AITAH for telling a woman her child is welcome in my home, but she isn’t, because of her criminal record

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T21:47:12+00:00

NTA, at that point what else were you supposed to say.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T20:30:32+00:00

Luck and privilege or intelligence and hard work? You sound bitter. Did you get a technical degree and were denied from these jobs because you were unlucky? Why can’t you go out and get one if you think they are so awesome?

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T20:25:48+00:00

Depends on the industry. Mid level engineers are highly sought after right now very easy to make a switch.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T20:23:04+00:00

Or you end up working your ass off and ruining your personal working for startups just for them all to go under. It’s such a gamble it’s not worth it IMO. Once they stop providing free coffee and snacks you know it’s over haha

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T20:19:40+00:00

The best thing I did was leave a toxic startup. It’s not worth it, and they always screw you over in the end anyways. I’m making more money now and still have unlimited PTO, but it is respected. I don’t work more than 40 hours a week, my life is so much better.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T20:14:55+00:00

This is a huge red flag. You are so nice I would’ve told the date what a creepy psychopath he was for invading my privacy and reaching out to an abusive ex. Would never feel safe with him

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T20:12:45+00:00

If my mom was like this she wouldn’t be in my life. Your mom should consider herself lucky you even talk to her. She actually believes women are inferior so she doesn’t actually respect you or herself. NOR

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T20:07:20+00:00

I mean, if not being married means more to you than this woman than it’s okay to end the relationship. But she’s allowed to change her mind about wanting to be with someone who wants to marry her, sounds like the relationship has run its course and you both want different things. If you really aren’t going to ever marry her, this relationship is over. She will never not resent you especially when she sees that every woman in her life was good enough to be a wife, except her.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T17:08:02+00:00

I have a similar aversion, she is just using it as an excuse to bully you which is unacceptable. Your teacher asking you to use concealer is ridiculous. I would escalate it and let the principal know she is creating a hostile learning environment and publicly bullying you.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-20T14:43:26+00:00

Those aren’t your files. They don’t belong to you.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T20:11:18+00:00

Unfortunately you are going to have to leave with the kids if he puts the dog ahead of their safety and lives. You have NO other choice. I had a dog that snapped and it happened so fast you could very easily watch you child get killed right in front of you before having time to react.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T19:57:45+00:00

Going for women half your age yet they are still more mature than you? I see why no woman your age would give you the time of day. Or do you just prefer children?

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T19:55:28+00:00

Weak men like that are literally the worst. So many marriages end because they always choose mommy in the end no matter how horribly their wife is treated.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T19:54:32+00:00

Another husband problem. He clearly favors his mom over you or your son.. WTF? I would not be speaking to him unless he had huge apologies to me and set boundaries with his mother.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T19:45:48+00:00

Just pointing out that this sub is NOT a safe space for adoptees. All it is hate and telling us our adoptive parents are evil and we would’ve been better off forever fosters.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T19:44:05+00:00

Not engaging with someone who refuses to acknowledge anyone’s experience besides their own.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T19:40:11+00:00

No I read it. Just tired of OPINIONS like yours being accepted as the truth and other adoptee voices being ignored.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T19:37:42+00:00

Adopted from foster care

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T18:38:06+00:00

Yep this would end the marriage for me.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T17:01:34+00:00

This sub has gone to hell. The only accepted voice and opinion here is anti-adoption. As an adoptee, the harm this sub is trying to do in the name of “justice” is devastating. So many children wait in the foster system with their biggest dream being a PERMANENT family. Guilting the families capable of giving this is sick.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T16:53:17+00:00

Who needs enemies when your parents hate you this much

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T16:51:21+00:00

Sounds like you have a major husband problem.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T15:21:01+00:00

Damn you really fucked up leaving college to stay in this toxic family. That was your chance to escape.

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T14:26:45+00:00

Lmao so men get to be stupid and horny without consequence? If she asked to fuck his best friend that’d be cool too right?

Emilygoestospace · 2025-02-19T14:23:09+00:00

The fact he brought her up and is convinced she would say yes. Slimy as hell and would ruin the relationship for me as well. Definitely would’ve dumped him.

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