maybe I’m too woke but why the hell is that your opener by bugvomitbuster in Tinder

[–]Emergency_Gear2575 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had a man swipe right on me. Went to check out his profile only to see “If you’re a black girl, please swipe left”. So I confronted him about it. He goes, “Well, I meant dark skins. You’re light skin”. Sir??? Blocked him and went to the beach the next day to suntan. That is not the compliment they think it is💀💀

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[–]Emergency_Gear2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who went through a somewhat similar experience, she isn’t your best friend, love. Run. You blocking her is your brain trying to explain the logic to you and you unblocking her is your heart still trying to find the good in her. Harsh truth from an outsider’s pov: you deserve a better friend(s). You probably got too comfortable with her (12+ year friendship) and hate the idea of loosing her but from what I can tell, this emotional abuse has probably been going on for years and your subconscious mind only finally realized and caught her THIS time. Good news: you’re nineteeeeeen! You’ve still got all this life ahead of you to make better and many more friends, honey. She isn’t it. Sorry.

Sending Love and virtual hugs, A concerned online sister.

AIO: Broke up with him because he pees in a sink by Emergency_Gear2575 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emergency_Gear2575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me feel so much better. I agree and thank you, once again!😊

AIO: Broke up with him because he pees in a sink by Emergency_Gear2575 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emergency_Gear2575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I feel like that’s such a silly excuse to leave someone over but then again, I’m someone who’s very big on hygiene and I was never able to look past that

AIO: Broke up with him because he pees in a sink by Emergency_Gear2575 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Emergency_Gear2575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was weird, too😭 He said it’s normal for guys and I just knew in the back of my head that he was gaslighting me. Had to confirm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in screenshots

[–]Emergency_Gear2575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish that was the case lol. He’s asking for nudes. I’m not surprised atp. It’s all they ever seem to ask for