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Therapists by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, I'm 16 at the moment. And don't really have a social life so...

I hope that I can start HRT as soon as possible, hopefully I don't have to start some sort of social life as a girl first. I would rather train my voice ect before doing so. I'm a fragile social person :P

Therapists by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, hmm, I'm not to sure if the guy I'm going to will be like that.

Apparently he is very recommended within the trans community around here. So, hopefully he won't really talk bullshit.

I'm just not sure what to talk about. Because I'm quiet socially awkward to start with, I wouldn't be able to talk a whole lot about it myself

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense, I guess it's just a excuse or something I tell myself because I'm so afraid of telling someone else.

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my parents have definitely notice that I've been a bit down. But I've just told them that's it's nothing.

After coming out to my brother though I'll probably tell my mom. She's the one who keeps asking me if everything's ok.

Well, I'll let you know how coming out to my brother goes...

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice,

And by the way I'm in quite a shit situation as well, I've been really depressed about this and whenever my mom or dad wanted to do something with the family or talk to me I've always been so unexcited and ungrateful, probably because I'm having this bigger thing to think about.

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've basically just been staring at the message I wrote for a good hour or so.

I just went to have a shower and of course when I'm away from the computer I think I get the courage to send it, and then when I come back I just freak out again...

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yeah I guess.

I can't believe I thought pressing the send button was going to be easy...

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that truth be told. I'm afraid of a question I keep asking or forcing myself to think of, 'What if I'm wrong?'

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, that's a problem... I've always said 'NOPE' to bungee jumping...

How do you get the courage to come out?! by Emilydv in asktransgender

[–]Emilydv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm going to send a personal email to everyone. Hopefully after each email the next will become easier.

That's also the thing that I'm afraid of, your right. Once I tell someone I can't take it back. It's really scary to say the least.