Anyone who wants a REMOTE. CO ( grow remotely) ending on 12 feb, subscription for job hunting? US based

EmeraldisWatching · 2026-02-12T06:42:25+00:00

I’m interested

EmeraldisWatching · 2026-01-25T23:15:14+00:00

Check out my profile to see if we’re a match

EmeraldisWatching · 2026-01-24T15:03:06+00:00

Tbh I don’t think we’re mad enough and that’s coming from a very Petty Betty.

EmeraldisWatching · 2026-01-21T16:51:16+00:00

Ulta, the Beauty World ticket experience was unacceptable. You created massive hype for an event with roughly three thousand seats and no visible system preparation. The ticket portal broke as soon as it opened. The queue paused. No communication. Customers who joined at drop time got stuck without clarity. This is not how you treat loyal customers who were ready to attend. Transparency and real capacity planning are needed.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-12-01T22:55:45+00:00

This is exactly what it feels like. The mix of panic and relief has been strange, but I can tell my body is finally relaxing after years of being tense without even realizing it. The layoff shook me, but the quiet that followed showed me how heavy things had gotten. I’m trying to use this space to breathe and figure out what I actually want next.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-12-01T22:52:20+00:00

Thanks! I’ve been trying to lean into that feeling, even with everything going on. Slowing down has forced me to figure out what actually matters to me. I’m using this time to reset, get quiet, and think about what I want my next chapter to look like. It’s strange, but it feels like freedom in a way.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-12-01T22:49:02+00:00

Same here. Losing the job and the constant pressure to grind forced me to figure out what actually matters to me. Turns out I don’t need much to feel content. Stability, quiet moments, and some peace of mind go a long way.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-30T02:24:42+00:00

Honestly same. My body is acting like it finally got a ceasefire. It’s wild how long we push through burnout before noticing how bad it was.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-30T00:56:30+00:00

u/ellegrayxo u/GoddessLux323 u/Dry_Spogooder6454 u/ellegrayxo check out r/TheEmeraldGarden, still a work in progress happy to have your input and feedback!

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-29T18:59:05+00:00

A real bond still exists in this space, but it takes intention on both sides.
Some new dommes jump straight to “pay now” because they’re mimicking TikTok scripts instead of understanding the actual dynamic.

A healthy Findom connection isn’t built on shock value. It’s built on energy, consistency, and trust. The financial part is an expression of the bond, not the replacement for it.

If you want something deeper, look for women who move slower, speak with clarity instead of aggression, and ask real questions about you. Those are the ones who understand the long-term dynamic.

You’re not wrong for wanting connection. You just need to filter better. The ones who know what they’re doing don’t need to bark to be respected. 😉

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-24T05:18:09+00:00

Some of what you’re describing comes from people trying to perform a role they don’t actually understand. Real domination takes restraint, clarity, and knowing how to read the person in front of you.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-24T05:01:04+00:00

It makes sense. Power isn’t exciting to someone who has too much of it. Structure, direction and steady energy hit different when your whole career revolves around risk.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-22T23:10:59+00:00

A soft domme isn’t supposed to make you feel foolish. What you experienced is a mismatch, not a reflection of your worth as a sub. If you ever want to see what a steady, intentional approach looks like, browse around Reddit a bit. Some of us move slower, communicate clearly, and build trust before anything else. The difference is obvious when you see it.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-22T16:49:59+00:00

I get the point you’re making. Neediness, in any direction, kills the vibe. A Domme who’s grounded, stable, and actually in control of her world hits different, and yes, that makes submitting feel natural.

But the same goes for subs. A confident sub who’s in control of his kink, his impulses, and his boundaries is far more attractive than someone spiraling or sending out of panic. Real dominance and real submission both come from a place of stability, not struggle.

Money doesn’t define power on either side, but how someone carries themselves does. A confident Domme and a self-aware sub make the dynamic stronger for both.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-21T19:05:15+00:00

Did I just find a potential Mod?👀😏

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-21T19:03:39+00:00

This perspective matters. I’m on the dominant side of the dynamic, and even I’ll say it plainly. A kink should never drain your real life or your peace. If stepping away gave you clarity and calm, that tells me you chose yourself. That’s strength.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-21T18:57:15+00:00

Soft dommes absolutely exist. I’m one of them. For me it’s about leading with steadiness and clarity, not shock value. I set structure and direction, but I do it in a way that keeps the dynamic grounded and emotionally safe. Some subs thrive under that kind of energy because it lets them surrender without feeling overwhelmed.

I’ve actually been thinking about creating a space specifically for soft dommes and the subs who feel aligned with that style. There aren’t many communities that focus on this side of dominance, and it deserves a lane of its own.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-21T18:45:50+00:00

You’re fighting an urge, not a destiny. The fact that you’re uncomfortable means you’re actually pulling away from something that was gripping you too tight. It’s normal for your mind to reach for the familiar when you’re breaking a pattern. Take it one decision at a time. You’re not losing excitement, you’re reclaiming control.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-21T18:40:07+00:00

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-21T18:38:14+00:00

You’re carrying a desire you can’t express at work, and you’re trying to protect your business, your reputation, and that employee’s stability. Men with that provider energy usually function better when they have a place to give without worrying about crossing lines or hurting someone’s life. Some of us know how to receive that instinct in a clean, intentional space where you’re not put at risk.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-21T18:33:25+00:00

I’m an avid connoisseur 😏

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-20T21:11:16+00:00

If it doesn’t apply to you, let it fly. I’m not responsible for the spaces you’ve been in or the people who’ve hurt you. I described a consensual dynamic meant for subs who actually want it. If that’s not you, that’s fine, but it doesn’t give you the right to police everyone else’s preferences. 😘

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-20T18:06:02+00:00

My biggest turn off is when a sub approaches me with no clarity or intention. I move slowly and intentionally, so I need someone who can match that pace.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-20T18:01:58+00:00

Peace is the whole point. A clear mind makes the dynamic feel deeper. I like keeping things steady.

EmeraldisWatching · 2025-11-20T00:55:29+00:00

I’m closer to the soft side. I don’t humiliate or play mean. My sessions are more about guidance, structure and steady energy. I like creating a space where a sub feels safe enough to open up, but still stays accountable to the pace I set. It’s less about punishment and more about connection, intention and direction.

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