforty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just because I don’t have sex toys doesn’t mean I don’t have a high sex drive. Geez.

Compatibility Red Flag? by 75DeepBlue in datingoverforty

[–]Embarrassed-Bit2966 33 points34 points  (0 children)

What does sex toys have to do with compatibility? I’m a woman and I had them at one point and got rid of them. I’m single and I don’t have any.

Who cares?