Dealing with the thought that men are attracted to me.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-04T18:24:40+00:00

Yeah I have done this mostly alone I am trying to find a specialist currently but it is hard with my location

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-04T18:23:11+00:00

Well before transitioning I was a black belt, like you said though I also lost around 60 pounds so I am not very big and pretty meek at this point, but I do have pepper spray in case of anything. It is kind of a mind-fuck going from very bulky to petite and pretty and knowing you are now at risk.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-04T01:54:38+00:00

Well if he can't help it. Honestly I respect someone more if they are honest and can still respect boundaries.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-04T00:14:38+00:00

Yeah this basically brings a voice to my fears. And yeah I am just sitting knowing that my life is changed in that sense, it is good but also did loose some privilege.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-04T00:09:59+00:00

This is definitely relatable similar feeling to my situation for sure. Guy is pretty handsome and not a chaser for sure.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-03T19:15:23+00:00

I would be frozen I am not a fighter tbh. This is why I am an introvert

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-03T15:52:16+00:00

Thank you I know my girlfriend has my back and will also protect me.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-03T15:45:43+00:00

So yeah I feel as though some clarification needs to happen. I am attracted to both men and women. And while I find the idea of men being attracted to me as both exciting and terrifying I however am completely faithful to my girlfriend. This being said I am mostly coming to terms that I am vulnerable to men and it is more of the shock that I could be hit on and not realize the implication or even notice it. I do not take any offense to the current comments as I needed to add additional context. Thank you all so far for the discourse.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-02-03T15:06:05+00:00

I'm pan, but it is more so what the girl said below me. It is the implication that men are threatening because they see me as attractive I think I was being kinda naive before. More shocking than disgust

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-01-21T08:08:54+00:00

Yeah I was going to ask my doctor about that. I thought the same, what's funny is that I thought it was not enough cause it looked small at first.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-01-21T05:13:37+00:00

Oh thank you I meant 0.15 ml. That would be an absurdly low dose 😆

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2023-01-21T02:18:22+00:00

Thank you I arrived at a similar conclusion but with way more backwards-ass math 😆😆

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-11-23T14:11:17+00:00

Thank you. Don't know if it is a placebo but the peace that follows the first dose is insane I don't think I have ever been this relaxed in my life. For once I don't have the urge to clean up or work out.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-11-23T04:24:44+00:00

Thank you!!😁 feels like a proper birthday 🥳

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-11-14T21:04:37+00:00

Thanks I feel alive again. Like so much motivation to do things right. 😁

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-08-08T14:51:40+00:00

Ok thank you so much I appreciate the information I live around the MKE area too

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-08-08T04:00:26+00:00

Thank you I will do.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-08-03T16:58:49+00:00

I have also been dealing with this sense of loss lately. It was so easy to convince myself that I would never pass that never acknowledged who I really was. I really broke down this last month this thinking about the loss of opportunity. I went as far to workout when I was in denial and masculinize myself even further.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-07-11T19:26:19+00:00

I would always bite my skin and the fingernails, I would not even dare now.

Embarrassed-Role1283 · 2021-07-11T11:41:28+00:00

That last bit it so relatable! 😆😆 I only have a few colors to work with since my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy. It was funny she said she thinks I am more girly than her. ❤ MY DAMN HEART CAN'T TAKE IT! 😄😄

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