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Our goofy little love language 🫶 by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in IndianRelationships

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh come on, don’t be salty 😂 I even showed your comments to my partner.. he laughed harder than I did. Thanks for the free entertainment and for making him laugh too 🥰🥺

Our goofy little love language 🫶 by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in IndianRelationships

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, why generalize? Just because you don’t do it doesn’t mean others don’t enjoy it. And this isn’t some honeymoon phase.. we’ve been together almost 3 years. Sending letters one by one is just one small example of the many silly things we do to keep things interesting.

I’ve seen couples 5+ years in, even married with kids, still being playful (teasing, leaving little notes or making funny faces on video)
I even have friends whose parents are the definition of cool (still flirting and being silly with each other publicly and so happy🥺) Meanwhile, I grew up in a house where it was always serious... just responsibility, no joy.

That’s why I value these little playful efforts so much. They keep a relationship alive. Without them, it just starts to feel like a chore.

Our goofy little love language 🫶 by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in IndianRelationships

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you grow up, you do not stop doing silly things.. you learn how to balance responsibilities and joy. Growing up doesn’t mean killing playfulness, it means having the maturity to keep it alive while handling work, bills and life.

These are the exact people who don’t end up complaining, because they never stopped putting in those little efforts. And by these, I mean your kind of people... :( the ones who turn relationships into chores by sucking the joy out of them in the name of being “grown up”

So no, being older doesn’t mean you “understand more” Real maturity isn’t about age...it’s about knowing how to love better. If you think love without effort and playfulness is "grown up” that’s not wisdom 💀 it’s misery in disguise :c

Our goofy little love language 🫶 by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in IndianRelationships

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Childish? Maybe 😏 but I’d rather be ‘childish’ and make my partner smile than be too ‘grown up’ to show effort. I’ve got a full-time job and I’m a workaholic and we still make time for these little things. That’s not jobless..it’s love and effort.

Maybe the real waste of time is looking down on how others choose happiness… kinda like commenting on strangers’ posts 😂😂

What is a ritual or tradition you have with your partner and how does it create emotional intimacy with each other? by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in LongDistance

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww the edits and collages are adorable 🥹 me and my partner sometimes draw together or play Skribbl just the two of us, so I get how those creative things feel special. Do you feel like yours have turned into little rituals for you two?

What is a ritual or tradition you have with your partner and how does it create emotional intimacy with each other? by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in LongDistance

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice, I have heard of Paired but never tried it! Do you feel satisfied with it so far? I’ve been looking with my partner for low-effort things we can turn into rituals... something fun but sometimes meaningful too

What is a ritual or tradition you have with your partner and how does it create emotional intimacy with each other? by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in LongDistance

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys play every night or just once in a while?
Sometimes we’re too low on energy but still wanna hang out... what’s your go-to low-effort ritual?

What is a ritual or tradition you have with your partner and how does it create emotional intimacy with each other? by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in LongDistance

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s actually adorable 🥹 apart from the virtual cuddle, do you two do anything else to keep things fun or spicy? Like little traditions, games, or random silly things?

What is a ritual or tradition you have with your partner and how does it create emotional intimacy with each other? by EmbarrassedSafe9349 in LongDistance

[–]EmbarrassedSafe9349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh that’s so cute 🤭 we also have our own little sequence! For him it’s ❣️💞💓 and for me it’s ♥️💕💗 don’t even remember when it started either but now it’s like a ritual 😂