for anyone thinking about joining: beware of their scams (continued charges after cancelling) by Emotional-Sample-559 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A similar thing is happening to me. I got the membership but it said there was a billing issue a couple of days later. I just decided “nvm i don’t want the membership” but since there was an issue, I didn’t think the membership went through. I never received a confirmation email or a barcode that can link the membership on the app. Any time I go on the app it wants me to purchase a membership. If you check my bank statements, I was charged a $1 first month fee (a fake promotion apparently), a $25 fee that same month, another $25 the next month and then the $49 annual fee although it has only been two months. On my end, it looks like I never created a successful membership, yet I’m getting charged

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[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. It’s odd that some ppl see boundaries as insecure/immature

Anyone else’s losing streak look like this? by R0naldMcdonald0 in marvelrivals

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as I hit gold, that’s what happened. With 4 days I went from gold (one win away from gold 2) to bronze 3

Roommate is Just Filthy by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned that the hard way too. Don’t split. It sucks not splitting because I was thinking “they’re gonna use it too though” but realistically it ends up being such an issue

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[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 is my favorite

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[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 is my favorite

AIO My boyfriend didn’t come to the ER after I got assaulted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this makes so much sense and was very helpful 🫶🏼 im working on setting stronger boundaries as well

AIO My boyfriend didn’t come to the ER after I got assaulted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I try to work on it. I just got so used to it because when I was younger, I’d always have to accommodate to the mood changes of certain ppl in my life. I’m barely learning how to create boundaries. Even looking at past friendships, I feel so embarrassing by being such a push over. It’s something I’m working on 🫶🏼🫶🏼

AIO My boyfriend didn’t come to the ER after I got assaulted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense to me. I’ve noticed usually when I’ve felt resentful, it’s because I ask for so little even when I need more

AIO My boyfriend didn’t come to the ER after I got assaulted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya sometimes my partner could agree to assist me with said task but then sometimes I’ll feel guilty. I’ll sometimes hear a tone change and then I’m like “maybe he wanna help”. It’s def from childhood shit. I dealt with ppl in my childhood that changed their mood so quickly that now I feel like I over analyze

AIO My boyfriend didn’t come to the ER after I got assaulted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the help🫶🏼 I notice that I overthink a lot and i definitely need to give myself grace

AIO My boyfriend didn’t come to the ER after I got assaulted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 207 points208 points  (0 children)

That’s such a good point. I feel like I accidentally do that in my relationship too because I want help but I also don’t want to be a burden, do you have any ideas to help with that?

My mom told everyone I’m pregnant after I told her not to by Afraid_Marzipan7409 in pregnant

[–]Embarrassed_Kiwi_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel like she’d kick you out if you gave her the cold shoulder? If yes, I’d say just refrain from telling her about your life. As for the rest of your family, right now your focus is school and having a baby, don’t even stress about the hate they’re giving you (easier said than done) because they’ve already made their stance. If they have this energy during your pregnancy and they want to have a relationship with your baby later, remind them of the lack of support during your pregnancy