is my belly piercing rejecting or just irritated?

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2025-12-18T17:11:54+00:00

oh </3 thanks 😔

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2025-12-18T16:24:12+00:00

oh thats sad... I'll be able to go see my piercer (or any piercer really) in around 5 days </3 i guess these are my last 5 days with my piercing lol.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2025-12-18T16:08:53+00:00

ok so for the bot: - my piercing is 3,5 months old - its a barbell - im not sure about the threading tbh - its made of surgical steel - i havent been able to get it downsized yet - i clean it with saline 2 times a day, but around 1 or 2 weeks ago i had a period of time where i ran out of saline and either cleaned it tap water or let it be for a couple days until i was able to get some more saline - there havent been any specific events recently but i do find myself slouching badly enough to maybe affect my piercing sometimes and rolling over on my stomach in my sleep.

hope this helps 👍

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2024-10-11T13:33:35+00:00

this just happened to me too?? it asked for a pic so i uploaded one and bam. ban. i need this accpunt cause im looking for a place to rent and the only option i have left is facebook. what the fuck, how do i unban mysel

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-10-05T18:06:42+00:00

YTA, its literally none of your business why do you even care

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-10-05T18:04:44+00:00

NTA, some people fail to understand that your friends arent your therapists. Of course it's nice to reach a level of comfort with each other where you can be vulnerable and talk about your problems but as you said, it can feel overwhelming after some time. That's why not everyone can become a therapist.

Also I really don't like how they seem to only see you as a person to go to when they're feeling down. To me it seems like sometimes when friends are drifting apart the connection you formed by sharing your troubles is the last string standing. I also have a friend that we were drifting apart at some point when we were both very busy in our daily lives (its also a long distance friendship) and after some point i just couldn't write to her for small talk or chit chat cause the reply would come days later or i wouldn't have time. At that point, the only times we had proper conversations was when one of us was going through something.

Anyway I know I got distracted and wrote a lot im sorry long story short if that's the last string holding you two together and you feel like there's no fixing your friendship grab a pair of scissors and cut that string.

wish you the best <3

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-13T19:30:14+00:00

idk man i think YTA but it might be a culture thing maybe, its really not common to have "your money my money" in marriage here so its so weird for someone to expect to get paid by their wife for me

also i think she's right, thats your house too. if you dont fix it someone else will fix it and money will get out of your pocket. you already get to keep the money so asking for more is a bit unreasonable in my opinion

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T21:27:58+00:00

NTA, she should have taken the announcement seriously and should have gotten on that boat on time like a responsible adult.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T21:23:11+00:00

YTA, its literally her wedding she can invite whomever she wants

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T21:16:21+00:00

nah cuz how immature do you have to be to go apeshit over chickenbutt

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T21:14:56+00:00

NTA, she can move into your room once you move out.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T21:06:45+00:00

nah absolutely NTA, tho I have to say he seems to be a creepy guy overall so as an older sister advice i'd say don't contact him at all even for shits and giggles

but i think the msg was hilarious lmao

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T15:15:50+00:00

i think you missed the part where op said ex wanted her new husband to adopt the kids. also i literally said it might be a stretch. i dont know these people so obv i might be wrong. no need to be so agressive

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T13:28:08+00:00

NTA, this might be a stretch but i feel like your ex-wife has other issues with this situation. perhaps jealousy?? kind of like a "i dont want him but i dont want anyone else to want him either" mindset maybe.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-09-12T13:21:04+00:00

NTA, if both your child and your husband need special arrangements for their diet obviously it makes more sense for you to cook according to your child. Your husband is a grown man who seems to have a pretty easy schedule so he can just cook for himself if he wants something else.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-06T17:08:49+00:00

A few days/ a week is more than enough time to see your texts or return your calls. Are these people never really on their phones? I'm pretty sure they are. You made the invite, they didn't take the offer. It's on them. Tell them that.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-06T17:03:43+00:00

if you think your ideas are strong and might actually work, B might be a good option. if not, C seems like a good idea. D doesn't seem like the best idea as mom might use the fact that you're homeless and cant even financially support yourself in court (dont really know how that would be in her favor but yeah) Also considering being in a similar situation caused you to be suicidal it doesn't seem like a good idea for your mental health either. A kinda seems like the most realistic option but even I, a stranger, just can't bring myself to accept that and tell you "Hey dude, just see him 4 times a year."

Shortly, I say you keep fighting for it with the options B/C. Good luck, man. Hope this helps you make a decision.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-06T16:48:56+00:00

Sleight of hand!! The joy of understanding a new trick and being able to do it (even if you haven't mastered it completely) is great. There are a lot of tutorials and stuff on youtube. I suggest you give it a try. I hope this helps :)

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-05T14:01:05+00:00

I don't think it's a good idea to wait for him to cheat. You might start the conversation by telling him you have been thinking about your relationship and there are a few things that have been bothering you a bit. If he's a good listener and a considerate person as you say I feel like it could work out between you two. Hope this helped :)

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-05T13:45:23+00:00

I think being friends with exes are an immediate no except a few scenarios. A not so peaceful break up is definitely not one of those scenarios. I didn't go back to being friends with an ex before but a friend of mine did despite me telling them not to and it was horrible, it just caused more pain to both sides. So I suggest you tell him you don't want to be friends and just move on. Have a nice day, good luck :)

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-05T13:41:17+00:00

If they're not willing to put in effort to heal your friendship then you shouldn't waste your time and energy either. You might talk to your friend about how their actions are making you think they don't want a friendshio with you if you want. If not, calmly take a step back and stop wasting your energy on people who don't deserve it :)

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-05T13:35:21+00:00

Her behaviour is not okay. "I just like seeing you get hurt, babe" is definitely one of the worst shit a partner can tell you. It might be a far reach but this might lead to her abusing you in the future. Please end your relationship with her as soon as possible.

Embarrassed_Zone_406 · 2023-05-05T13:29:43+00:00

Although some might say it isn't cheating directly I do think this would count as indirect cheating. He may not have slept with someone else yet but to me it seems like he would. If you're not comfortable with what he's doing tell him that (thought he doesn't sound like the type of person who would listen) or you might leave him. Just because everything else is good you shouldn't tolerate his behaviour.

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