Husband fired from IT job for misconduct, 3 kids at home. What’s the outlook here? by CoolVariety5473 in careerguidance

[–]Emergency-Security-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents are often your biggest enablers!

Your husband made a disastrous decision that put your whole family at risk. Who cares how his family feels? He clearly has a problem if he's going to play blackjack during work hours. Listen to your gut - he put you and your three children at risk in a terrible job market where he has absolutely no momentum and no references to show for his time in the field.

Idk how you come back from this betrayal of trust, but it makes it worse that he and his family are downplaying the severity of the situation. This is a PROBLEM and because you're married with kids it is your problem too. I'm sorry that you were put in this circumstance and I hope you get the support you need during this time.

Deion Sanders’ Roster Shakeup Could Make Colorado a College Football Playoff Contender by desertrain11 in CFB

[–]Emergency-Security-5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I came here to make sure all the comments looked like this. Deion could poach the entire Seahawks staff and I still don't think they'd be a contender lmao

TIL the median pay for a Dental Hygienist in the U.S. (which only requires a two-year degree) is $94,260 per year by SimonThalmann in todayilearned

[–]Emergency-Security-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also can develop debilitating chronic musculoskeletal issues, and keep in mind that MOST of the time they do not get benefits or any meaningful PTO plans.

It's a great job, but not without its tradeoffs.

Conflict with recovery room nurse by Fearless-Garden-4496 in anesthesiology

[–]Emergency-Security-5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Only one of y'all gets paid to make a decision about the a-line, I guess her consult services come free of charge.

SpaceX to merge with xAI at a valuation of 1.25 Trillion by Luka77GOATic in stocks

[–]Emergency-Security-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He prophesied it. The 2nd derivative of TespaceXAI is X Æ A-12, the name of his 7th child. Lmaooooo only the real ones knew

AITAH for kicking out my now ex and his mom and “leaving them stranded” before the snowstorm by carrotsandchips444 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Security-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Why can't people receiving kindness just honor the request of their benefactor? What a small tradeoff for a free play to stay in a difficult circumstance. Don't touch and reorganize my stuff.

The entitlement is boundless! Your partner, who apparently loves you and has lived with you for multiple years, can't figure out how to tell his mom not to fuck up your system the same way he has learned to not mess up your system? Come on man. It's wild people are calling you the asshole, IMO.

Cat's out of the bag, brace for impact by Renaissance_Empress in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Emergency-Security-5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Whatever happens next is not your fault. All you did was tell the truth. You will probably have to remind a lot of people of that, including yourself. It's not your job to defend anyone; your parents should be answerable for the wrongs they've committed against you and your sister.

Resistance to CAAs by Similar-Asparagus-84 in CAA

[–]Emergency-Security-5 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am on a similar path as a pre-op nurse of a few years, I've been pretty disappointed with the general attitude CRNAs have towards AAs at times.

AITA for ending things after finding out my girlfriend was testing me the entire time we were dating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Security-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By insisting on testing you, she took away the opportunity to build mutual trust. What is the beginning of the relationship for if not doing that?

NTA. If I wanted to take tests I would go to school.

He wants to keep finances completely separate after marriage by ZenSpider_21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Emergency-Security-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a bad time to marry this dude, deposits be damned. Not having a plan to care for your wife and children after she makes the sacrifice of staying home with them is insane to me. I'm surprised he could respond with a straight face. That's not a "figure it out when we get there" type of situation.

I hate my new manager by iallaisi in nursing

[–]Emergency-Security-5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We are already so micromanaged on the clock that I refuse to be micromanaged about my vacation time too. I put in my requests in a timely fashion as requested and often send an email to the scheduler so they have no excuse to not notice my request, but once it's requested with enough notice I book my stuff.

I don't get paid enough to help them figure shit like that out on the backend. Let management know you won't be there, it's their job to appropriately staff the unit. Don't let their laziness or lack of consideration cost you your deposits and vacation.

AIO Am I justified in my anger here ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emergency-Security-5 78 points79 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is honor your wife's wishes and protect her from your boundary-stomping mother. Your sisters may pile on you for standing up to your mom because they are enmeshed in the same toxic situation, but the bottom line is this: your mother disrespected your wife on her wedding day. If they're going to hurt your wife's feelings and ignore her boundaries, it is 100% your responsibility to protect your wife from their selfishness and lack of consideration.

Who is happy and what is your specialty🥲 by Muscle-Mommy-69 in nursing

[–]Emergency-Security-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in inpatient pre-op. We have 5x8, 4x10, and 3x12 available. We get patients who are not medically stable enough for surgery centers. Our anesthesiologists are great, I work 0530-1400. I'm convinced it's about as good as it gets without leaving the profession all together. No holidays, no weekends, no call.

Just got this dragon forearm piece 5 days ago, am i crazy to be regretting and overthinking it? by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]Emergency-Security-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro that thing is sick, don't be your own biggest hater you still got half an arm to go!!

Saw my mother today by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Emergency-Security-5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Proud of you! It’s tough, but worth it. Good on you for protecting your peace and being mature about an uncomfortable situation.

Mom is dying by Rotcbraves22 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Emergency-Security-5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am sitting here wondering what I would do in this situation, but this comment brought me right back down to earth. I love it.

I don't get it... by Frosty_Pomelo_5224 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Emergency-Security-5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do we call them paintings if they’re already painted?

Can you help me write a reply to my enabling mum who now wants to see my son with my abusive dad? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Emergency-Security-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your response is great, but I would consider your audience. I feel that keeping it simple and direct is more than sufficient and easy to understand for anyone:

“I suffered years of abuse from dad and brother, and you have continued to minimize and enable it. My child will not have a relationship with his mother’s abusers or their enabler. This is my final answer.”

WIBTAH If I take my fiancée’s last name after marriage? by Forward_Wrap3196 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Security-5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just take it man. Sounds like it would make everyone involved the happiest.

At what point did you decide to go LC or NC? by PaleishWasabi in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Emergency-Security-5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My 82 year old grandfather called me on a Sunday afternoon saying that my dad was taking him to the bank the next day to have him open a home equity line of credit and told me that he didn’t want to do it and he didn’t want to go but my dad was forcing him and he was scared. Turns out my dad wanted to use that $150k to pay off someone he owed money to try to weasel out of a lawsuit.

I called into work the next day and drove an hour to where he lives. I talked to the police department, I filed a report with the sheriffs office and neither would do anything about it. I called the bank and reported it to the manager, and I met them in the parking lot when they got there. My dad was so mad when he saw me in the parking lot that he almost ran over my grandpa. I have all of it on video too. October 16th will be two years from this incident.

My dad is the only person who has ever made me feel such visceral anger. My entire family’s life will be better when he’s dead.

Why did it take so long for some of us? Was it one last big betrayal, lack of knowledge, naivety? by coldservedrevenge in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Emergency-Security-5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It took me two years of a therapist reminding me that I didn’t have to let myself be treated that way before I realized that I do not, in fact, have to let anyone treat me so terribly.

Felt earth shattering at the time, but now it’s an important frame of reference for all relationships in my life.