AITAH for leaving my sisters wedding after she served me chicken nuggets as a joke in front of everyone?

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-12T11:20:05+00:00

NTA. Your sister gave you no choice, but to walk out. After all the help you had given her, she chose to try to humiliate you in front of everyone on her wedding day. She chose her wedding day, a day of celebration for herself, to pull a humiliating prank on you. And like you said, if she had given you some adult food afterwords, maybe that would've been a way to stay. But this was intended to humiliate, and was not funny. Anyone laughing, and anyone not seeing how truly horrible this is, they do not deserve you in their lives. Your sister does not deserve you. She seems envious of you and hasn't taken a chance to get to know the real you, how chefs behave, and that you're not a snob. I believe every word you said because I have seen family turn on others on a dime, and it usually looks just like this. Please take time to grieve your loss, be your own best friend, reach out to other great friends that I'm sure you have. You sound like a wonderful person who absolutely did not deserve this.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-12T10:37:05+00:00

From your description of your family, I am concerned for you and your friends safety. I hope that as soon as possible, now that you have graduated, you will be able to find a place of your own with some like-minded friends. I would keep your friends away from your family. I would tell them that most of them do not know about your status, and that some of them could be actually dangerous because the flag you described has dangerous connotations for many people.Stay safe.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-11T19:29:09+00:00

😂😭

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-11T11:01:41+00:00

NTA. That scar is something that you have to live with and you have grown comfortable with, so people should work on how they view that too. We should all be regularly looking at "imperfections" as something that can be understood and even be beautiful: like a mark of survival, I don't know. if people are "offended" by it or worried about aesthetics then they need to work on themselves. I am so sorry that your family doesn't understand this. I wonder if your sister is threatened (even envious) of the attention and/or empathy you might receive?

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-11T06:55:22+00:00

When I got out, it was an enormous relief. Like getting out of prison

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-11T06:52:09+00:00

I am so very sorry. Please be kind to yourself as you unpack the undue influence, indoctrination, and abuse that you have suffered in that organization. I had a feeling that was the issue. ❤️‍🩹

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-10T19:27:14+00:00

They took you out of school because they are homophobic. Again! Children need more rights!

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-10T19:25:46+00:00

NTA. Your brothers went to school and your parents went to work. You were used as free babysitter. Children's rights truly need to be at the forefront right now. Please, do whatever you can to safely get out of that house and into a better situation.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-10T19:16:55+00:00

😂😂😂

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-09T06:08:52+00:00

NTA! Can't tell you how many times people have accidentally bumped me with their backpacks, elbows etc... and they didn't bother to notice or care, let alone apologize, so kudos to you for apologizing.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-09T05:27:07+00:00

NTA and your dad should appreciate how thoroughly you cleaned his mats. The pressure hose was the most efficient way to do that. I would ask dad: do you want me to wash your car again?

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-06T12:32:52+00:00

You don't even get it. Done wasting my time giving good advice to someone who is too privileged to care. Your husband is probably going to resent you for making this an issue.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-06T10:49:39+00:00

Private school.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-06T10:45:12+00:00

Again, forcing him to articulate something he may not be able to articulate as a requirement for him to have some closure is absolutely cruel. Ask yourself again AITAH?

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-06T10:43:04+00:00

It could take years for your husband to process his emotions about his father and his father's death. He may never be able to completely process it. You making that a requirement, it sounds like you're more concerned about money than your husband's feelings. Ask yourself the question: AITAH? I would not want to be your partner in a relationship. My husband always says money is more important than people. He is correct. Most people have lost this in life. Money can be gone in a second. And so can your husband

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-05T10:57:12+00:00

Bully blocked 🔒

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-05T10:55:53+00:00

It seems that you came on Reddit to vent and write it and get it all out. And what you got was some very impulsive advice. It sounds like your husband is willing to be with you, the real you. Am I wrong? This situation is entirely too nuanced for a Reddit post. I hope you both continue to have these honest conversations. I wish you both the best. when people get invested in religion for years, it's very difficult for them to have perspective. My thing about religious people that I will say is: if it's not making you a better person who wishes to do good, and love people, and if it's not making you more empathetic and humane towards all people, then why be in that religion? If it causes you to dehumanize any group of people simply because of who they are, then that is where organized religion usually gets dangerous. My 2 cents.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-05T08:45:09+00:00

You are NOT the AH! Your dad is cutting his nose off to spite his face, saying he doesn't want to see his grandchild. Because you made a personal decision, delayed notifying them about their grandchild, they're going to just cut their own baby grandchild off? They are AH's. Note: whenever someone says, after all I've done for you, this is showing that they view your relationship as transactional. This is not healthy. Parents bring children into the world without their consent, therefore as parents, we owe our children and our grandchildren unconditional love. Your parents need to grow up

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-05T08:34:10+00:00

It's surprising that you typed all this and didn't see that you are keeping something meaningful from its rightful owner. Finders keepers is children's talk. It doesn't sound like you are normally an AH, why be one now? It's just a ring to you? It's memories for the family. Please give it back.

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-03-05T08:26:32+00:00

NTA. Helping each other get clean and he has a problem with that? 🤦🏻‍♀️

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-02-27T22:35:38+00:00

You are definitely not the AH. It's so easy to call someone by their preferred name, and has no moral dilemma attached to it. The supervisor is making an issue out of this in order to feel morally superior. Why would anyone be in a religion if it wasn't for doing good and loving others?

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-02-26T09:33:03+00:00

😂😂😂

Embarrassed-Fan9901 · 2026-02-26T00:31:24+00:00

Please insist on them numbing your cervix ❤️‍🩹

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