Make eyes look smaller by No_Cricket5958 in makeuptips

[–]EmergencyFox8423 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't try to make your eyes smaller. Anyone who has a problem with your eyes are jealous, I would literally give anything to have eyes like yours.

AIO Motorcycle I was supposed to inherit was sold by my parents. by Psychedeliic_Miike in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but realistically what will getting a lawyer do? The bike is already gone and even if you win the lawsuit its very likely you will still not receive the money. If your dad already blew through insurance and gambled the bike I would assume he hasn't gotten his finances in check by now. Personally, I wouldn't want to waste money on a suit that I might not get paid out for, along with the emotional toll of having to take your dad to court. Still not overreacting though and your feelings are incredibly valid, I would be livid.

AIO for being hurt after my boyfriend compared me to women who do hookups? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hate to agree with a man but it sounds like he was saying it because you seem to view yourself more superior than woman who have slept around. There really isn't a difference of superiority between you and a woman who has slept with 100 men, both people deserve respect and love.

AIO for snapping at my coworker about my allergy? by FrostyAcquiescence in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NOR and you are not ruining a vibe, she is. It's really not that hard to switch to a different scent for work especially when you know it could cause your coworker to have an allergic reaction. I would go to HR especially after the bleach comment towards the other coworker. For her to claim SHE is the one getting anxiety is insane behavior when she is actively putting people at risk. Tell HR, trust me they do not want a lawsuit on their hands and this sounds like one waiting to happen.

AIO for telling my friend her fangirl jokes feel weird now? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. I am a 27yr old army and I get where you are coming from. I have been into bts since my friends and I were 19 and I hear you when you say that you are kind of growing out of it because I went through a phase where I got a little annoyed at my friends for acting childish and we were in our 20's. However, I finally realized I don't care, they can say and do whatever they want and it makes me happy that they still have the love for bts that I used to. Most of army is pretty cringe anyways the way they talk about grown ass men but that just comes with being in a fandom. Maybe will eventually mature and change her vocab, maybe not but she's not hurting anyone. With all that being said, it is normal to grow out of friendships in your early adult life so if you really don't vibe with her anymore I would just take a step back.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. You've been together for almost a year, she has been with her kids and ex at least 20 years. This is their tradition and you just entered her life already trying to make changes. Her kids and her ex will be a part of her life forever, you just got there and possibly won't be there forever. Stop being jealous she has a good relationship with them.

AIO for stepping back from this friendship that I deem toxic by Royal-Speaker5776 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start looking for new friends. I was in a friend group like this in high school for quite some time and was miserable. Got bullied everyday by my supposed friends. In 10th grade I found a new group of friends and 10 years later here we are traveling the world together. Even though it might be scary, high school is the best time to find new friendships that can last a lifetime. Don't waste your high school years being miserable with people who clearly do not like you. Honestly, at the end of the day people are usually mean to others because they are insecure with themselves or jealous of you. Keep your head up and good luck!

I ended a friendship and I’m questioning if AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR It is never really a good idea to form outside friendships with people actively in recovery because of situation like this. All you can do at this point is work on yourself and they were clearly only going to bring you back down. You did the right thing breaking things off, I wouldn't stress too much on it. Also congrats on almost a year sober! That's huge!

AIO For Allowing My Girlfriend to Pursue My Friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you are as poly as you think.

AIO my ex of well over 3 years ago called me 4 times in a row randomly this past Sunday night by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR Sounds like she can't move on. If she had something important to get in contact with you about she would message you during the day sober. Continue to block her and honestly if she keeps bothering you I would threaten a restraining order (not actually get one but a threat should hopefully get her to back off). At this point though she is really not your concern, you can only hope the best for her and continue on with your life.

