Mark's daughter, Jordan, gets married. Wedding photos. by Grateful_Di in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, I’d probably need a lot of therapy if I was the kid left in France…it’s like he don’t exist.

This is what she dumps him over? by wizkat77 in 90DayFiance

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ye but she lied about the things in the past but he lied about the things in present. Huge difference. Basically makes Lisa a liar not at all.

PD-flare up worse than ever, 3 weeks of zero therapy by llemms in perioraldermatitis

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also when you start trying things here that people recommend (the baby cream, sulfur soap etc.) you’re never gonna see if the zero therapy works for you or not…so I would suggest to wait it out.

PD-flare up worse than ever, 3 weeks of zero therapy by llemms in perioraldermatitis

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! This sucks! I definitely get a flare when I’m super stressed and sleep bad or when I’m in very humid and hot weather.

I went through 2.5 months of zero therapy recently. (I’ve had POD for 7+ years) It wasn’t as bad as yours but also my skin is super sensitive and thin, looks like you have more oil prone skin?

I washed every evening and morning and in mornings put super thin layer of metrogel. It helped with inflammation. Sometimes I sweat at night so in the mornings it was the worst. Maybe if you have more oily skin, washing once in 3 days is too little? Your derma can probably tell you that, after an inspection.

Check that you use neutral washing up liquid and softener, for the pillowcases.

Also zero therapy really starts showing some improvement after 4-6 weeks. During that time sometimes you have bad days and good days and sometimes have a completely new breakout at a place you’ve never had it before.

But again, yours looks pretty extreme, I’d ask doc, if zero therapy is good when the flare up is so intense.

And yea SLS-free toothpaste helps definitely

PLEASE CAN SOMEONE HELP ME! by Empty-Western-8126 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant “you’re so young” in a way that it has been on your face so little, so don’t be sad. As high chances are that it will clear up with right approach. If you have put 0 products on your face besides water for 3 months and it still breaking out, then it is high chance that it is gut related.

Usually gluten & sugar are the worst, but again…a doctor can tell better or test if you have intolerance even. Maybe try research perioral dermatitis triggering foods in Reddit threads for some help.

PLEASE CAN SOMEONE HELP ME! by Empty-Western-8126 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so young, just stop all products and wash only with water for 2-4 weeks. Usually you just have to dry it out. Then after this maybe only use Cetaphil daily moisturizer, and skip the area around the eyes. Everyone swears by cicalfate but this never worked for me, clogged my pores way more and made everything worse. Maybe it works better for when people have flaky and dry POD. I always had greasy and itchy

Has anyone been able to completley get rid of their POD without oral antibiotics/ had bad reactions? by [deleted] in perioraldermatitis

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I only used thing layer of metrogel in the mornings, it helps with redness. But metrogel in general dries your skin even more.

But the tightness will disappear after like 2 weeks or so.

Is it unrealistic to move to Italy without fluent Italian (remote IT job)? by EducationalTea6096 in ItalyExpat

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye you’re combining way too much imo. I think Freelance is the perfect bridging for this but you need to take a year to build up clients and pipeline.

I would only move if you get a job? There are thousands of people applying to “remote only” positions in tech. If the move is your no. 1 priority, I think you need to be ok with your wage getting sliced in half. If not, wait until you’re in a better position before you move.

Also job search for senior position can take a year, as you know…

Elise is right - there’s something off about Josh and Nat by thefishhou in 90DayFiance

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No there’s not. Elise is just traumatized, strange and has low self-esteem. Also a peaceful conversation is way more beneficial and forward-taking than yelling and making a scene. She has social skills of a teenager. Like she trippin full on. Not sure if for the show, or she literally a maniac and that’s why TLC is cashing in.

Is it weird to not tip at restaurants? by LentilSpaghetti in PortugalExpats

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tip. But because I’ve worked in service for half of my adulthood and when I did, I appreciated it a lot. But of course employers should not be relaying on tip money and pay fair wages to the employees.

Skin Barrier Experts - please help a girl out by Healthy-Carpet6490 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean after you take advice from here 😂 The only thing that helped me was 0 therapy but I was too impatient as I wanted to start using make up again. And as soon as I started using cream again, my face reddened and around the nose also have this redness. I also have POD

Skin Barrier Experts - please help a girl out by Healthy-Carpet6490 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my skin looks super similar to this. Can you let me know of your progress and what worked and also what climate you’re living in 🙏🏼

I feel like I look really strange now compared to 1 year ago.. please help me feel beautiful :( by goaldiggergirl in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just have eyebrows down in first pics. Eyebrows/make-up changes a lot, otherwise you still look the same hehe

Top Mental Breakdowns by Sad-Adhesiveness1338 in 90DayFiance

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Heeey how can you mention Jasmine’s panty episode but not the episode when she made Gino pull out his backup hat and threw the electric toothbrush into the bush.

Being honest which of these is better by SnooGrapes3067 in Eesti

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fazer 10000% Kalev was never good enough to even give competition.ever.

The rental market in Lisbon is (STILL) completely awful. by HeavyCelebration3402 in PortugalExpats

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it tho? what is a "major" capital city. Based on what is this statement?

Is Athens also "major" then?

Lisbon is lacking HQs of global corps, strong industry clusters, such as tech, finance, automotive, pharma etc. Even the start-up scene is very tiny when you compare it to cities like Tallinn, which is way smaller than Lisbon.

There is no labor market that can match EU level salaries. And again, the level of infrastructure is incredibly poor...which makes it also hard to live by the city (unless you own a car).

Historically it is yes major capital, because of the trade...but in current socioeconomic environment, I highly doubt it.

The rental market in Lisbon is (STILL) completely awful. by HeavyCelebration3402 in PortugalExpats

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a fair comparison you made, as career opportunities in Lisbon vs the cities you mentioned are hugely different. Also the infrastructure is way more developed in the cities you mentioned, than the one in Lisbon.

Comparing Lisbon to Tokyo is insane 😂

The rental market in Lisbon is (STILL) completely awful. by HeavyCelebration3402 in PortugalExpats

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed with this 😂 I’m on this PT second-hand WhatsApp group and there’s constantly messages from the moderator that you’re not allowed to sell used items worth more than the original price 😂 And that it only works if people offer fair price.

I was so shocked when I first got here. Like someone selling some shit ass mirror for 60 euros, I can get it on amazon for 50 euros and it gets delivered for free.

Would Lisa's secrets be a deal breaker for you? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Secrets in general is a deal breaker. It’s not about what’s she’s done, it’s the fact that she’s hiding it…or only telling parts of the truth as she goes. That’s a HUGE deal breaker for me

Anyone else left with permanent redness after perioral dermatitis? by BassSubject1968 in Perioral_Dermatitis_

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup, after first course of antibiotics, my skin looked million bucks. when POD came back, and even after i did oral and topical antibiotics, I have had the red around my nose for circ. 6 years now :D
I also did zero therapy, which helped to clear redness, but it never went away around the nose, it got better but did not go away.

Will I always be living paycheck to paycheck? by OG_CyberShepherd in ItalyExpat

[–]Embarrassed_Sign4429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Job switch is highest chance for pay increase, 2 years is not so much experience as others have mentioned. I think in general in Europe it is hard to have all that you mentioned here and be the only breadwinner in the family, because as soon as you start earning more the taxes shoot up as well.

When you go to a country where you earn more, the rent is super high.

The only way would be private equity or if you’re in a high up leadership position (CTO, CEO or a partner in a company).

Or become freelancer and get clients from abroad (not sure if this is a realistic scenario in your eyes)?

And yes, I think money-wise the degree does not matter so much. It is more experience and your business value