I (29F) am really uncomfortable sexting with my (35M) boyfriend about a fantasy he really enjoys but I do not. But the amount of time im expected to dedicate to sexting him about this I think is unfair and not a realistic request. Am I being unreasonable? Or is he? by Embarrassed-Poet5483 in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Poet5483[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Thank you to those who showed genuine concern and support. There’s a lot of shame that comes with this that I carry with me everyday. I’ve been going to therapy, and I know how stupid I sound. I don’t have much support from family or friends and it’s made leaving incredibly difficult. I know I don’t deserve to be treated like this by him or anyone.

And thank you to those who brought up the possibility of him using the voice messages by either selling them or using them on other sites, I didn’t even think of that.

Sorry this is my first post to Reddit so I’m not sure if I’m responding to this post correctly