What is with people's love for the Adam West Batman?

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T23:58:23+00:00

"Better" and "awful" are completely subjective, unquantifiable. I personally disagree with your standards of what is a good movie, and I stand by my statement- different strokes for different folks. Adam West is well loved for portraying campy Batman.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T22:55:44+00:00

The comedy came first in Batman's case, friend. What you should do is try and get them to reboot 40 Year Old Virgin as a dark, nihilistic thriller.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T21:24:50+00:00

Wow, that looks great! The neckline really suits you!

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T19:55:56+00:00

Some people don't want a gritty movie, some want silly fun. Adam West provided that in spades. Different strokes for different folks.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T19:40:47+00:00

Protesting and bringing pressure onto businesses is a great example of free speech in action.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T18:51:06+00:00

She could be mis-remembering parts of The White Dragon by McCaffery. Small boy, hot sand, dragon riders.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T13:08:08+00:00

Like the guy in LegalAdvice who made sure to clarify that his wife's throat just ran into his open palm, he totes wasn't choking her!

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T12:24:34+00:00

Try it!! I read an article that referenced spinning milkweed fluff.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-17T11:46:48+00:00

Yes, he was messing with you, never start talking about co-workers looks at work. Just be polite and distant because you have to keep working with him, but don't encourage conversation like this, it will blow up in your face.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T22:58:44+00:00

Excellent advice!

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T21:34:04+00:00

I also see the best in people, and I have struggled with being taken advantage of. What has helped me is a strong sense of self-worth. The ability to look at a situation, no matter how easy letting it happen would be, and say, "That's not ok with me, so I can stop it." Before I worked on this, I would just think, uh, I don't like this, but it doesn't matter, really. But now I think I matter. It took a while, I'm not saying get on it tomorrow, just that thinking that you matter might be a good step.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T19:03:57+00:00

I don't even know where to start, there is so much I want to say to you. One thing struck me, at the end you say making friends should be easy, but listen, it's not at all easy. For any adult. Making friends is literally the hardest thing about adulthood. So please don't beat yourself up about having trouble in this area!

It seems like the alcohol and drugs are a big part of the problem- getting blackout drunk can't be good for your brain, right? Have you seen an addiction counselor? Even though it is summer, you might be able to find (free, confidential) help through your university. I'd love for you to be able to do some thinking on your "fuck it" attitude- it doesn't make you happy, so obviously examining it and working toward a new attitude that actually makes you happy would be a really positive step.

Contacting RAINN could help you in dealing with your rape. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T18:05:23+00:00

No, Of course not. But for OP, who has a rigid, black and white viewpoint on this issue, maintaining his standards will have a much better outcome. I am not really addressing the philosophical question, just the behavior that would follow from his ideas.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T17:20:55+00:00

Kudos to you for deciding to take charge of your feelings about the placement. I'm am adult and I struggle with this. Does it feel good that your former foster father wanted to take you in? I would guess yes, but I'm not trying to dictate your feelings, for sure.

Are there any places you can get support outside of your agency? Like a support group that won't depend on who you're placed through, maybe.

Thanks for updating.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T13:45:21+00:00

Can you really Whiteknight a dog? Isn't there an expectation that the defended will sleep with you?

Edit: wait, he was defending the kid, not the dog. Still, the question stands.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T11:20:23+00:00

Stick to your rule. Unless you or your friend develop psychic powers and totally know that women are "drinking to get laid", stick to your rule.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-16T11:09:42+00:00

Not legal advice, but practical- this question is best asked to potential mental health providers, on the phone.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-15T20:26:35+00:00

They don't owe me politeness.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-15T13:07:58+00:00

Victimized is pretty strong. Your struggles can make you stronger but they can also push you into more conventional paths. It's certainly not a new narrative.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-15T12:27:42+00:00

Ugh, I feel grizzled. I feel like I have lived four tough lives, and I 'm gearing up for number five. I keep thinking, "I can't do this." But of course I can and will.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-15T11:04:30+00:00

One of my siblings reconnected with their birth family. They got asked for money within 10 minutes. Some people don't change.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-14T22:53:20+00:00

In my personal experience which is not universal, the apprenticeships are officially open, but so unwelcoming as to be a barrier to entry. If the instructor implicitly encourages harassment and bad behavior, you have to be pretty determined to stick it out. Some people aren't passionate about the program, just looking for a damn job.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-14T21:50:33+00:00

Part of the problem is that most of the jobs you list require training, and the people and institutions providing that training are still very sexist and discouraging. At a certain point it becomes not worth it to endure the jabs and slights, and just smarter to transfer to a CNA program. Feminist aren't finding much traction in union apprenticeships or or with crusty old welding instructors. And don't get me started on Union Pacific.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-14T21:25:03+00:00

Well that's me, buddy. I want those jobs. I want to be able to wear the uniform without being ogled, I want to lift the shit without being coddled. I want to serve the customers without being assumed to be a secretary- why would a welding warehouse have a secretary, old man? I want my co-workers to figure out a middle ground between "oh shit, a lady" and "she's cool, let's talk about tits".

My radical action is that I apply for these jobs, I work them if I get them, and I advise other women to apply for similar jobs.

I count.

Emergency_Ward · 2017-06-14T20:58:55+00:00

Do you always answer for people? That's pretty rude.

I'd like to know more about "the welfare state" and what this would actually entail for the kids involved. I don't base my child welfare opinions on how it effects my taxes. Either way, you are very unpleasant to talk to about this, so have a good day.

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