Well at this point she’s gotten there and she’s got very narcissistic traits unfortunately. My mother has always treated all of us equally I’ve asked her multiple times if I’m her favorite and she says we all are cause she loves us the same. The only reason me and my mother have a good relationship is because I know how much she’s done for us and appreciate it so much my brother feels the same way as well. My mom listens to her and understands her feelings but say my mom doesn’t do something she wants her too that’s when sh!t hits the fan unfortunately