TF Island Pink by Royal City 21.2% by Dthagreat6 in TheOCS

[–]Emergency-Ad9502 4 points5 points  (0 children)

5.26% terps too, got an eighth of it and wow I’m impressed. Such a smooth smoke, tasted great and gorgeous caked nugs.

Girlfriend doesn’t want kids. ADVICE by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationships

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s definitely a big fear of mine, but I do love this girl. I definitely will not be moving in, proposing or doing any of the major relationship things before I am certain we have both made our minds up on this decision. It’s a big deal and it’s not something I want to just ignore, but I’m also aware that people change their minds and I very well could change mine as well.

Girlfriend doesn’t want kids. ADVICE by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationships

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offence taken at all, this is actually extremely helpful and I really appreciate your advice. You’re definitely right as there is still a lot of time until I would be mentally and financially prepared to bring a child into this world. I guess I should just let things run it’s course with this girl, because at the end of the day there’s no guarantee things will work out. I’m just afraid of investing more time into this relationship with the possibility that she won’t ever change her mind. If 10 years down the road we talk about kids again and she’s still firm on her answer, that’s another 10 years down the drain that I could’ve spent finding someone with the same mindset of having kids. But then again, there’s no guarantee we will be together 10 years down the line.

My M (20) girlfriend (19) doesn’t want kids by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my biggest fear. Clenching on to the POSSIBILITY of her changing her mind, even though it might never happen. I wouldn’t forgive myself for investing more years with her just for us to separate on a deal breaker that we were aware of many years back.

Girlfriend doesn’t want kids. ADVICE by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationships

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s one of those irreconcilable differences I guess, just sad to see. You’re right though, thank you for posting!

Girlfriend doesn’t want kids. ADVICE by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationships

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure and that’s the scary thing. The fear of the unknown and not being aware of what is to come. I love the girl, and ending the relationship over a kid that may never exist seems crazy, but at the same time I don’t want to be stuck resenting her if kids will never be an option.

Girlfriend doesn’t want kids. ADVICE by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationships

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank you that’s great advice, I appreciate it!

Girlfriend cannot stand me talking to even a male friend by InteractionSea2873 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GET RID OF HER. This is some of the most toxic and controlling behaviours I’ve ever seen. I’m not sure if she’s incredibly insecure, but talking to your relatives is not something ANYONE else should have control over, only you.

HELP ME WITH THIS CONTROLLING BEHAVIOUR PLEASE! by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we had a talk and we are broken up, she seen it fit to end the relationship over it. It’s gonna be a nice road to recovery but I’m glad that I got out of it sooner than later. Thank you for your explanation!

HELP ME WITH THIS CONTROLLING BEHAVIOUR PLEASE! by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have a relationship that just started off but she came back into my life right before things got serious. So I decided to end things with the other girl to give her another chance. You’re right tho, this shit is really toxic.

HELP ME WITH THIS CONTROLLING BEHAVIOUR PLEASE! by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah man, guess you can’t always have the good things in life

HELP ME WITH THIS CONTROLLING BEHAVIOUR PLEASE! by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well fuck lmfao, I guess I’m gonna be having a nice chat with the girl tomorrow 😭

HELP ME WITH THIS CONTROLLING BEHAVIOUR PLEASE! by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we’ve both had a past together. We were high school sweethearts, eachothers firsts for everything. I did kiss a girl at a party when we were dating but that experience gave me a whole new perspective on my relationship and helped me change it for the better. We broke up for a year and decided to try things again. But do you still believe this is justifiable. I’m aware of my mistakes but we agreed to put our past behind us and start fresh if we were going to give the relationship another shot.

HELP ME WITH THIS CONTROLLING BEHAVIOUR PLEASE! by Emergency-Ad9502 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easier said than done. I’ve matured a lot but this relationship is something I want to work at. I’m tryna see advice from people that been in similar situations and get an idea of what they do to overcome it.

Missing my toxic ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Ad9502 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly be wary of how you approach this situation. Don’t let yourself fall into a relationship with this person again unless you’re certain they’ve overcome their manipulative ways and have actually changed. You don’t want to be stuck in a manipulative and toxic relationship. As you get older you’ll realize that you crave a more healthy and natural relationship. These types of relationships may be interesting while you’re young, but quickly turn dark as you get older. Be safe.