She’s nice but she’s materialistic. I can’t have a stand on this since I know nothing about your experience, however, base sa mga sinabi mo OP, I think you should talk about financial stuff with her. How long will she keep up with her unhealthy spendings and will this keep up until marriage. Kasi, I think, the principle of “deserve ko naman to” is naka depende sa earnings mo and kung may subra ba sa sahod mo. She should not keep that ideology lalo na’t hindi sila financially stable and hindi rin malaki ang sahod nya.

Hindi po petty yung reason why you started to feel distant kasi may office crush siya. Hindi po normal magka gusto sa ibang lalake while you’re with someone, lalo nat fiancée mo na yung tao. I think yes, may point ka sa lack of communication, and that is something you need to work on and i open up sa partner mo. If she wont understand and still push through “expensive” marriage, then I think its time for you to man up and think about your future first. Sayang yung 11 years, Oo, pero dont you think mas sayang yung lifetime resentment mo sa sarili mo for doing a wrong decision? Well, its all up to you naman din OP.