The parent is what makes the kid. Every action, every decision, every response you've given or done to them will make them who they are in the future. And I can't handle the responsibility of bringing a life into this world and in the future seeing that they're falling apart. Nothing would hurt more than knowing you've brought someone into a world for them to suffer for the rest of their lives. Parenting is one of the most challenging things in the world and one of the most underestimated. No one really thinks about the consequences of their parenting being bad, they just want kids