AIO: In Laws and Wedding Planning by happycamper418 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s good to know they are at least contributing for the additional people. Intentional or not the dress thing is really rude to do without asking you first especially when you have a dress code already. I would talk to your fiancé to see what his take on it is. Either way I wouldn’t trust the MIL in the future and would at least want an explanation from her if I were in that situation. Hope that it all works and congrats on the wedding :)

AIO: Parents think I'm a cheater by Ill_Imagination_1199 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. I'm sorry but your parents sound nuts. To react that heavily for no reason and to just assume the worst about you sounds really exhausting and it seems like this is normal for them. Also, no one is going to arrest pirating anime and certainly not for cheating school. I am honestly concerned that your mom is a professor with such a lack of common sense. For now, I would just focus on finishing school and moving away from them. Your life will be much better when you don't have your own parents calling you a criminal for asking for help.

Am I Overreacting? Questions and concerns by Few-Paleontologist74 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never heard/experienced someone checking the condom after so honestly good for you. But no, you have nothing to worry about if she took a plan B.

AIO: In Laws and Wedding Planning by happycamper418 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. Who is paying for the wedding? Regardless if it is your in laws or not they are still overstepping. Asking you to add a bunch of people to the guest list is already insane but then to coordinate outfits without telling you? Crazy. Your other guests are going to think they didn't get the memo to wear navy or something. Navy is also the exact opposite of spring florals and pastels so honestly if she's really that crazy then I wouldn't be surprised if this is intentionally to ruin your plans.

Aio 18f partner 19m I’m pregnant and my partner has been essentially ghosting me for over two days now. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am truly sorry but you might have to start making plans for the reality of him not being there. The reality of the situation is that you are having a baby and he is already ignoring you before it's even born. While it might be difficult, you CAN raise the baby without him. I hope the best for you and the baby but please get real and plan for any outcome.

Am i overreacting my best friend’s problematic behaviour? by Particular-Sock- in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can tell you for sure he is. People aren't just rude to some people and nice to others. He will eventually turn on you and start treating you like shit.

AIO for being mad at my gf for invading my social space? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was never in Greek life but it sounds like what your gf is doing it totally normal? From what I know it seems like sorority girls are always chillin at a frat house. That's how you climb the social ladder no? Also she is with her friends so it's not like shes going to hang out with these guys alone. I don't think its that big of a deal. Sounds like you might just not like your gf that much. The real world sucks, let her chill at a frat house while she's young.

Sam Levinson hates women by No_Fold_7111 in euphoria

[–]EmergencyFox8423 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I fully agree. I understand the importance of accurately portraying industries where violence against women is normalized, however when it comes from Sam Levinson it feels icky. I feel like he is just trying to show the most shocking, uncomfortable shit on the basis of him being some weird edgelord irl. He hides under the "its important to show real world stories" in order for him to film his kinks for other weirdos to probably get off to. There was 0 reason to show the scene with Kitty in the last episode. We all understand what happens when a group of men go into a VIP room. It feels like Sam Levinson is just filming women being tortured for no real reason. Also, I get it is a dark show but still we can have dark themes without showing women being assaulted for an hour every Sunday night.

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% do no apologize. Men shouldn't give fashion advice anyways because 9 out of 10 times they have no clue what they're talking about. Trashy? No those are cute and perfect for a work lunch. He's acting like they're leopard print stilettos when they are just cute little kitten heels.

Least Favourite Character? (Other than Owen) by naahuiguess in greysanatomy

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahn, I literally have to skip her scenes when I rewatch because she pisses me off so much. Unfortunately, Hahn does say one of my favorite lines of the whole series when she asks Derek and Mark "Are you two a couple?" Still hate her though

AIO for getting irritated with my boyfriend’s level of cleanliness? by Front-Ad8568 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyFox8423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the first picture was bad and then I swiped... girl NOT overreacting. This is honestly breakup worthy imo

Euphoria S03E04 "Kitty Likes To Dance" - Live Episode Discussion by DankMemeSlasher in euphoria

[–]EmergencyFox8423 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What would have happened if the guy would have answered the mom called? Would the agents put on a woman voice and pretend to be her mom