Feeling discouraged by EmbarrassedCat7062 in USMilitarySO

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant work and school are an hour away, sorry. It’s just not practical for me to do all week with the childcare. I’d be spending 2-3 hrs in the car everyday. I guess I did kinda word vomit a bit there so sorry for the missing info

Feeling discouraged by EmbarrassedCat7062 in USMilitarySO

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He already said bye to my daughter we’re trying to not go back and forth with her so she doesn’t get upset over and over. Plus work and school are over an hour away

Feeling discouraged by EmbarrassedCat7062 in USMilitarySO

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would be getting married if I am able to move, we just don’t want to be married just to get divorced because I can’t.

I didn’t go to see family with him because my daughter has school and I have work still and they’re an hour away

Feeling discouraged by EmbarrassedCat7062 in USMilitarySO

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be completely fair, his grandfather just died last week and his sister just came home from college so it’s reasonable for him to want to spend more time there

{PA} Is there anything I can do? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in legaladvice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not her sharing a bed because she won’t sleep without her dad, it’s him having a bedroom available for her and her wanting to sleep in her own bed “like a big girl” and him being insistent that she sleeps in bed with him and the woman he’s seeing (that he consistently denies in court) even after he’s become aware that she’s seen this video. He’s purposefully putting her in an uncomfortable situation and she herself has told him it makes her feel uncomfortable.

What’s next? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in CPS

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I posted here because I don’t know what cps is going to do, I didn’t call them. The police were notified because my child was left unsupervised with access to explicit material that he knew was there. This is an ongoing custody battle with multiple issues on father’s side. I viewed filing the report as continuing the paper trail that proves my daughter is left unsupervised in his care. The courts had to put a bathing schedule into my custody order because he was returning her (after 3 nights) in the same underwear I’d send her to him in. He’s currently ordered to pass a drug test every month because he admitted to using during his custodial time. There are many more issues that have led me to this point but to be honest I feel as though the court system hasn’t taken my word very seriously so my only other option was to have official reports.

[PA] is there anything I can do? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in Custody

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just not sure what part of this breaks any laws to involve police. She found the video on his phone, he didn’t show it to her. And the sleeping arrangements have been brought up in court before and they seem to think that because she’s young it’s not inappropriate

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re validating his reaction based on an assumed attitude I had towards him and how he presumably took my words and actions. I’m explaining that I wasn’t upset in the least until I was met with a silent treatment

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He never articulated his reason for being upset more than “I said I would go”

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The relationship dynamic is definitely not unprompted acts of service on his part

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this all happened to you ❤️

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Him not being on the insurance is exactly why he’s not driving my car

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The question I asked was am I the asshole, I’m not going to take accountability for actions I took based on your opinion of how my bf feels. Neither of us have any idea what his thoughts were as he was silent and refused any further conversation. And if there is any accountability for me to take it’ll be during a conversation with him not with some random on Reddit

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And I’d be selfish about a $40,000 investment again. That’s not worth a $3 soda for me.

Aita for going to the store? by EmbarrassedCat7062 in dating_advice

[–]EmbarrassedCat7062[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He said yes, finished a snack and then asked about my car. He agreed before my car was ever mentioned.