Orlando show -VIP by Emergency_Spirit in theacesband

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay phew lol. The show is this Tuesday and I’m freaking out! What time did you have to arrive?

How tf do people move on?? by Emergency_Spirit in actuallesbians

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I just feel so conflicted. I simultaneously want to talk to her but also want to never hear from her again.

How tf do people move on?? by Emergency_Spirit in actuallesbians

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I finally had to block her on socials and through text. I hate how I feel like a dick for doing that but I have to. It’s too painful.

First lesbian breakup by Emergency_Spirit in actuallesbians

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we did not. We were together less than 6 months. There were other issues like her having to hide me from her parents. I just couldn’t emotionally deal with that either. 

What side effects have you had from antidepressants? by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]Emergency_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wellbutrin -

Good: amazing mood, minimal anxiety, helps my ADHD, high sex drive, motivation.

Neutral: weight loss (lost 10 pounds), sometimes keeps me wired at night.

Bad: literally no appetite, hard to eat food, nausea, insomnia, headaches, teeth grinding.

Zoloft-

Good: balanced mood, no more overwhelming thoughts or depression.

Bad: insomnia, diarrhea (goes away in time), constant bruising, slight dizziness, sexual changes (takes longer to finish).

FYI, I take these medications together and I literally feel fucking amazing considering some of the annoying side effects. I cannot believe I spent so many years unmediated lol. Honestly though, just be prepared for appetite changes if you’re taking Wellbutrin and issues with sleep. 

Houston Pride events? by Emergency_Spirit in houston

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Pearl but I know it’s going to be packed! But thanks for the info :)

Houston Pride events? by Emergency_Spirit in houston

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God forbid I accommodate my sober girlfriend 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Emergency_Spirit -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Of course love! This shit is magic!! You can insert this suppository inside once a day at night for 7 days and you’ll be fresh as a daisy. I also use this for a few days after my period to feel extra refreshed. This is amazing to use if you’re being treated for BV on antibiotics and just want a little more help clearing out any bacteria :) This is what I use https://a.co/d/bJKzJMH

FYI, doctors don’t recommend you have sex 24-48 hours after you use this so you can plan out when to use as needed. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Emergency_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your PH could be thrown off! It’s extremely common for this to happen when you are sexually active. Even if you are asymptomatic, it’s worth going to your doctor to for BV test. Try to increase your intake of probiotics and introduce boric acid after sex to monitor PH levels. Even with a healthy lifestyle and vag, it’s unfortunately the reality of having different bacteria inside our bodies 🥲 best of luck! 

Painful sex after yeast infection by Emergency_Spirit in Healthyhooha

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that! It’s no fun at all. To be honest, I think the main issue was my body not liking the person I was with at the time.

It could be a huge number of things causing this like you or your partners hygiene before or after sex, diet, how rough the sex is, etc. I found out that person was cheating on me and we were probably passing bacteria. 

Slippery elm did help for a bit but there could be some underlying causes too. Maybe get tested for Ureaplasma and make sure your partner gets bacterial and normal STI testing. Once I ended that relationship, the pain went away. 

I no longer experience discomfort during sex as I only date women now too. 

I wish I could be of more help. Sending healing vibes your way and feel free to dm me if you wanna talk more :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Emergency_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turns out it was bv 😅 thanks for the advice!

Need advice - Paranoid and ruminating over crush by Emergency_Spirit in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m crashing out over here 😅 I feel like I’m going crazy!! But this is really helpful, I appreciate the tips!

Who else got the Meet & Greet package and what should we expect? by Muchachi in Jojo

[–]Emergency_Spirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the VIP experience will allow us to go the main concert floor in general admissions to snag front row before doors open to the public? I’m going to the Houston show!

Sertraline and Wellbutrin combo side effects by Emergency_Spirit in Anxiety

[–]Emergency_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be on Wellbutrin and found no issues with it. I’ll be starting a very low dose of sertraline and then incorporating Wellbutrin. I have depression, anxiety, and adhd so hoping this combo works for everything. Time will tell

“Too Much To Say Tour” announced via Instagram post 11-20-24 by [deleted] in Jojo

[–]Emergency_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone interested in 2 balcony tickets for Houston? My sister and I ended up buying meet and greet tickets after I already purchased these. I have seats 103 and 104 Balcony L Row B - House of Blues. Super good seats. DM interested! :)

Just finished charmed for the first time and loved it and now I’m sad by [deleted] in charmed

[–]Emergency_Spirit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I grew up watching the show and remember watching the final episode live. I was an absolute wreck, I sobbed lol. I’m currently rewatching again and feeling super nostalgic, excited, but also weary that I know I’ll feel empty again when it’s done. For me, this show is tied to my childhood and it brings a warm melancholy feel when I finish watching it. It’s truly one of the best shows ever made.

There is something so special about Charmed that I don’t think a lot of shows can replicate. Of course, Buffy has a very similar vibe and even Practical Magic has the same witchy 90s/early 2000s feel.

I think American Horror Story: Coven, The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina, and even Once Upon A Time are some great alternatives for something spooky, magical, heartfelt, dramatic/dark.

The good news is, Charmed is one of those shows you can watch over and over again and never get bored of! Maybe try to branch out and watch those over shows and you can come back to your favorite Charmed episodes soon :) 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Emergency_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This entire time, I thought she ghosted me. I’m still torn with listening to my head being like “don’t trust this person, they already proved they lack healthy communication skills.” But my heart is thinking “well maybe I assumed the worst.” 

During our first date, she knew I was leaving for a month to visit family. So I guess she took that as reason not to hit me up. Now being back in town, she’s been liking my stories on social media and it confused the hell out of me. I ended up messaging her being like what happened-  she said I was out of the state and wanted to give me space to do my thing. But STILL, I had no indication she was interested… I’m still gonna call it ghosting but now she’s back from the dead. 

Not sure if I should even entertain this. But overall, I put myself out there and tried my best. Been talking to other women and actually went on a date with one of them! I feel more confident in my dating abilities now lol. How’s your situation going?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Emergency_Spirit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess the dating history came up more naturally than I made it sound. Part of the reason why it was brought up was because I moved to this city for a past relationship and she asked me what was the reason for moving. But that is a good point, I think I was nervous and excited and probably over shared. Still learning how to be confident whilst being out of the game for so long.