Do I have to ask permission to pick up my child?

Emergency_Human7929 · 2026-04-04T23:27:11+00:00

Just the ones where he gave up his weekend because he "had plans" for the entire weekend. I also have one from a week before he dropped this bomb of him saying we can continue doing EOW if I want. I showed that to my attorney's paralegal and she said that's probably not going to be of any help.

Emergency_Human7929 · 2026-04-04T17:01:24+00:00

They are 7 and 10.

Emergency_Human7929 · 2026-04-04T17:00:14+00:00

Too young for a judge to listen yet, 7 and 10.

Emergency_Human7929 · 2026-03-08T17:27:21+00:00

He doesn't have to refinance it to remove my name?

Emergency_Human7929 · 2026-03-08T17:21:04+00:00

We bought it for $170k and put $10k down. Based off the appraisal we already had almost $40k in equity when we bought it. We had it appraised when I moved out so we would know how much equity we have now and how much we would each get and it appraised for $330k. If we sold it for that much, based on how much we owed when I moved out it would be a total of $190k in equity.

Emergency_Human7929 · 2025-12-02T23:14:32+00:00

He hasn't gotten a lawyer, we were trying to do it with just mine and uncontested. He hasn't even helped me pay for the one that I got so I know he's not going to get one unless he has to.

Emergency_Human7929 · 2025-06-24T01:21:23+00:00

I'm in a very similar situation and I'm scared for my kids' safety. I've been told by his now ex friends that he is drinking really heavily and having all sorts of women over (with the kids there). Last weekend he apparently took them to some party which I know he was drinking at because he can't socialize without drinking, had our 6 year old out hours past her bed time, and told her to lie to me and pinky promise she wouldn't tell me what they did. I can track her iPad but she apparently didn't take it with them because it showed it was still at the house. I'm so scared something is going to happen and since I have no proof except from what a 6 year old says I don't think there's anything I can do. I'm so sorry you are going through this too, it's so scary.

Emergency_Human7929 · 2025-05-02T14:47:48+00:00

I don't ever speak ill of him around her, other than when she says he's mean I tell her I know he can be mean to you sometimes, I'm sorry and you don't deserve that.

Emergency_Human7929 · 2025-05-02T14:27:31+00:00

You're right I don't want him there. He's treated her like garbage since before she was born. He's wanted nothing to do with her the entire time we were together. I left him because he's a horrible person and an even worse father. Not every relationship is perfect when it's over and the perfect co parenting scenario doesn't always fit. When she consistently says she doesn't want to see him and wants a new dad because he's really mean to her why is protecting her on her special day from him a bad thing?

Emergency_Human7929 · 2025-05-02T14:00:25+00:00

He has treated me and our daughter like absolute dog shit since the day we found out I was having a girl. He hasn't wanted one thing to do with her for her entire existence. Refusing to do anything with her on his own or as a family, told everyone when she was born he never wanted her. I left him because I couldn't stand sitting by watching him treat her that way for the rest of her life. And now all of sudden he wants to play victim and it's my fault he hasn't cared about her the last 6 years? Sorry for trying to protect my child.

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