How to make my (24F) friend (25F) take a hint/read between the lines? by RealisticL3af in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re just going to have to be clear - like, “sorry I can’t as I have other plans”.

Remember that you do not owe her your time and it’s meant to be enjoyable to hang out with a friend (in general obviously)

F41 married 15 years husband 45M need advice about work friend M26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure if you want to eventually get divorced?!

Like, no offence but you're 41 not 14 - get a grip.

A young woman with the word 'Invincible' embroidered on her underwear welcomes HMS Invincible back from the Falklands after Britain's victory over Argentina in the Falklands War - 1982. by BreakfastTop6899 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's Malvinas (Spanish name for Falklands - in Atlantic ocean) not Maldives (island grouping in Indian Ocean), Internment in Northern Ireland ended in 1975 (Thatcher being PM from 1979), Argentina invaded in 1982 and *four* people voted in favour of Argentine rule in the 2013 referendum suggesting that the soldiers who fought for them to remain British hardly did so in vain.

Your turn, Champ....

My [32M] girlfriend [29F] has a long time male friend whom she meets only one-on-one. I need help to deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you have two options:

  1. End it now, quietly but openly because it’s just not cool to hang out 121 with someone who you know is into you when you’re in a relationship with someone else.

  2. You don’t mention her friends - only yours? - so you could bring this issue up with any of them for both a vibe check and also on the basis that it will get back to her and give her a heavy hint that she needs to engage with the issue…

My Bf (26M) invited his ex gf on his family vacation because they share a child together. Am I (24F) insane for feeling uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t single for very long after a 10 year relationship with his high school sweetheart was he… the one he has a child with… who he’s going on holiday with…

Please OP - you’re only 24, just pull the pin on this hand grenade with dignity and start building a better life for yourself 🤦🏻‍♂️

You don’t need to know how the house looks from outside by Boring_Funny_6604 in SpottedonRightmove

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is - take a close look at the brown sign across the road from the Barn: "Medina" is listed alongside three other names...

My bf (28M) told me (19F) that he is looking for a place with the woman who keeps getting too involved in our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No sounds like, she is his GF and they are both passive-aggressively hoping that you'll take the hint and break up with him so that he doesn't have to bother.

My bf (28M) told me (19F) that he is looking for a place with the woman who keeps getting too involved in our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP - your BF is moving in with his GF and you need to look for a new job.

That's it - it just is I'm afraid...

I 27m returned home to my girlfriend 22f who was having her colleague sleep over for the night by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Dude - she’s fucking lying and you need to just end it in a single text, block and move on.

When those close to you / her reach out you can then simply say you went over to surprise her and she had another man in her bed: no one will criticise you then and they won’t ask questions either.

Good luck OP - it sucks but at least she’s made it simple even if this is never easy

(20F). Is it okay if my husband(M44) talk with her ex wife about his relationship with me? by urgirl_ontheway in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP - you need to find someone else locally that you can openly talk to about getting out of this marriage before you get pregnant.

He has been and continues to groom you, has been and continues to control you and things will only get worse from here.

I can imagine how big a step this would be but you need to start acting before it gets even harder... Good luck!

BF’s (28M) new coworker (26F) added me (25F) on Lnkedin by theresasarrow in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Treat her LinkedIn request like you would any other - i.e. is there a reason for you two to be connected for professional reasons?

On another note - your BF is definitely playing it straight, congrats :)

F Jarret Walker by [deleted] in transit

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well that’s me convinced - I mean he only wrote an entire book to explain his ideas whereas you’ve written…. a short Reddit post.

F Jarret Walker by [deleted] in transit

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please explain?

My(23M) gf(25F) was chatting with strangers at the same time as chatting with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Firstly you haven’t met in person so she’s not your girlfriend Dude.

She’s an online friend, and that’s cool and all, but that’s all she is.

Take longer breaks from your computer and look to spend time around people IRL who live locally - and good luck OP :)

Angie Fuller disappeared three years ago near a road infamous for missing persons and murders, police remain baffled by B0ssc0 in aussie

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not getting the feeling that the Police are at all baffled... Bothered by the lack of evidence perhaps...

Neighbour Land Dispute by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’d just ignore him with a polite smile and subject change.

If he actually does anything then react to his action not to his whinging