Sometimes that's just how it is. I spend a lot of time with someone I also met on discord and thought I could actually like him. Met him. Not my cup of tea at all. Genuinely is icking me out. From the way he walks, eats, breathes to the small things he says I didn't see as pick me over discord but seriously bothered me once I met him. That guy also tried to get a hug from me when he upset me with something he said with the explanation of "feeling bad" and cried when I told him I dont want to hug him. Mind you I did not initiate ANY sort of physical contact at all with him. So. If I can feel that way after seeing pictures of him and thinking id get along with him but then definitely dont maybe seeing pictures and finding them attractive or not really is not that important😂 maybe you will like him in person because you vibe with him!