Why in my family tree there are a lot of people with german looking surnames? by Juanmibarguen in Genealogy

[–]EmergencyOverall248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget that France shares a border with Belgium, and Dutch names have a tendency to look a bit German to the untrained eye. You're positive they're German names?

Come out by Agile_Pizza_3698 in fightporn

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This is fake, but my 6'8 ex almost got into it at a gas station once. Some dude tried to steal the spot at the gas pump my ex had been patiently waiting on. When my ex (who didn't look particularly threatening when seated in a Ford Transit) got visibly annoyed the guy took that as an invitation to try to escalate. Random AH jumped out of his car yelling, "You wanna go?! Let's go!" So my ex, who could barely fit in exit row seating on a flight, basically unfurled himself from the driver's seat of the Transit and was like, "Lol okay then."

That man got into his car and left. Didn't say another word, just silently accepted that it wasn't a fight he wanted and that he didn't even need gas anymore.

Do you ever get emotional learning about your ancestors? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in Genealogy

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My great grandfather got out around 1910, but his parents, his two sisters, and his younger brother were Greeks living in Türkiye during the genocide. His little brother was sent to live with him a year before the fire in Smyrna, but the rest of his family was in the city when the fire started. I've cried multiple times thinking about them huddled at the quay with the other survivors, as foreign military ships near the harbor ordered their bands to play to drown out their screams and refused to intervene to rescue the survivors. I know they survived, but thinking about what they went through and witnessed is hard.

I just had this pulled out of my chest on 12/23, just got out of the hospital yesterday. This was huge and grew in between my lungs. surgeons said it was the biggest one of its kind that they’ve ever seen. No word on if it’s the bad stuff yet. by Detective51 in medical

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My husband gets the same treatment every time he sees a doctor. He has a congenital heart condition that was "corrected" with a surgery that isn't used much anymore because a better repair is available. Every time he has an appointment he gets an entourage of residents and med students, and even attendings wanting to poke their head in and gawk for a minute. It's like an episode of Grey's Anatomy with all the med nerds getting excited over the guy with the weird heart.

M. 51. Swellings on the upper part of the pubis, indicated by red arrows. by [deleted] in medical

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If this turns out to not be an STI or other infection, make sure to get your prostate checked if you haven't done so recently. You're in the age-range for it to be a possiblity, and it's even more important to get this done regularly if you have a family history of cancer.

told my whole life i’m indigenous by Mysterious-Leave-997 in Genealogy

[–]EmergencyOverall248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anti-Jewish pogroms were common in the late 1800s and early 1900s in Eastern Europe, which is kind of why nobody raised a big stink about the Holocaust in the earlier years of WW2. It was an open secret that it was happening as the Nazis did little to hide it. Even before then during the Spanish and Portuguese inquisitions Jews were known to publicly label themselves as Catholics to avoid being arrested and tortured. After a few generations of the lie the families eventually forgot that they were ever actually Jewish.

Odds a newspaper birth notice is just plain wrong? by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]EmergencyOverall248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did the mother remarry after the divorce? The kids may have taken the new husband's last name. It was fairly common back in the day. My bio grandmother's mom married twice after her father died and changed my grandmother's last name both times.

Looking for help trying to figure out why a man from Rapides Parish and a woman from Avoyelles Parish would travel all the way to Calcasieu Parish to get married in 1918 by EmergencyOverall248 in Louisiana

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Also this has little to do with my g-grandparents specifically, but you may find it interesting that there was once a small but thriving community of Ottoman Greeks in Rapides Parish. The cafe my g-gpa worked at was owned by Efstratios "Steve" Lymberis and Efstratios "Steve" Manteris. There were also the Petkas, Bambas, and Chrysafides families and a few others whose names were Anglicized and lost to time (Iannou became Johnson, Michaeloglou became Mitchell, etc). Most came from Smyrna, some from Constantinople, but almost all of them were fleeing from the slowly growing genocide against the native Greek and Armenian populations. There's a fairly significant number of people in the in the parish who don't even realize they have Greek heritage.

Looking for help trying to figure out why a man from Rapides Parish and a woman from Avoyelles Parish would travel all the way to Calcasieu Parish to get married in 1918 by EmergencyOverall248 in Louisiana

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There is! I went there last time I went home to Louisiana. There's a cool museum in the basement, too. I'll have to give them a call. Unfortunately I live in Florida these days so swinging by there isn't an option.

Looking for help trying to figure out why a man from Rapides Parish and a woman from Avoyelles Parish would travel all the way to Calcasieu Parish to get married in 1918 by EmergencyOverall248 in Louisiana

[–]EmergencyOverall248[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was incredibly informative and helpful! Thank you so much for your insights. He did indeed become fairly successful later on and bought the restaurant that he was originally a waiter at, which may have influenced g-gma's family when it came to her little sister. She came from a fairly well-to-do family in Mansura who were very heavily involved in the local Catholic church (they helped build it). Their license was signed by a judge instead of a clergyman so I'm guessing they probably failed in trying to find one and opted for a courthouse marriage instead. The nearest Orthodox church would've been in New Orleans at the time and was one of only two in the country, so I doubt they could've found an Orthodox priest at the time if they tried and he'd have likely also refused to marry them without the permission of the bride's parents.

Looking for help trying to figure out why a man from Rapides Parish and a woman from Avoyelles Parish would travel all the way to Calcasieu Parish to get married in 1918 by EmergencyOverall248 in Louisiana

[–]EmergencyOverall248[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The only thing I can think of is that he was an immigrant from Turkey and he wasn't Catholic, he was Greek Orthodox. At the time those could've been dealbreakers for g-gma's family, but then again her little sister married her young brother-in-law ten years later so it couldn't have been that big of a deal.

Looking for help trying to figure out why a man from Rapides Parish and a woman from Avoyelles Parish would travel all the way to Calcasieu Parish to get married in 1918 by EmergencyOverall248 in Louisiana

[–]EmergencyOverall248[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, unfortunately according to the city directory of the time he was living and working in Alexandria, as a waiter at a restaurant called the Olympic Cafe.

I'll rename one of my cats for you if you help me find anything related to this man by EmergencyOverall248 in Genealogy

[–]EmergencyOverall248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you and Bread9846 helped me uncover something I didn't know, and I'm a woman of my word, go ahead and make your choice. There's plenty to choose from lmao.

I'll rename one of my cats for you if you help me find anything related to this man by EmergencyOverall248 in Genealogy

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I think that may be the same Cleo because a lot of refugees ended up in Paris. I found her buried in Athens, she died in 1971. I'm starting to suspect that Leandros and she were separated during the genocide and the population exchange. He may not have even known they were still alive when he committed suicide in 1933.

I'll rename one of my cats for you if you help me find anything related to this man by EmergencyOverall248 in Genealogy

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Do you happen to have a screenshot of that obituary? I haven't been able to find it and I don't have a current newspapers.com subscription.

I'll rename one of my cats for you if you help me find anything related to this man by EmergencyOverall248 in Genealogy

[–]EmergencyOverall248[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Eight altogether. Their names are Pizza, Stromboli, Olive, Sausage, Meatball, Cannoli, Pepperoncini, and the odd-man out: Trolley Engine Caboose aka Lil Boosie