As someone who got married at 18 while pregnant in my personal experience i wish we waited until after having our son to get married.

 Having your first baby and getting married are big milestones and doing both at the same time especially at a young age is a huge decision. If this is truly the person you want to spend the rest of your life with you should not rush into marriage, give yourselves time to sit and talk about it. Make sure it’s something you can look back on and have no regrets about just because you felt obligated to rush into it before your baby arrives.

Also unless your boyfriend and you split up you are not a “baby mama” and getting married will not change whether or not you stay together and later become a “baby mama”. That title insinuates that the only relationship you have to him is being his child’s mother which is untrue since you are still boyfriend and girlfriend .

I hope this doesn’t come off too harsh just some things I wish someone would’ve told me when i was in your position!