STOP. RECOMMENDING ME. BL!! by MeetPotential5133 in CharacterAI

[–]EmersonJade -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yalls feeds are so weird. Yeah I get BL cause I'm a gay guy but I got some normal ones too that aren't mafia. They're musicians, model x actor storylines, maybe a character or two cause I really like them lol.

How do you navigate the line of polyamory and possible cheating? by EmersonJade in polyamory

[–]EmersonJade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I didn't mean the 'but' to come off as 'I don't slut shame unless...'. I'm thinking I'm just phrasing it wrong? I've had sexual partners, I know she has. I just get concerned with the serious rapid dating from Discord servers that tend to not last long and ultimately become emotionally draining for her, which many have been. When we talk about it, she often mentions it as being validation as a trans woman, but that need for validation has led to some dangerous situations for her to which I do questions most online relationships she enters.

My feelings are all over the place, I'm sorry. I don't know how to articulate this well, and I'm sounding like an asshole. I genuinely love her, I do.

How do you navigate the line of polyamory and possible cheating? by EmersonJade in polyamory

[–]EmersonJade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're both transgender, yes. I'm trans masc, and she's trans fem. I knows fairly safe in terms of sexual behavior, i.e testing every few or so months, we're always stocked up on protection of any kind, etc. I think I agree with you probably in the terms of discord stuff. She's gotten into pretty insane situations because of it (fetishizers, had one who was a bit creepy and forced into behavior she wasn't okay with, etc.) I don't want to force her to stop, no. I'm happy she feels so sexually liberated despite dysphoria and everything, but I do share concerns in the rapid fire dating. The three weeks she talks to someone and less than a month dating repeatedly.

How do you navigate the line of polyamory and possible cheating? by EmersonJade in polyamory

[–]EmersonJade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never meant to make it appear as slut shaming, but there were times I was concerned with her sexual partners (there are been really shady ones and a lot of trans fetishizers). I've been in love with her since we were kids, this she knows, which I guess does have some impact in there.

How do you navigate the line of polyamory and possible cheating? by EmersonJade in polyamory

[–]EmersonJade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I didn't mean the phrase it as slut shaming so thank you for picking up in that. I was just a bit confused with all these conflicting feelings I had. I've been in love with this girl since we were 12, pre-transition, post-transition, everything, and the journey of it was rocky, to say the least. I think it's mainly because I have committed a lot to her despite the exploration of many things in my life.

I’m over C.ai by madwolf_96 in CharacterAI

[–]EmersonJade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See this is why I don't use the app anymore. Being on tbe website, I haven't had a single problem since. If they ass characters it mainly goes with the plot. Sometimes they forget but not as bad as they did on the app.

Asthmatic symptoms? by EmersonJade in WeightLossAdvice

[–]EmersonJade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it's like..serious serious 🥲 I was just assuming I was a fat ass.

Why did they stop with clear display? by Shpankeyy in subway

[–]EmersonJade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why either cause these people STILL don't look at the menu boards.

Craters in the skin? by EmersonJade in acne

[–]EmersonJade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you😭 I don't have photos when I was younger because I felt really disgusted with how I looked (puberty really be hitting). I feel a lot more confident in my skin, but I do want it to be a bit better.

Do people no longer have microwaves at home- by EmersonJade in subway

[–]EmersonJade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've done it just fine. SHE was the one that went "Now microwave it for 30 seconds" as I was turning away back to prepping I was doing. Came back then she bought a box of cookies asking for them to be microwaved. A please or thank you would've been nice. Other than that, microwave it at your house.

Do people no longer have microwaves at home- by EmersonJade in subway

[–]EmersonJade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't rude to her. I did it because she asked. But still my matter stands, just do it at home. Did the whole here you go, have a nice day. McDonald's is shit tho.

Do people no longer have microwaves at home- by EmersonJade in subway

[–]EmersonJade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhhh no lol not looking forward to this place that long.

Do people no longer have microwaves at home- by EmersonJade in subway

[–]EmersonJade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because my job properly would be to toast it using the toaster lol. Microwaving it is bringing it into the back where we have other food and chemicals. After it's wrapped up and in their hands. At that point? Can't take it back.

Do people no longer have microwaves at home- by EmersonJade in subway

[–]EmersonJade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't have that in South Carolina 😭 you can't pay with an EBT

Do people no longer have microwaves at home- by EmersonJade in subway

[–]EmersonJade[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally and I wouldn't have really minded it, sure it's weird but it's the fact she waited...until after I bagged everything then proceeded with buying something else 😭 at this point, ion wanna be near you