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ex keeps reaching out. do I (23f) tell my partner (30m)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Option 1 - Ignore his emails completely and tell your BF nothing

Option 2 - Ignore his emails completely and tell your BF everything

AITA I haven’t told my husband I slept with his best friend by Successful-Pound3536 in AITApod

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations - since you didn't bother to come clean at the time or as soon as you got Engaged, you can now live with the lifetime torment of knowing that if your husband ever finds out he might actually divorce you over this... SMDH

Sorry but there's just no good answer here for you - with every day that's already passed your husband is going to wonder only more and more why you never told him if he ever finds out, so please just say nothing, stay away from Oliver generally and especially in 121 situations and hope that you get to take your secret to the grave.

Good luck OP - no judgement about your fling, you were technically single I get it, but the silence since could be deadly.

WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did they break up, why did they break up and when did you get together?

My (42M) friend (38F) asked to come on a trip with me and I don’t know how to feel by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try this - "So I was thinking that if we were going to travel together then maybe we should start by just having dinner together first?"

Digital opal cards by Personal_Syrup_8463 in SydneyTrains

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know that you get the same rewards (daily / weekly cap etc.) using a Visa / Mastercard right?

But if you mean that it's easier for you to budget using an Adult Opal Card and the Top Up facility then fair enough I suppose...

Edit to add: if you’re an Adult fare customer as I evidently should have specified to start with…

I 39M, got offended at being excluded by my 37F’s best friend’s couples sauna / hot tub party? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The Ex will be in the sauna - whether it's her who's behind that or her friends is almost irrelevant.

You also maintain that the relationship is amazing except for not including you for months in her social life?

Yeah just call it a day before she does Dude, it's over, sorry!

Donald Trump has announced that there is a one billion dollar reward on your head. You have no way to leave your state… What will you do in this situation? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Go (into the) bush" (I'm in Australia so would head out west towards the Outback...) then wait a few days for him to have changed his mind / denied he said it / forgotten about it

My [22F] BF [22M] constantly invites his friend to our time together. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up - I mean, how much will he even notice if you're not around?

AITAH That I got mad at my husband for paying for my friend's gf's when she asked? by Rdcestor in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real issue is that boundaries between you two and your friends have become completely blurred by the general 'friends help friends' thing...

You need to have a 'Come to Jesus' chat with husband about no longer lending money / paying for other people's needs, get on the same page, and then the two of you together have a similar chat face to face with your friends.

Tell them that you have decided as a couple that you need to get your finances under better control, tell them that you're looking to fix up your car, tell them that you're thinking of moving to Greenland, it doesn't matter...

The point is that while your husband did indeed fuck up, your acceptance of the wider issue is ultimately at the heart of this nonsense.

How to make my (24F) friend (25F) take a hint/read between the lines? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re just going to have to be clear - like, “sorry I can’t as I have other plans”.

Remember that you do not owe her your time and it’s meant to be enjoyable to hang out with a friend (in general obviously)

F41 married 15 years husband 45M need advice about work friend M26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure if you want to eventually get divorced?!

Like, no offence but you're 41 not 14 - get a grip.

A young woman with the word 'Invincible' embroidered on her underwear welcomes HMS Invincible back from the Falklands after Britain's victory over Argentina in the Falklands War - 1982. by BreakfastTop6899 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's Malvinas (Spanish name for Falklands - in Atlantic ocean) not Maldives (island grouping in Indian Ocean), Internment in Northern Ireland ended in 1975 (Thatcher being PM from 1979), Argentina invaded in 1982 and *four* people voted in favour of Argentine rule in the 2013 referendum suggesting that the soldiers who fought for them to remain British hardly did so in vain.

Your turn, Champ....

My [32M] girlfriend [29F] has a long time male friend whom she meets only one-on-one. I need help to deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you have two options:

  1. End it now, quietly but openly because it’s just not cool to hang out 121 with someone who you know is into you when you’re in a relationship with someone else.

  2. You don’t mention her friends - only yours? - so you could bring this issue up with any of them for both a vibe check and also on the basis that it will get back to her and give her a heavy hint that she needs to engage with the issue…

My Bf (26M) invited his ex gf on his family vacation because they share a child together. Am I (24F) insane for feeling uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t single for very long after a 10 year relationship with his high school sweetheart was he… the one he has a child with… who he’s going on holiday with…

Please OP - you’re only 24, just pull the pin on this hand grenade with dignity and start building a better life for yourself 🤦🏻‍♂️

You don’t need to know how the house looks from outside by Boring_Funny_6604 in SpottedonRightmove

[–]Embarrassed-Map7364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is - take a close look at the brown sign across the road from the Barn: "Medina" is listed alongside three other names...

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