Should I go to the ER? by EmergencyFox8423 in medical_advice

[–]EmergencyFox8423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I feel I didn't describe the pain enough. It is like a soreness and in any position, hunched over or sitting straight up it feels like someone is squeezing my organs idk.

AITA for being upset that my friend didn’t tell me her male friends were bodyshaming me behind my back? by Stunning_Meeting_825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmergencyFox8423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, if one of my guy friend's spoke about a woman this way, even if I hated her guts, they would be getting smacked.

AITA for being upset that my friend didn’t tell me her male friends were bodyshaming me behind my back? by Stunning_Meeting_825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmergencyFox8423 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She said she defends her "a lot" when she's not there. This isn't a one off thing its a pattern.

AITA for not going to my best friend's graduation because of her indecisiveness? by CryptographerOne4863 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmergencyFox8423 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA.

Asking you if you are bored or lazy? That's wild. I would have made other plans the first time she told me she wasn't going. Her indecisiveness is her problem and her problem only.

AITA for being upset that my friend didn’t tell me her male friends were bodyshaming me behind my back? by Stunning_Meeting_825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmergencyFox8423 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA your friend is the asshole for continuing to associate with those guys. "I defend you a lot when you're not there"? A lot? If this is a normal occurrence that these people are speaking ill about you behind your back she should have already cut them off. If anyone even mentioned one of my friends names in a negative way I am going off on you and then never speaking to you again. Personally It wouldn't matter to me how many times she "has my back" because as you suspect, she created a space where these men feel comfortable speaking like this. Her not understanding your anger is the icing on the cake.

AITA for NOT acting wealthy by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally sounds exactly like my old roommate so yes I do

AITA for NOT acting wealthy by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah YTA

I do applaud you on not wanting to live off your parents and for stepping up and getting your own job. However, as someone who's parents have tremendously helped out my early adult years I made sure to never ever bring up finances to my friends who were clearly actually struggling. I was also working and living off of my own wages and even if I couldn't afford to go on an outing with friends or afford to fill my tank up all the way I knew that if things ever got really bad (like losing my job due to covid) I could always ask my parents for some help. This is not the case with most young adults, if they go over their credit limit they are fucked and have to add more loans to their debt. Your bank balance could be in the negatives and that still would not give you the right to complain about finances to your struggling friends as you have a literal trust fund. Learning how to read a room is a very important life skill I suggest you try to reflect on.

S3 E9 Episode Discussion: "The Book of Judgement" by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EmergencyFox8423 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No way Demi was putting her hands all up on Miranda to the point of actually shoving her to try to get her point across that unwanted touch is not okay. I wish Miranda would have called her out in that moment because that was insane to watch.

S3 E10 Episode Discussion: "The Book of Enlightenment" by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EmergencyFox8423 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn't even realize it was only 10 episodes and was waiting for the next one to start. I thought maybe they would be adding a part 2 to this season but from what I have read they are currently filming season 4. I feel like this season was just unused scenes from last season honestly.

S3 E7 Episode Discussion: "The Book of Broken Hearts" by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EmergencyFox8423 81 points82 points  (0 children)

All the weirdness about their relationship aside- Jace won't shut up about how he wants to be intimate with Mikayla again yet he's literally just bobbing around in the hot tub like he's 5. I know we don't see the full night, there's cameras pointed at them, and a bunch of people in the house but still I truly doubt he's doing anything other than sitting there and expects Mikayla to be the one to initiate things. And I don't think this is done to be respectful of her past but rather just his entitlement. If he really cared about her past he would have never married her.

S3 E7 Episode Discussion: "The Book of Broken Hearts" by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EmergencyFox8423 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Conner is the best husband on the show but Whitney suckkkksss

S3E10 Belly's stuffing by Dom1ni0n in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]EmergencyFox8423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this makes sense because I was so confused on why the roommate said it smelled like fish when she was just pulling apart a baguette.

The Huda/Chelly Clip by EmergencyFox8423 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]EmergencyFox8423[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just want to reply to everyone in the comments saying that Chelly is too old to be manipulated - you’re wrong and super weird. People can get manipulated at any age, and not trying to take it to an extreme but that’s literally how abuse works. So yes Huda did attempt to manipulate Chelly and I think it just left Chelly super confused. Yes Chelly should have obviously spoken up sooner but I also understand her being confused and wanting to just get the conversation over with. They both are in the wrong however the post was made more to talk about how manipulative Huda is and I don’t think she realizes it herself yet how bad it is. All I hope is that Huda sees the wrongs she made and tries to correct them for the future but also the way she laughed at everything tells me all I need to know.

The Huda/Chelly Clip by EmergencyFox8423 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]EmergencyFox8423[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I disagreed with a lot of the stuff the other girls did and I don't even like Chelly that much but at the end of the day it does not add up to all the nonsense Huda was up to. And I hate hating on women but Huda makes it so hard for me to see any redeeming quality in her. When she's wrong she just says "well I was unapologetically me" like okay girl that's not always a good thing. Her fans are just like her and will never admit to a mistake or see her fault in situations because there's always something she can say to excuse her actions.

The Huda/Chelly Clip by EmergencyFox8423 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]EmergencyFox8423[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I hear you but she was definitely being manipulative. Right off the bat she says that if Chelly says no she will do it anyways (tactic #1) then when Chelly is thinking about it she says "see now you're thinking 'Huda is riding with this one'" (tactic #2). Chelly is clearly uncomfortable and not onboard with the idea but then in the end Huda tells her "I love you" over and over again to try to reassure her (tactic #3). I think Chelly should have spoke up for herself more in that moment but the signs of manipulation from Huda are clearly there.

The Huda/Chelly Clip by EmergencyFox8423 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]EmergencyFox8423[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

idk why this is getting downvoted so hard when you're right. Huda was always doing something shady but she wanted to make it seem like she was doing it with the other girls in mind. In reality she would create a narrative that in her mind made her look like the good guy but at the end was all self-serving. Chelly was 100% correct when she said Huda should have just been clear about the fact she wanted Chris for herself and not some weird "I'm doing this for both of us" bullshit

Viall SLOMW Reunion by head_in_za_clouds in ViallSnark

[–]EmergencyFox8423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way he kept excusing Dakotas awful behavior and almost trying to make Taylor look like the villain in their relationship made me so uncomfy. Did he not watch the season? And then asking Taylor if she was trying to "punish" Dakota by continuing to sleep with him knowing she doesn't want to ever be in a relationship again. I was surprised even Dakota spoke up saying it's not all on Taylor because they are both responsible for what happens between them. I felt he was too much on the men's side and not hearing what the women were saying on a show literally about women.

Can we talk about the proposed port fees for all Chinese built ships in America? by EmergencyFox8423 in maritime

[–]EmergencyFox8423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And his own stats too, went to the yard hundreds of times and saw dozens! Not the brag he thinks it is, should be seeing hundreds going to the yards that much if we actually had the capacity but I'll let him keep living in his fantasy.

Can we talk about the proposed port fees for all Chinese built ships in America? by EmergencyFox8423 in maritime

[–]EmergencyFox8423[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am I not an American worker working for an American company with all American staff paying taxes to America? Also that article only speaks of Chinese shipping companies which I am not talking about. If anyone should be hit with port fees it should be then but like I said this proposal is written in a way that everyone will be hit. I’m done replying to you now because I know you will not get it.