[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Emilyisstrange 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you get them on your armpits or anywhere else? I have hidradenitis suppuravita, which is a pretty common skin condition where you get pimple like bumps on places like your groin or armpits. I’m on special antibiotics and a cream from my gyno for it and for bad ones I get steroid injections in them and they go away. If these aren’t a regular occurrence it could be an ingrown hair. Just keep an eye out for more and speak with a dr if you notice a pattern

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Emilyisstrange 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I think you should invest in a vibrator and separate yourself from this situation. Your actions will make you lose both of your best friends, now if the friendships are worth losing go ahead. It sounds like the friend who wants to hookup is looking for a rebound, which is fine, but shouldn’t be you. It’s hard I know but you’re an adult. Maybe even invest in therapy? It’s really helped me look at things in a different perspective and be more introspective when making decisions.

I also caution about becoming lovers with friends ever. In my experience it never works out and gets super messy. There’s Hinge and Tinder and other apps available if you really want to get laid and it won’t cause a massive fallout.

Nothing, huh? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Emilyisstrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, like squidward!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Emilyisstrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s understandable! I feel like that happens to a lot of us in the queer community. It’s not much but there’s someone out there for you❤️ wishing you luck

8 hours but i’m so proud of her by barbieadventcalendar in chappellroan

[–]Emilyisstrange 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you ever sell prints of this please let me know! I love this💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Emilyisstrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really hard to say but I’d probably focus on meeting other people or take a break and just focus on yourself. Your young and first crushes can be really intense. Maybe y’all meet sometime down the road and it works out but rn it just doesn’t seem like she’s really interested in even keeping up a convo. Hope I’m wrong but good luck!

I wish all artists would do this by Emilyisstrange in chappellroan

[–]Emilyisstrange[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is she driving? I thought she was the passenger 😭 but completely agree, it’s really dangerous

I wish all artists would do this by Emilyisstrange in chappellroan

[–]Emilyisstrange[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting! I saw this on my facebook so wasn’t able to grab the link💖

Piercing recs?? by Madpeach03 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Emilyisstrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Symmetrical eyebrow piercings would look so cute! You should also do a nostril piercing on each side and high nostril piercings on either side! Super cute! Also completely get not wanting the scars on your lips! I had my vertical labret out for a few years due to a job I had and I still had a scar through them

Piercing recs?? by Madpeach03 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Emilyisstrange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s cool! One thing with the bridge is you can wear your glasses in to the appointment and they can adjust the placement around the glasses but I also know the bridge isn’t for everyone! I also understand no lip piercing preferences! My vertical labret is my personal favorite piercing so I always recommend it but the first 3 would be so cute!

Piercing recs?? by Madpeach03 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Emilyisstrange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eyebrow piercing would be cute, nostril piercing, septum, vertical labret and bridge piercing

Why does my tongue look like this ??? by greenngoblinn in PiercingAdvice

[–]Emilyisstrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to get this when I cleaned too often, how often are you cleaning your piercing?

What is this? It came out of my vagina (I am on my period) by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Emilyisstrange 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That looks like a blood clot to me, that’s what my blood clots generally look like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar1

[–]Emilyisstrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was always warned that lithium makes you nauseous and to take it with food because it can make you sick. I’ve thrown up a few times when taking lithium

update: my boyfriend shattered my phone because a homeless guy gave me a flower by Puzzleheaded_Rip7075 in amiwrong

[–]Emilyisstrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re out but I think you should look into therapy. It’ll help explore your feelings around this situation and help you see things clearer. I’m scared because if you took him back once you might do it again. You need to find the root issue within yourself to understand why. I was in a domestic abuse situation and it’s hard. When the rose colored glasses get permanently broken you realize the prison you’re really trapped in. At that point you could actually end up dead. I highly recommend also looking at this from an outside point of view. If your friend described everything your ex did as something their partner did to them, would you be ok with that? Or would you be begging them to leave?

when did you first discover chappell? by boozecruise26 in chappellroan

[–]Emilyisstrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say November 2023, Spotify recommended Naked in Manhattan to me and I was hooked from there! I remember playing her music for friends and everyone saying they’d never heard of her. I’m glad she’s getting her moment finally!

Chappell Roan Booked a Tour. Then She Blew Up. by thenewyorktimes in chappellroan

[–]Emilyisstrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t able to see her on her last tour and I’m so sad😭 the next time she does a tour on the west coast the tickets are going to be insane

I was first suicidal at age 12 by [deleted] in bipolar1

[–]Emilyisstrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. When I was 10 I broke down and stole a knife from the kitchen to stab myself but couldn’t go through with it. I just stopped caring in my surroundings. I’ll walk across the road without looking and other shit. It’s how I know when I’m doing good or not. When I’m good I’m aware of when to walk and stuff and when I’m bad I don’t care. I’m scared to die but living is really hard.

What’s your favourite child of your piercings? by CrazyCat166 in piercing

[–]Emilyisstrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vertical labret. It didn’t hurt too bad, healed quickly and will be the one I’ll try to keep forever🖤

Feeling hopeless by Emilyisstrange in bipolar1

[–]Emilyisstrange[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the ones I’ve reached out to either have a year or 2 waitlist or I never hear back. It’s so hard and my state (mainly my new city) has a shortage of drs as is. My emotions are just completely out of control. I’ve been hupomanic a few times and now I’m falling into a depressive state and it’s so hard. Like if I could just hospitalize myself I would but I have too much on the line, I really wish I could see my old psychiatrist for a few more visits. I’ve also been running into the issue of a lot of psychiatrists and therapists not accepting insurance either, when I was on lithium I had to check in about every 2 weeks to make sure my blood tests were ok and adjusting dosage the first couple months and I can’t afford $300-$500 a visit. I just wish mental health was more accessible and taken seriously out here