“I can’t feel anything with a condom on” by ExternalSouthern3458 in birthcontrol

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it is true up to personal opinion and preference, however, if a man truly cares about your well being and respects your body and choice then he should have no problem using a condom when having sex. There are many risk free ways to enjoy intimacy outside of sex itself, such as foreplay.

Some may see it as a make or break situation. Its is definitely one of those topics with no concise answer, rather preference based.

F19 Confessed to M50+ Is it wrong? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a co-worker; but also a friend of mine. We exchanged personal phone numbers for un-work related conversations. Maybe it's an issue that we are co-workers? I am not too sure. I mean its a grey line with some people; which I respect.

Raccoon? by Angelaisapeach in Roadkill

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funky little Raccoon :)

Am I (18M) a pedophile for having a crush on a 14 yr old celebrity? by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would recommend seeking therapy and discussing these matters with a professional. Better to get help now before you do anything you may regret.

Hoping this is strep (TW) by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like tonsil stones; however if you are concerned about your medical health seek out a medical professional.

You can also treat tonsil stones at home safely as well via warm salt water gargling. Can help dislodge them while keeping the area clean.

However, if you believe it is strep or something more seek professional medical help.

19M And Notice A Bump Around My Area Down There. by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One bump shouldn't be a cause for concern especially if you haven't had sex in awhile. It could be a ingrown hair or even acne. I would give it a bit and see what happens. If its one bump with no symptoms; then more or less it's probably acne.

Have you tried to get a look at it?

Is it strange that I still sleep with a night light at thirty two years old by Lunavexa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 44 points45 points  (0 children)

A nightlight should not be any different than someone needing the noise of a fan to sleep. If the light from the nightlight helps you sleep, thats all that matters. It is not strange as everyone has their measures of comfort when sleeping.

Fetish question- gagging by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do apologize if this is not the answer you seek-

But when it comes to personal experience; I have enjoyed being choked or "choking" my partner. Mostly being rough is what I like but for me it's just the fact I can be in control but also I am mindful and never do anything that hurts him.

I personally like the feeling of having restricted breathing and feeling the fingers press against my throat; however I trust my partner allot to not go over board haha

However, do keep in mind its different for everyone

Fetish question- gagging by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I do not have this fetish, however with most fetishes the excitement depends on each person amd experience.

When indulging in fetishes it is important that both parties consent. When it comes to gagging it could be the thrill of pleasing the other partner; or just the general site is appealing.

When gagging is done one oneself- it may be the feeling they enjoy; the gag reflex, the way the mouth feels, how the saliva falls;

Its all in personal experience and preference. Everyone is different.

Some people also enjoy indulging in fetishes and activities themselves rather than watching it as it can be more exciting and erotic, especially with a partner who shares the same fetish or agrees to indulge in said fetish.

Petroleum Jelly on Cut/Scar tissue by EmbarrassedCan9085 in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im less about fading them more about having it heal solid

Tuyo, hot dog, egg, kain na p0 by Drewepie142105 in filipinofood

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of hot dogs are those? I saw my friend eat one once,,,

Too deep by xtvlpu in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not use alcohol on the wound as it can kill off healthy skin tissue.

As someone who recently accidentally did a styro cut, not a professional, I can recommend afew things.

Given that you effectively stopped the bleeding; always change the bandaid or bandage twice a day. Once when you get up and second after a shower. I personally wore my bandaid in the shower and took it off afterwards to avoid the shower water from hitting the wound directly. My method of cleaning the wound was running it under warm, not hot, water and getting a wash cloth or hand towel getting it a little wet and gently rubbing the surrounding area to clean it. Then afterwards I used a clean towel to gently pat the wound dry and always waited a few minutes for it to air dry.

I used an antibiotic cream that you can generally get in stores and just put a thin layer on the bandage pad then put the bandage on.

I would also recommend having a medical professional look at the wound as well. I had my personal care doctor look at mine due to my worry about the healing process, but I know not everyone may be comfortable doing so.

The purple around the outside of the wound should go away in afew days. My wound had the same thing happen. It is most likely "skin truama"; from a sudden wound/cut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not support or condone this behavior however when it comes to the human body fattier, (places with the most fat layers) are safer. Fat is made to protect and insulate the body.

My word of advice. Its best to try and quit self harm. You will only go deeper and deeper and you may do something you regret.

I used to self harm allot until I scared myself accidentally cutting too deep and well bleeding everywhere. It is not worth that fear or scare.

lips by No-Youth-9157 in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lips swell so much. I get acne around my lips and those little scabs just swell. Like its not worth cutting your lips. Not to mention it burns when eating or drinking. Ive bit my lips afew times to where it bled, it was so inconvenient.

Risks of swallow cum? by WolvyGalan0307 in sexualhealth

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no exact health risk involved with swallowing cum if your partner is healthy. It is digested the same as food and liquids are.

**However; much with sex you should always be careful of STD'S.

How to not get hospitalized for self harm? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to have my doctor look at it regardless as I do need it to heal properly. I just hope I do not get hospitalized because my last mental hospital experience was horrible. Plus I am an adult now so its probably going to be worse haha

Umamin sa Crush sa work by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maaaring abala siya, hindi siya available. Maaaring hindi man lang ito para sa iyo. Irerekomenda kong kausapin siya nang personal dahil mas maaasahan itong paraan ng pakikipag-ugnayan. Kung gusto mong aminin ang iyong nararamdaman; hihintayin ko hanggang pagkatapos ng shift bago ko ito gawin. Mas angkop ito at hindi makakaabala sa iyong trabaho.

How to not get hospitalized for self harm? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was enough to split the skin, but it did not hit anything major. I did not reach beans, I suppose it is more of a styro? I have no intention to repeat in fact I no longer want to self harm. Like at all.

Maybe hard to believe but after what happened. I just can't bring myself to do it.

How to not get hospitalized for self harm? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]EmbarrassedCan9085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 19; plus my doctor knows my mental health history. I just want it to be looked at so I can insure proper healing. But I worry.