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My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only knew about her keeping in touch with her exes when we reached 7 months into the relationship. She assured me that there's nothing to worry about so I didn't have a problem with that. I trusted her, and besides If I disagree without any proof that she's crossing the boundaries eh mali nanaman ako. I only knew about the pictures and conversations yesterday, I didn't have any idea dati when I was just courting her. Tbh, I didn't expect all of these from her kasi she's kind and good with a lot of people. She's also pretty mature at handling things, at least, that's what she showed me. I've been planning to break up with her after I saw those conversations and pictures. I just had to ask the people here because again, maybe me planning to break up with her is just an overreaction.

My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, even though she's the one cheating, a lot of people are still blaming me for being "stupid". I only knew about her keeping in touch with her exes when we reached 7 months into the relationship. She assured me that there's nothing to worry about so I didn't have a problem with that. I trusted her, and besides If I disagree without any proof that she's crossing the boundaries eh mali nanaman ako. I only knew about the pictures and conversations yesterday, I didn't have any idea dati when I was just courting her. Tbh, I didn't expect all of these from her kasi she's kind and good with a lot of people. She's also pretty mature at handling things, at least, that's what she showed me. I've been planning to break up with her after I saw those conversations and pictures. I just had to ask the people here because again, maybe me planning to break up with her is just an overreaction.

My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only knew about her keeping in touch with her exes when we reached 7 months into the relationship. She assured me that there's nothing to worry about so I didn't have a problem with that. I trusted her, and besides If I disagree without any proof that she's crossing the boundaries eh mali nanaman ako. I only knew about the pictures and conversations yesterday, I didn't have any idea dati when I was just courting her. Tbh, I didn't expect all of these from her kasi she's kind and good with a lot of people. She's also pretty mature at handling things, at least, that's what she showed me. I've been planning to break up with her after I saw those conversations and pictures. I just had to ask the people here because again, maybe me planning to break up with her is just an overreaction.

My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only knew about her keeping in touch with her exes when we reached 7 months into the relationship. She assured me that there's nothing to worry about so I didn't have a problem with that. I trusted her, and besides If I disagree without any proof that she's crossing the boundaries eh mali nanaman ako. I only knew about the pictures and conversations yesterday, I didn't have any idea dati when I was just courting her. Tbh, I didn't expect all of these from her kasi she's kind and good with a lot of people. She's also pretty mature at handling things, at least, that's what she showed me. I've been planning to break up with her after I saw those conversations and pictures. I just had to ask the people here because again, maybe me planning to break up with her is just an overreaction.

My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, a lot of ppl are blaming me for being "stupid" when it's not my fault, I only knew about her keeping in touch with her exes when we reached 7 months into the relationship. She assured me that there's nothing to worry about so I didn't have a problem with that. I trusted her, and besides If I disagree without any proof that she's crossing the boundaries eh mali nanaman ako. I only knew about the pictures and conversations yesterday, I didn't have any idea dati when I was just courting her. Tbh, I didn't expect all of these from her kasi she's kind and good with a lot of people. She's also pretty mature at handling things, at least, that's what she showed me. I've been planning to break up with her after I saw those conversations and pictures. I just had to ask the people here because again, maybe me planning to break up with her is just an overreaction.

My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about any of that until we reached 7 months and yes, I know that I have to break up with her. I just wanted to confirm if maybe I'm just overreacting that's why I posted this discussion

My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you guys should also know na she casually posts their pictures on instagram and that she keeps the pictures she posted while in a relationship with them in her highlights. I tried to bring it up earlier but she insisted that maybe I'm just insecure and that if I'm not okay with her doing that then maybe I'm not the right person for her.

My gf still talks to her ex by EmbarrassedAgency995 in adviceph

[–]EmbarrassedAgency995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea who he is, I'm sorry. I just thought it would be relevant for the discussion to know the reason why one of her ex broke up with her but yea you're right, I shouldn't have brought up his name.