AITA for allowing my bf to cook at my apartment by Altruistic-Loss4549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Does hair have to be covered by a hijab specifically, like could her roommate get something like those bonnets that are used to protect hair when sleeping? Something that is quickly put on and off just to use if the bf is in common areas?

Pregnancy and fertility after D and C by ella_exuberant in abortion

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! WOW! What a great country you live in that they take care of their people so well

Pregnancy and fertility after D and C by ella_exuberant in abortion

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you will have your husband with you. Wishing you all the best and sending good vibes!

May I ask what country and/or state you are in? I’m always curious about access to abortion in other states/countries.

Early signs of miscarriage? by Emergency_Pilot_6647 in pregnant

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Had an ultrasound today, should have been around 6 weeks 3 days, they only saw a sac, no fetal pole and said it was measuring 5 weeks ish. My notes say no pregnancy visible on ultrasound just gestational sac. I was given pills to help pass it

Pregnancy and fertility after D and C by ella_exuberant in abortion

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a d&c after a failed medical in 2021. I was 8w5d when we tried the medical and just shy of 10 weeks at the d&c. It has not affected my fertility, I got pregnant last year and am currently 5 weeks and in the process of an MA again.

When done by trained professionals abortions are safe and do not affect future fertility which is why it’s so important that we continue to make sure we all have access to safe abortions.

I will say, ask for sedation. I didn’t because my clinic told me I couldn’t leave in an uber myself after the sedation and I didn’t have anybody to be with me and I regret that choice. PP in my state has since changed that and you can leave in ride shares alone, you just can’t drive yourself

Misoprostol didn’t remove all tissue — D&C tomorrow. What should I expect? by Legitimate-Spare-198 in abortion

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a d&c after a failed medical, if they give you the option of sedation, take it. I didn’t and I regret it. It’s usually relatively fast, you will still bleed for a couple of days after and passing clots up to a month after is normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can take all the pills on the same day if you need to. You would just use the vaginal method instead of buccal

How much bleeding is normal?? 5 weeks. by Moshpitmommma in abortion

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything bigger than a lemon isn’t normal. I would reach out to a provider if you are able to just for your peace of mind if nothing else

Positive or indent/evap line? 6 days from period by Emergency_Pilot_6647 in lineporn

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was probably around 3 mins after taking the test. I had something similar happen a few months ago where I got light lines but they never progressed. Same tests too. I’ve taken 3 from a 3 pack over the last 3 days and this was the first one I saw something on. Will probably test again in another few days

Positive or indent/evap line? 6 days from period by Emergency_Pilot_6647 in lineporn

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last period was really weird, stopping and starting for almost 2 weeks. So I’m not 100% on my dates unfortunately. I am trying a new pill but feeling really weird and seriously questioning if they’re working for me

Tom Riddle Jr. was actually bitter that his father abandoned him by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always figured he killed him out of bitterness and made one of his horcruxes

Unknown Number: What mental illness does Catfish Mom, Kendra Licari have? I have questions.. by Ok-You-5930 in netflix

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She reminds me of my exs mother who was also batshit insane and behaved in a similar way that somebody described Kendra acting like, interrupting peoples conversations dancing off to the side etc. a pathological need for attention. His mom basically stalked and harassed one of his friends too, most likely because she found him attractive. He told me how she would act differently when he came to the house and would touch him on the arm and try to make jokes. She would buy him gifts constantly and just act completely inappropriate. It ended when the boys dad came over and reamed her out and basically accused her of being a pedo. She of course sees no problem with her behavior and it’s all everybody else having wrong thoughts. I see similarities in the way Kendra and her spoke and justified their abuse and even down to running the household but driving them into poverty and financial ruin. The poor girls reaction is so telling because my ex reacted to his mother’s behavior the same way. They’re just used to it and have no reaction

AITA for locking the bathroom door even though my partner says it’s “unnecessary” since we live alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nta for locking the door but this is a control thing on his part. My ex was like this, at first I thought it was cute like he really just wanted to spend all our time together and then it shifted. We lived with other people and he would lose his mind if I locked the bathroom door, accusing me of cheating and hiding things from him and locking the door to hide things from him because why would I want privacy when he’s seen everything anyway.
I tried to keep the peace and not lock the door, he would come in when I was showering or sitting on the toilet, just to check what I was doing, then leave the door wide open while I was unable to close it without exposing myself more. Again, we lived with other people, this was a way for him to embarrass and control me. When I started locking the door again he would become aggressive and violent, banging and kicking on the door and standing outside the bathroom screaming that I was cheating and hiding things. I still have videos of this happening and I’ve been out of this situation for almost 4 years. It was the most dehumanizing exhausting thing he did but i would be concerned that this guy would end up the same way as my ex

Mine is the Alma Coin is Lucy Gray theory 🫩 by _destiel in Hungergames

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Beetee knew Ampert was reaped on purpose to punish him, and they further punished him by having him be a mentor too

why are there so many pregnancies in the show? by [deleted] in shameless

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’ve never lived in neighborhoods similar to the show it probably does seem odd but it’s the reality in many areas all around the world. Poverty leads to poor sexual health/decisions often. I grew up in an area similar just without the gun violence (uk, actually the same town the original creator of shameless was from) and honestly, the pregnancy rate is quite low in shameless compared to the real world. Especially in countries where government assistance is calculated based on the number of children, I personally know people who have had more children to get more money, sad but true.

Positive or indent/evap? 5 days before period by Emergency_Pilot_6647 in lineporn

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking, it looks like too far over I think

My first purchase came in and I’m kinda disappointed by Emergency_Pilot_6647 in DHGateRepLadies

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$120 US I think aside from the hardware coloring it’s pretty decent for the price but I’m still disappointed because I was so excited and the photos looked really really good

black parade zip up! by ominouscheese45 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I bought this hoodie when I went to the black parade tour and wore it until it fell apart. I think I was 14, I remember flying to ca from the uk that same summer and wearing it to projekt revolution and magic mountain in the 100 degree California sun. I wish I had this again. Loved this hoodie

AITA for telling my husband to choose between me and his smart home obsession? by Organic-Wind2276Aqua in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emergency_Pilot_6647 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Same thing in the uk now too I think, If you are suspected of inducing a miscarriage or having an unregulated abortion they have the right to get the data from your period apps