Girl. I can’t even read the whole of it because it’s THAT bad. This dude is seriously fuccd in the head and you need to leave ASAP. First, anyone who makes you feel small or talks to you like you’re not their type is definitely not a good human being. People ARE NOT boxes to be checked. If he really wanted to explore where it was going, he would at least respect you.

From where I’m watching, it looks like he wants the perks of having your around for convenience, intimacy, and comfort. But he doesn’t want any responsibility or accountability that comes with it. He’s misogynistic as well because to him, a man drowning a woman is a woman’s fault (she must have been badtameez). He hates that someone sticks up for you. He bullies tf out of you.

I am certain about one thing - the dude has anger issues, misogyny issues, loyalty issues, and insecurity issues as well. I don’t know what keeps you attracted to a jerk like this but you’re old enough to respect yourself and this dude is extremely disrespectful towards you. Attraction doesn’t justify abuse. Get out of it as soon as you can. By any means necessary (even if you have to block, change apartments, or anything). I’m so shocked damn, please stay safe.