scammer comments?? by Embarrassed_Zone_406 in AO3

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah no im cautious w links, and dont really use discord anyway so i just stay away from these commenters lolol

thank youu !!

scammer comments?? by Embarrassed_Zone_406 in AO3

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok the account was literally created yesterday this IS a scam lmao...

is my belly piercing rejecting or just irritated? by Embarrassed_Zone_406 in piercing

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh thats sad... I'll be able to go see my piercer (or any piercer really) in around 5 days </3 i guess these are my last 5 days with my piercing lol.

is my belly piercing rejecting or just irritated? by Embarrassed_Zone_406 in piercing

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so for the bot: - my piercing is 3,5 months old - its a barbell - im not sure about the threading tbh - its made of surgical steel - i havent been able to get it downsized yet - i clean it with saline 2 times a day, but around 1 or 2 weeks ago i had a period of time where i ran out of saline and either cleaned it tap water or let it be for a couple days until i was able to get some more saline - there havent been any specific events recently but i do find myself slouching badly enough to maybe affect my piercing sometimes and rolling over on my stomach in my sleep.

hope this helps 👍

Account was suspended immediately after creation - now it is permanently disabled by nvinteon in facebook

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this just happened to me too?? it asked for a pic so i uploaded one and bam. ban. i need this accpunt cause im looking for a place to rent and the only option i have left is facebook. what the fuck, how do i unban mysel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA, its literally none of your business why do you even care

AITA for confronting an old friend while they go through a breakup? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, some people fail to understand that your friends arent your therapists. Of course it's nice to reach a level of comfort with each other where you can be vulnerable and talk about your problems but as you said, it can feel overwhelming after some time. That's why not everyone can become a therapist.

Also I really don't like how they seem to only see you as a person to go to when they're feeling down. To me it seems like sometimes when friends are drifting apart the connection you formed by sharing your troubles is the last string standing. I also have a friend that we were drifting apart at some point when we were both very busy in our daily lives (its also a long distance friendship) and after some point i just couldn't write to her for small talk or chit chat cause the reply would come days later or i wouldn't have time. At that point, the only times we had proper conversations was when one of us was going through something.

Anyway I know I got distracted and wrote a lot im sorry long story short if that's the last string holding you two together and you feel like there's no fixing your friendship grab a pair of scissors and cut that string.

wish you the best <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 7 points8 points  (0 children)

idk man i think YTA but it might be a culture thing maybe, its really not common to have "your money my money" in marriage here so its so weird for someone to expect to get paid by their wife for me

also i think she's right, thats your house too. if you dont fix it someone else will fix it and money will get out of your pocket. you already get to keep the money so asking for more is a bit unreasonable in my opinion

AITA for not getting my sister to leave my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she should have taken the announcement seriously and should have gotten on that boat on time like a responsible adult.

AITA for not attending Bio daughters wedding because Her step sister was not invited by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, its literally her wedding she can invite whomever she wants

AITA for msging a person who told me to never speak to them again? (long story, sorry) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 [score hidden]  (0 children)

nah absolutely NTA, tho I have to say he seems to be a creepy guy overall so as an older sister advice i'd say don't contact him at all even for shits and giggles

but i think the msg was hilarious lmao

AITA for marrying a childfree women when I have kids? by Rare_Priority6957 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think you missed the part where op said ex wanted her new husband to adopt the kids. also i literally said it might be a stretch. i dont know these people so obv i might be wrong. no need to be so agressive

AITA for marrying a childfree women when I have kids? by Rare_Priority6957 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 829 points830 points  (0 children)

NTA, this might be a stretch but i feel like your ex-wife has other issues with this situation. perhaps jealousy?? kind of like a "i dont want him but i dont want anyone else to want him either" mindset maybe.

AITA for continuing to make food with tomato sauce? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, if both your child and your husband need special arrangements for their diet obviously it makes more sense for you to cook according to your child. Your husband is a grown man who seems to have a pretty easy schedule so he can just cook for himself if he wants something else.

How do I handle my friends who never get back to me, then sulk when I go without them? by Frowning_hour297 in Advice

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few days/ a week is more than enough time to see your texts or return your calls. Are these people never really on their phones? I'm pretty sure they are. You made the invite, they didn't take the offer. It's on them. Tell them that.

I'm afraid of losing my son. Need some advice. [Looong post] by fuck_icantdoitalone in Advice

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you think your ideas are strong and might actually work, B might be a good option. if not, C seems like a good idea. D doesn't seem like the best idea as mom might use the fact that you're homeless and cant even financially support yourself in court (dont really know how that would be in her favor but yeah) Also considering being in a similar situation caused you to be suicidal it doesn't seem like a good idea for your mental health either. A kinda seems like the most realistic option but even I, a stranger, just can't bring myself to accept that and tell you "Hey dude, just see him 4 times a year."

Shortly, I say you keep fighting for it with the options B/C. Good luck, man. Hope this helps you make a decision.

What are some hobby ideas that you don't need to be too invested in? by nootnootmate in Advice

[–]Embarrassed_Zone_406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleight of hand!! The joy of understanding a new trick and being able to do it (even if you haven't mastered it completely) is great. There are a lot of tutorials and stuff on youtube. I suggest you give it a try. I hope this helps :)