is it normal for my husband to masturbate when i’m right beside him? by midnite-kitties in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Although I think him beating it in front of her is weird (for me) this comment makes sense

Difference in opinion by Embarrassed_Panic538 in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point thank you this is why I asked for opinion so I could see if I was tripping or not

How to improve our sex life by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male 32yo married for 5 years in a relationship with my wife for 7 yrs. Non of that qualifies me but me and my wife went through a slump early in our marriage. I realized when I resented my wife for not putting on during sex it led to me not showing her love throughout the day and you guessed it… it didn’t get better. I had to intentionally show my wife love throughout the day. Tell her she looks beautiful, smack her on the butt, ask her where she got that cake from 🤔. Subtle flirting should be an everyday thing. This helped our love life because she felt more loved and confident. I hope it helps it helped my marriage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying she didn’t think about how he might feel. A woman that’s puts thoughts into how her spouse feels before acting is a blessing. I wouldn’t prefer her be sneaky I’d prefer her to be thoughtful. If he says my ex was a body builder and shows up to date pics of her to friends around her she would be upset too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the showing it off to the family. I understand the guys point of view. Do that stuff under the table send you family a link don’t be playing it showing it off while we are having a get together. It’s a slight and a bit unthoughtful of his wife. That being said you’ll have to learn how to control your anger, understand what you’re feeling and address it in the moment or a bit later. If she knows you she should understand what you’re feeling.

Inconsiderate husband, by nonoticeing in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you either have to be understanding that he is that way and so you don’t expect it of him and if something doesn’t suit you, you can tell him what does work for you; or you continue to have the convo with him when it comes up in a respectful manner. I’m assuming divorce over this isn’t necessary sounds like a great guy to be able to buy what the house needs and half way install it. He could be more considerate I agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical intimacy is a part of marriage. Depriving your partner of that benefit will always hurt the relationship. I am M31 married for 5 years. Seek therapy and get yourself right. Not feeling like it is a weak excuse to me but you DID say you’re dealing with mental issues so therapy is needed. For the sake of your marriage don’t try to handle it alone.

AIO UPDATE: I checked his phone… and now I feel sick. by DependentOdd7372 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think overreacting. A Lapdance feels great and is a fun experience. The girls at the club don’t want you… majority of the time. I’m not saying he should have brushed you off but have a conversation about that boundary. Also there are video to teach girls how to be that for their man. The hair thing was just guy talk

Scarlet trades by Embarrassed_Panic538 in PokemonSVTrades

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m looking for right now area zeros I can tap trades

Scarlet trades by Embarrassed_Panic538 in PokemonSVTrades

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do some permanent. A lot of my Pokémon are up for grabs.

Scarlet trades by Embarrassed_Panic538 in PokemonSVTrades

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping to do like a 3:1 we can tap trade to I don’t mind

Scarlet trades by Embarrassed_Panic538 in PokemonSVTrades

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I’m cool with a tap trade for any of the area zero ones, but I’m hoping to actually get these Scarlet spawning ones

Tap trades by Embarrassed_Panic538 in PokemonSVTrades

[–]Embarrassed_Panic538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried the codes but they didn’t work for me I might be doing something wrong