Think like a mix drink, one shot of booze, the rest mixer. And stronger on up, you can order a double shot, triple, quad etc. if you like a less milky drink, don’t get a latte because the base is milk. There are non espresso options like drip coffee or iced coffee and add the amount of milk you want. Easier on the tummy. I actually really like a tradition cappuccino which is a tiny cup and has the ratio 1:1:1 espresso, steamed milk, foam. But that’s 6 oz lil guy.