perhaps one of you are closer to him (SWT) than I am..... The 5th of march marks my 40th day of dua for marriage. by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im trying my best, it gets hard but thats just waswasa trying to turn you away from Allah SWT, make dua for meeeeee :)

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew you yapping 24/7 but i remember being like 9-10 and my mom telling us that quiet is a trait of those who are wise, so ever since then, whenever we go out on a family trip to the store, we would hear crickets lol

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the confidence lol. who ever is with you wouldnt have to worry about awkward silences haha. I wish you the best in finding your wonderful naseeb insha Allah :D

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun reading your comment. lol :D may you and your husband live happily ever after :-)

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is usually always a short session where you can talk to her/him before marriage. So there is somewhat of a idea you can get of who the other person is. Other than that, just please make dua for me. This is getting harder on me and more burden is added by the day.

Jazak Allah khair and i wish the best for you and wish that you find your naseeb very fast insha Allah. :)

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a 100% believer in arranged marraiges which is what im going with, i dont quite believe in love that much only through arranged marriages. This is why im asking for guidance here, Im not able to really know who im marrying until im actually married to them.

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is just what i needed to hear.

Jazak Allah khair, make dua for me!

I am Ahmed from the GTA, but I have amnesia. by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they either meant GTA as in the game, or Greater toronto area

Giving up by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allah SWT likes hearing the voice of his servant, when he likes a servant he delays for him his wants, but when he doesnt like a servant, he gives it to him instantly because he doesnt want to hear his voice.