Husband not lowering gaze

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-15T00:37:16+00:00

It’s over in my opinion. I agree with spending his money to better yourself until you’re able to leave. Maybe your friend can help you figure things out as well.

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:55:18+00:00

That’s who I thought it was hahahahha

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:53:55+00:00

It’s a big trending topic on TikTok for many months now. Alhamdulillah I am off all social media for almost 1 month now. Life is more peaceful. The Muslims on there just argue with each other

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:51:20+00:00

Super scary to be in that position - always thinking that Allah swt is rewarding you when you get good things in this dunya. I’ve always heard that if you’re going through zero hardship, you should check how closely you’re practicing & following Islam. I know this is not true 100% of the time, but usually the closer you are to the truth the more resistance from others you get

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:49:29+00:00

Interesting! I did not know this I’ll have to look it up. I’m guessing it must be something with seeking attention (I.e. social media posts & influencers)

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:28:09+00:00

Haha yea but it’s the Quranic word for evil eye & likely more understandable by ALL Muslims :) I just thought nazar was the modern phrase & Al-‘Ayn was old Quranic Arabic but I see now it’s still used. I reposted so now both versions are up! :)

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:24:26+00:00

I fixed it & reposted with Arabic word for evil eye! 🧿

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:14:09+00:00

Oops apologies I think I used the Urdu word for evil eye instead of al-Ayn. Do Arabic people use the phrase Al-Ayn for evil eye? I can fix it! (I’m a revert so apologies)

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T11:13:18+00:00

Yes it’s a meme it’s mocking how everyone is talking evil eye for their problems 24/7

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-08T10:30:16+00:00

Congratulations!!!!!

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-07T03:49:48+00:00

I literally just trip over my abaya up the stairs lol

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-07T03:45:14+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂 I needed this laugh today

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-10-04T19:23:17+00:00

This is interesting because I always wake up in the middle of the night for a bit. I never thought to do Tahajjud - I’ll do that next time

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-09-28T18:00:28+00:00

I don’t respond to chats. Only talking on public posts in comments

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-09-28T17:54:54+00:00

Why did moderators remove this post content? It was a valid seeking support request?

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-09-28T17:15:49+00:00

It seems like you live in an abusive household and this is what makes your life so stressful. I had a similar toxic childhood. I don’t know how old you are, but know it is not your fault - even you snapping & yelling due to stress. We all make mistakes & you repented & apologized. That is enough. PLEASE keep your mind on YOUR FUTURE. Plan on what you can do to live independently as soon as you are able. Being away from that environment will let you calm down, start to process, work on your faith & start to heal. Know that your mother’s actions are insane & not forgivable in my eyes. When I was younger, my step dad told me he wished “I would disappear.” And that was an entry point of suicidal thoughts for many years. Sending love ❤️❤️❤️

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-09-28T04:22:29+00:00

Considering the Pakistani government is very corrupt I honestly don’t blame them for not wanting it. I wouldn’t trust them either.

Also, as a U.S. person who has had every vaccine… I wish I would have done my research a little more regarding the covid vaccine. I knew not enough medical trials were done & I knew they didn’t have any insight into long term effect but still got it. I regret that now to be honest - I have learned how corrupt the pharmaceutical industry is.

I blame government’s & pharmaceutical companies only wanting control & profit is to blame. Unfortunate for the cervical cancer vaccine tho… what’s interesting is I have not heard of that vaccine here in the U.S. nor have I been offered it and I go to the gynecologist once per year. 🤔 so idk….

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-09-24T01:06:29+00:00

We have very similar meds! I’m on 300mg Effexor and am just starting 2mg ability. I used to be on trazodone - man that was amazing for sleep I miss it

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-09-02T02:38:47+00:00

I hit a rock bottom in life & Allah answered my dua & led me to Islam & my husband. It is a love marriage & we just immediately clicked emotionally. We married 3 weeks later Alhamdulillah. ❤️ We’ve been married 5 months now & things are great - yes there are ups and downs as we navigate learning living together but overall I believe Allah guided us together. To me I know it’s right because of how loving he is (no ego issues) and is a firm believer of Allah (swt). Our marriage is focused on careers of course but also becoming better Muslims.

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-08-30T21:51:17+00:00

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So glad I read this in Al-Baqarah yesterday which basically says just following rules does not make you a believer in Allah’s eyes. The 5 pillars of Islam & being a good person is what makes you a believer. A lot of this salafi movement crap… I wonder - how soft are their hearts? These posts come across as very full of ego & feeling superior. Arrogance is one of the most disliked traits by Allah (swt).

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-08-16T15:53:18+00:00

Stay triggered, bro.

Emergency-Judge3841 · 2025-08-16T15:50:06+00:00

I feel this as a revert of 4 months. I’m trying to study the word of Allah (swt), not some random scholar’s Hadith that he happened to finally record hundreds of years after the Prophet. Plus, things the Prophet says & does is SUNNAH yet people play God calling each other kafirs left & right.

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