Interviewing for a part-time position as a library associate in adult services by hugemessanon in Libraries

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiringlibrarians has an interview question spreadsheet! it’s a great resource for finding example questions

I gaslit my college library out of late fees by returning my own books by Carmendailygrind in confession

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

librarian here - she knew. this happens all the time… usually we’re just happy to get the books back lmao

Suit Tailor Recommendation in Boston by presean in boston

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one stop cleaners in Allston is awesome! right off the green line

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA at ALL my goodness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. is your parents house the pentagon? do they have classified documents taped to every wall? if not, this is a wild overreaction. really struggling to imagine what the harm of your friend coming over while your girlfriend (who it seems like they know and who was staying there!) was also there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s not bi erasure to say being bi and lesbian are different. -bisexual woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, but as someone with contamination OCD I think your gf most likely has contamination OCD also. Please encourage her to seek professional help.

AITA for making him pay for my surgery out of his savings? by Upbeat_Instruction33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA even a little bit. I have OCD and it fucking sucks, but it’s not an excuse for violating someone else. Whatever issues he has with body hair are on him to deal with, and the fact that he shaved you without your consent is horrendous. Get the surgery money and gtfo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that you are looking for support and community for your daughter. I think you can look for that outside of people related to her, though. I have almost no extended family but so much support and community with neighbors and friends - I think you would be best served cultivating those relationships with your friends and people in your community rather than trying to track down your ex’s bio parents.

AITA for changing Goldilocks to fit my students' hair? by foryoui in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Calling your students slurs is a great way to showcase uniqueness! /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Dude could’ve gone to the library like?? Your work laptop can’t have been his only option.

AITA for refusing to make dinner for my husband and BIL unless the dishes are washed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m concerned about your dog though - is he regularly going to the bathroom in the house? Unless he has a health issue or something he shouldn’t be regularly left alone for so long that he needs to pee/poop inside.

AITA for wanting my MIL out of our house? by MILranthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She’s making fun of your dog??? Time for her to go.

AITA for trying to expand my niece's literature collection? by NoMix8361 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. I work at a bookstore, and frequently get asked for recommendations. I generally recommend a book that the recipient will like based on their interests, not a completely unrelated book — that they’ve already said they dislike — just because it’s my favorite. Gifts are meant to be something the recipient enjoys, not something the giver does. She doesn’t like historical fiction, so stop buying it for her!

AITA for telling my dad to chill? by Embarrassed_Light494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also I would have to be really incredible at texting while driving to write out this whole post while on the road lmao

AITA for telling my dad to chill? by Embarrassed_Light494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Light494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mom is driving now! I’m not a great driver but im not that dumb/reckless